Hey everyone, this is my first post. I just started the whole PUA thing. No real routines or anything, just vibing and being confident around girls. I know it says on the FAQ if you ask about advice about a girl you already lost, but I think I can recover this.
I started having sex with this girl a few months ago, and we kinda developed feelings. Over the summer I couldn't visit because of logistics and stuff (We're in college), but the first night back we had sex. Then I took her home again a few days later. The next day I found out from a friend that she was upset and confused/didn't know if I liked her. He told me to tell her how I felt about her and I stupidly agreed. When i told her she said she wasn't looking for anything, but still wanted to know if I was going out that night and said maybe she'd see me there. It's been like two weeks and I haven't spoken to her, except last night when I asked if she was going out so I could try and bang her again. She didn't have her phone so when I saw her out I assumed she didn't respond and ignored her. I got a text later that night from her saying she had left her phone at home because it wasn't working.
I heard from a friend of hers that she still likes me, but doesn't want a boyfriend.
My question is have I made myself look like a pussy? If I could I'd like to keep banging her, and maybe turn it into something, but I don't really know where to go from here. It seems different from other situations because I've already had sex with her a bunch of times, and the girl is really awkward andhard to talk to sometimes.
Any advice would be awesome, thanks guys.
I started having sex with this girl a few months ago, and we kinda developed feelings. Over the summer I couldn't visit because of logistics and stuff (We're in college), but the first night back we had sex. Then I took her home again a few days later. The next day I found out from a friend that she was upset and confused/didn't know if I liked her. He told me to tell her how I felt about her and I stupidly agreed. When i told her she said she wasn't looking for anything, but still wanted to know if I was going out that night and said maybe she'd see me there. It's been like two weeks and I haven't spoken to her, except last night when I asked if she was going out so I could try and bang her again. She didn't have her phone so when I saw her out I assumed she didn't respond and ignored her. I got a text later that night from her saying she had left her phone at home because it wasn't working.
I heard from a friend of hers that she still likes me, but doesn't want a boyfriend.
My question is have I made myself look like a pussy? If I could I'd like to keep banging her, and maybe turn it into something, but I don't really know where to go from here. It seems different from other situations because I've already had sex with her a bunch of times, and the girl is really awkward andhard to talk to sometimes.
Any advice would be awesome, thanks guys.