Quote: (02-14-2018 11:16 AM)Black Caesar Wrote:
Yeah sure there are some cute girls but let's be real more often it's a D league girl that needs the online leverage to get her access to options.
Some is an understatement, and also should note I rarely use Tinder, I use Bumble, so that's a day and night different.
I'd agree Tinder is D league, but bumble is definitely top tier.
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Yeah sure I can clean up online with some basic stuff and really any guy that has his shit together should be able to do the same. Very easy, have done it since those guys were paying sororities to get hot girls online
Most guys who have their shit together, don't have any game, or minimum at best, hence the 80/20 ratio.
Paying sororites to get hot girls online ? Are you talking about pay for play ?
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Agreed mostly you're going to complain if you can't keep up with stuff. But still you will get better return to just hit spots a few days a week and build a life that gets you easy access to actual high-tier women because they are not really hanging out on dating apps.
This goes back to the denial that cute girls DON'T get online, which isn't true at all, they definitely do.
So explain to me, what kind of lifestyle do you have ? How often do you approach girls ? How many numbers per approach ? Whats your close rate like ? How many dates ?
I think this is important to know, stats are good to know, so guys have goals of what to go after.
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Yeah dog if it takes more than 30 minutes to get a good lead or you get rejected 29 times then it's either bad Game or bad Location but most likely it's both.
Okay so since you're new here, I'm curious to know your stats (above). What has been your experiences like ? Do you live in a large metro ?
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Look I've burnt online down no issues and like I said if it works it works but I've never seen how it is better on any of these scales.
Guys sitting hours up swiping away on girls and messaging trying to get them out then when they get out it's a 50/50 chance the girl is interesting or even looks like her pictures.
There's PLENTY of easy to filter out shitty quality chicks, and that's just a touch of a few buttons on your phone.
The same could be said about a girl you meet in person, she could still be boring or not really interesting after the initial number close, I've seen this happen plenty of times. There's the initial spark and then it's wack.
If a guy is staying hours on apps, of course that's a major problem, and I'd tell em to cut back, but if you spend maybe 20-30 minutes throughout the day, I'd say that's a good use of your time, especially if it's limited.
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Sounds like low quality, low convenience, waste of a time.
This probably isn't the case for you kaotic cause if you actually have some Game then online will definitely get you chicks I just have found that you get better women out in the world.
I'd for sure say it's not low quality most the time (if you know how to filter), it's very convenient (right at your fingertips), but occasionally a waste of time (when you meet).
You take the pro's and cons with a cold approach and online dating.
There's major threads for both, different strokes for different folks.
The times are changing - people are getting more connected (to tech) but noone is connecting (with eachother).
I mean we have people posting about how to get a girl's attention while she has her headphones on or is staring at her phone when we approach her - obviously a good player know's how to do so - but it is telling.