[Gmac]

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[Samseau]

How can a married man not become dull when the rewards of being exciting (i.e. fresh pussy) are no longer there?

[Chad Daring]

Marriage brings "responsibilities" that by nature will hinder a mans enjoyment of life, its unavoidable. You can no longer just say "fuck it I"m gonna go do _______"

[mofo]

It's interesting

[satanova77]

I could add volumes to this thread based on real life situation of mine or countless friends....but will just skip to the bottom line....

NOBODY ON THIS FORUM SHOULD EVER GET MARRIED.....

For an Alpha to stay Alpha in marriage requires not only major balls and skills(if you are gaming on the side) but hardest part is to lift your head up high everyday in face of crushing blows from society, relatives and the Lizard you thought could be a life partner....

E.g I am riding to San Antonio with a 40 yr old guy who manages 20 engineers and a peer of mine....lives in my neighbourhood and say

me: you wanna do happy hour with my team this week...
him: yah i will ask my wife for permission and let you know....
me: you are kidding right about the permission thing?
him(bedazzled looking at me): you dont need permission to do stuff?
me: my wife is lucky if i inform here where i am most of the time....i just tell her what time i will be home...
him: i dont know....you know what they say "a happy wife means a happy life"

Fucker was giggling while he was saying this and I wanted to kick him out of a car running at 75 mph....this is the problem with society today...this bald fat baldless motherfucker's wife knows how she controls him and boasts about it in front of other wives and they take this initiative and go back home and try to subdue their husbands with mind eating tactics and bickering...

The only reason men stay married is due to having either or all of the following...sadly most married guys who act happy have all three deficiencies below...

1. No options or game
2. Kids
3. Insecurities

I want to go so far as to say nobody should be in a LTR period but that pill can be swallowed depending on what "LONG" (duration) means in LTR.......

[Nonpareil]

Brad Pitt needs to take a few life lessons from his old boy George Clooney.

[Lord Sidious]

(09-16-2011 03:40 PM)satanova77 Wrote:  

I could add volumes to this thread based on real life situation of mine or countless friends....but will just skip to the bottom line....

NOBODY ON THIS FORUM SHOULD EVER GET MARRIED.....

For an Alpha to stay Alpha in marriage requires not only major balls and skills(if you are gaming on the side) but hardest part is to lift your head up high everyday in face of crushing blows from society, relatives and the Lizard you thought could be a life partner....

E.g I am riding to San Antonio with a 40 yr old guy who manages 20 engineers and a peer of mine....lives in my neighbourhood and say

me: you wanna do happy hour with my team this week...
him: yah i will ask my wife for permission and let you know....
me: you are kidding right about the permission thing?
him(bedazzled looking at me): you dont need permission to do stuff?
me: my wife is lucky if i inform here where i am most of the time....i just tell her what time i will be home...
him: i dont know....you know what they say "a happy wife means a happy life"

Fucker was giggling while he was saying this and I wanted to kick him out of a car running at 75 mph....this is the problem with society today...this bald fat baldless motherfucker's wife knows how she controls him and boasts about it in front of other wives and they take this initiative and go back home and try to subdue their husbands with mind eating tactics and bickering...

The only reason men stay married is due to having either or all of the following...sadly most married guys who act happy have all three deficiencies below...

1. No options or game
2. Kids
3. Insecurities

I want to go so far as to say nobody should be in a LTR period but that pill can be swallowed depending on what "LONG" (duration) means in LTR.......

Satanova, i got into the game after my wife started kicking my ass all the time, day and night, relentlessly. this is my way out of misery of marriage.... i am always in control except when it come ot marriage, being an alpha i am, i find pleasure in what i do the best, slay lizards. !! keep up the good work.

[mofo]

Interesting

[oldnemesis]

Why do you guys think he actually WAS an alpha man to start with? Just because he played one in movies?

[Steven Lurkel]

Hahaha! man, great minds think alike Gmac! Not two weeks ago I dubbed Brad Pitt, "The White Len Bias"...cos he's dead and it's his own fault.

[stein]

more proof:

http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/news/we...5697113693

[Chad Daring]

(09-16-2011 06:03 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  

Why do you guys think he actually WAS an alpha man to start with? Just because he played one in movies?

This is actually a good point, he played Tyler Durden, doesn't mean he was Tyler Durden.

[K-man]

This from a married man: yeah, it's a sacrifice. Your freedom, your options, etc. (fresh pussy not totally excluded, because you can still get something on the side).
But it's worth it if it's a sacrifice you make for the sake of your children. They need a dad in their lives, and not a dad who constantly fights with mom because he is a whoremonger, and not a dad who is never home either.

So there you have it: if you want kids and the rewards that come from being a father - you know what sacrifice you have to make.

Now, if you make it for another reason - such as the convenience of having a ready pussy in your bed, or for social conventions, or out of insecurity or whatever else - then you are a fool and deserve your fate.

[Brian]

marriage can be a complete mess for guys but thats not to say no one should ever get married because i know lots of guys who wouldnt trade their wives and kids for anything.

[MikeCF]

(09-17-2011 02:53 AM)K-man Wrote:  

This from a married man: yeah, it's a sacrifice. Your freedom, your options, etc. (fresh pussy not totally excluded, because you can still get something on the side).
But it's worth it if it's a sacrifice you make for the sake of your children. They need a dad in their lives, and not a dad who constantly fights with mom because he is a whoremonger, and not a dad who is never home either.

So there you have it: if you want kids and the rewards that come from being a father - you know what sacrifice you have to make.

Now, if you make it for another reason - such as the convenience of having a ready pussy in your bed, or for social conventions, or out of insecurity or whatever else - then you are a fool and deserve your fate.

This is exactly right. My dad was probably boring my some measures. Boring is nothing is not stable, and if you bring life into the world, you owe them a stable life.

I don't have kids precisely because I'm not ready to make that commitment.

[oldnemesis]

(09-17-2011 02:53 AM)K-man Wrote:  

This from a married man: yeah, it's a sacrifice. Your freedom, your options, etc. (fresh pussy not totally excluded, because you can still get something on the side).

It is not a sacrifice, it is exchange. You're giving away some options, and instead you're getting some other options you didn't have before.

If one only gave away something in marriage and didn't get anything else back, then I wonder why would he get (or stay) married at all?

[afronoob]

(09-17-2011 05:18 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  

(09-17-2011 02:53 AM)K-man Wrote:  

This from a married man: yeah, it's a sacrifice. Your freedom, your options, etc. (fresh pussy not totally excluded, because you can still get something on the side).

It is not a sacrifice, it is exchange. You're giving away some options, and instead you're getting some other options you didn't have before.

If one only gave away something in marriage and didn't get anything else back, then I wonder why would he get (or stay) married at all?

You must get married-to continue single after a certain point is a sure sign of arrested development. Even when married,why should the pussy stop? Btw, I think we should stop using the Hollywood template as examples and stick with the real world,even if anonymous utterly nondescript dudes,cause the distortions of the make believe celluloid world skew our perspective.

[Stitch]

Or also, there's the problem of having children: http://www.npr.org/2011/09/17/140557571/...es-the-man

(the major finding: a survey of 600+ Filipino men starting at age 21 lost up to 34% base testosterone level five years after having children)

Interesting.

[mofo]

Living with a woman makes you more feminine it's a no brainer.

[Chad Daring]

(09-18-2011 09:59 AM)Stitch Wrote:  

Or also, there's the problem of having children: http://www.npr.org/2011/09/17/140557571/...es-the-man

(the major finding: a survey of 600+ Filipino men starting at age 21 lost up to 34% base testosterone level five years after having children)

Interesting.

That kinda makes sense, in a species propagation kind of way. Lower testosterone means a calmer more "caregiving" male. Its basically nature turning the young bull into a family man, whether he likes it or not.

I always had an inverse theory about this as to why in the past decade or so girls seem to take a liking to more feminine men (rise of the emos)

Effeminate have definitely become more prominent, but men only do what gets women. Why are women/girls going for these guys? Birth control. It whacks out their hormones and puts their body in a state similar to pregnancy, minus the baby. This puts her in child raising mode, rather then "find and fuck the biggets baddest dude" mode. They start to look for guys that are calmer, gentler, and more sensitive. Might also explain the wide spread cases of female oneitis. As well as female craziness. They still want an alpha but their hormones are driving them towards child raising betas.

[Timoteo]

I know a couple of dudes that are under complete control of their wives, but I know MORE that still do their own thing, and manage their marriages. Most of them still take opportunities to tap side shit, but are still good family men. They still carve out their own time for things the want to do. I think the key is establishing certain things early, and making it clear these things won't change. Sure, she'll still test you, but if you hold firm, you should be good. I think deep down if guys are soft, that will come out in their marriages. One of my boys that's miserable in his marriage got run over by his girlfriends, so it stands to reason his wife would dictate to him (though I can see him cheating eventually...he was a pretty good player when he was single).

I think Brad WAS bored by Jen, but was simply being nice. While she's cute, she comes across as kind of basic to me. Brad is a thoughtful, interesting dude (as you can see by the projects he undertakes - he's not looking to coast on his good looks and being famous). He probably married her because he was too into the fame thing (he was a hot movie actor, she was a hot tv actor on an incredibly popular show), and realized it was just empty. I think he really wanted to be a dad, and Jen was trying to do that for him yet. As crazy as Angie is, she's far more interesting (she's a pilot, is interested in more than just being a famous actress), so that was probably a better move for him. And remember...neither finds it necessary to marry. They just do their own thing.

[ADEBISIGARANA]

I grew up in an Alpha society. My dad's brother was a Billionaire with two wives. And even him couldn't control his wives. Regardless of the man being a cold calculating capitalist in terms of Business,I'm not sure he'd think of himself as an Alpha in terms of women control. You can't control women; therefore there's no such thing as a married Alpha.