Quote: (12-17-2017 09:25 AM)EndsExpect Wrote:
Quote: (12-15-2017 12:48 PM)StackGsMan Wrote:
I can assure you, not through any direct evidence but rather obvious intuition, that the porn star Mandingo has been paid thousands and thousands of dollars through the years by both men and women to sleep with WOMEN aside from his porn work. This is because of his penis.
Who is probably better off with women, George Clooney (probably above average dick but not by much) or Mandingo. I would venture Clooney. But that doesn't change the fact that Mandingo is being paid to use his penis because of its size.
I personally have a ton of respect for Indian and East Asian guys and I legitimately believe that there are millions of them with super tight game and great looks. I know for a fact that there are tons of them, whether in their own countries or abroad, that women find sexy as hell and they are smooth as any players in the West. They just happen to look different than Westerners and speak differently. But is it any coincidence that generally worldwide these two groups are both associated (whether correctly or not) with small penises and being the least desired by nearly all groups of women?
Stacks... I just want to address this kind of silly thinking. Men in general watch too much Porn. It's a simple fact. Porn represents MALE fantasy. Please do not make the mistake of thinking that you can learn about sex from watching porn.
Mandingo represents a MALE fantasy. 95% of black guys are under 7" and they want to be able to imagine having a huge cock. Bisexual white guys get off on watching Mandingo bang a white chick in the same way Mexican guys love a Tijuana Donkey Show... and about half of those white guys watching are imagining jumping out of the closet and sucking Mandingos dick themselves. That interracial cuckold porn is mostly for bisexuals and closet gay dudes.
If you look at the porn stars that WOMEN want to fuck... I don't even see Mandingo on the list. The top guy in every single poll is James Deen, and by wild margins. He does not have the biggest dick in porn.
My point is this... Porn is male fantasy, not reality. Specifically porn is a Western White Male Fantasy... since that is the largest target audience. Believing that Porn represents reality is like believing the Avengers are real. It's ridiculous.
I originally started the thread to see if any other guys on this forum were interested in taking up penis enlargement to keep tabs on each other. I in no way intended to start a discussion of does penis size matter or how much does it matter or discussions about average penis size and sex and all of the topics that came out in these three pages.
I simply wanted to start a thread similar to those body building and/or fat loss/cutting threads in other sections of the forum where guys talk about their progress.
When I bring up the porn star Mandingo it isn't because I am a cuck or interested in being a cuck. I brought him up as a relatively well known example of a guy with a particularly large dick. Should I scour the gyms in my city and wait in the showers to snag a pic of a guy with a similar size dick to him or just use the guy as an example?
I agree totally that porn is heavily about male fantasy, and I agree to a very large extent that it does not represent the reality of sex or exactly portray what women want sexually. You are correct, for the most part porn is an increasingly fucked up way of profiting on male psycho sexuality by portraying scenarios that are entirely unrealistic for the majority of the earth in order to make a profit for the creators of the content. I also agree with others both on this forum and different places that I've heard this argument that porn is bad for the male brain and psyche. All of this I agree with you on entirely. I was using a guy from porn as an example, not my hero in life or someone I want to fuck my wife.
All of this being said it doesn't change my original point or idea. I believe having a larger penis CAN BE a TOOL to increased power in romantic/sexual relations with women. Please read that comment carefully and word for word because this is where all this extra bullshit is coming from. Nowhere in that comment did I say a large dick is a prerequisite to having great sex. Nowhere in that comment did I say a large dick is necessary for having lots of attractive women sleep with you. Nowhere in that comment did I say a large dick will put you at the front of the line with women whether or not you are great or lacking in other areas of life or game.
All I am saying is that a large dick *CAN* be a *TOOL* that allows you to do certain things that increase your power. Read my posts in this thread. I have said several times that penis size and penis enlargement is low return on investment and should be low on the list of things a guy focuses on in order to achieve his goals with women.
My point is that it can be useful if you know what to do with it and how it can fit in the relationship dynamic. Not for every girl, not in every relationship, and not all the time in a relationship where it does in fact play a role.
I feel like every guy that seems to be losing their shit over the whole penis size issue either feels inadequate and hopeless about it and wants to lash out or legitimately understands that a huge dick is not a REQUIREMENT for anything in most cases. Just because it is not a REQUIREMENT doesn't mean it isn't a huge BONUS.
I've said this before so don't draw out what I am saying in the wrong light, but it is to a much much much much much much smaller extent like developing a great body. I doubt too many people experienced with women believe it is a 100% requirement and necessity to get lots of girls or hot girls to have a top 1% body. But I'm going out on a limb here and I'll make the claim that all else being equal a hotter body can be helpful in getting hotter women. Is that beyond the realm of reality?
Same argument for developing a bigger dick, except it is much less important, for lack of a better word, than having a great body. It can be helpful in the male female dynamic. The major difference is a lot of times having a great body or a lot of other things guys trying to improve themselves focus on mainly helps during the earlier stages of a relationship. By that I don't just mean the approach, but for lack of a better word let's say the first months or years or knowing a girl depending on how fast you move along. This doesn't mean that having a great body is pointless or not relevant well into a relationship, just that the biggest bang for your buck with a great looking body is during the approach and building up her sexual desire for you.
Having a big dick works generally on the opposite end. It is something that allows you power and more control during the middle or later stages of a relationship. As anyone here knows having a huge dick doesn't mean shit if she wants nothing to do with you within 10 seconds of you approaching. But in a long term relationship having a big dick can give you a huge edge if you know how to use it (and I don't just mean how to use it sexually). Having a big dick usually causes most girls pain, especially if it is particularly big. With time and lots of sex with that same big dick they become more used to the dimensions and enjoy the sex much more. A vagina has a limited amount of expansion and dimensions, but it will accommodate a penis that regularly enters it to a certain degree depending on the individual anatomy of the girl and the vagina. This is part of the reason why in the long term a big cock can be a useful tool with a given girl.
I'm starting to despise the term alpha, but for lack of a better word I will use it. Alpha doesn't mean never getting cheated on and if it does it is false. Alpha just means the most socially/physically/emotionally/financially, or any combination of those things, dominant guy in a given pool of guys. Alphas can get cheated on and cucked too depending on the scenario, relationship, and what is going on.
Case in point Scottie Pippen's wife of many years cucked him by cheating with a rapper. Scottie Pippen, while not necessarily the greatest alpha in the history of the world, is a person that it is hard to not qualify as particularly alpha, at least on the surface. Huge height, muscular body, very athletic, famous, beyond wealthy. Dude still got cucked. I'm sure you will agree it wasn't because he wasn't alpha but rather because to put it very vaguely he started slipping in terms of either his game or caring about his wife's actions.
His wife, although she cheated with a physically smaller guy, did so with a guy that had more value at the given time. She didn't do so with the random guy learning game at the club or getting laid by two different hot women a month. She cheated with a guy that has his pick of 10's at pretty much any given moment and I can assure you part of the reason she picked him was to embarrass Pippen.
When a girl is being vindictive or just wants to cheat she doesn't call up the smallest and nerdiest guy she knows or hit the club dreaming of sleeping with the guy with the beer belly and the 6 incher. The goal, whether she achieves it or not, is to have a physically dominant man pound her to destroy her bf/husband/man's psyche. This isn't necessarily the case at all if she is legit leaving the guy as then she is looking for something different, but rather when she is looking to spite cheat.
Keep in mind women are wired very differently than us as men, but some things are the same. If a guy goes out to cheat on his girl, and here I am talking about your regular guy and not a player that has multiple relationships or tons of ONS, he tries to do so with a girl that is physically hot as hell despite her personality. When you want to cheat in a limited capacity as a man you look at ass and tits and face and things like that, you don't sit and think gee golly gosh I hope the ONS I am looking for tonight has a great personality and can make me laugh.
Women are the same in a sense. If you are in a committed relationship and you trigger her in some way she is going to search out a tall, built, and hung guy. That doesn't mean she will find him or even if she does that will be the guy she chooses for that random sexual encounter, but that is the image burning in her mind as she puts on her panties and dress.
I don't have a huge cock myself, so it's not like I'm trying to inflate this image for my benefit. But denying this underlying and hidden reality is straight up denial. It doesn't factor in 100% of the time or even all that much which is why guys here get their panties in a twist and it is also why I said low on the list and low return on investment. But it doesn't destroy the fact that it has SOME relevance.
I am not black or white, but since you threw out the black cucking white scenario above I'll give you another example that disregards blacks. Before I say anything else I in no way think blacks are particularly hung. I'd imagine that most fall in the same range as Europeans in terms of averages with at most less than an inch difference. This doesn't mean all black guys are the same size as all white guys with possibly only an extra inch, I am just saying the averages are probably very close to each other.
But going back to white guys. Are you honestly going to tell me that a portion of the white god factor in places like East and SouthEast Asia doesn't have to do with a reality and/or fantasy and/or psychosexuality of the physically taller and larger white man conquering the asian female? I understand that being foreign itself is a bigger part as is looking up to Western culture and the wealth that being Western often promises, and also that the white God factor isn't as forceful as some make it out to be and is possibly fading, but what I said above is a part of the underlying psychology of the attraction.
If you deny that you are once again in denial. The fact that the blue eyed white guy is 6'2'' and 205 lbs and the Vietnamese guy that is courting the girl in Hanoi is 5'7'' and 145 lbs does play a big role in the underlying sexual dynamic. It isn't everything and it doesn't mean the white guy will get the girl or win in the scenario, but it is a pink elephant in the room.
This is the devious and hidden nature of penis size. The fact that guys with game know how to throw this issue totally out of the equation or that a lot of guys with huge cocks are inept or think that having a big dick is all they need doesn't change the fact that it can be really relevant.
In the end, to back to your point about the porn industry and big dick obsession stemming from that, was the ancient Greek God of fertility Priapus a part of the current porn industry? This is a worshipped being that there are figurines of from over 2 thousand years ago where he has an erection the size of his actual body.
Worship of phallic symbols and large penises has taken place the world over particularly in religions and societies before the take over of most of the world by the major monotheistic religions.
A large penis, aside from any argument of how it is relevant to sex with a woman, has always been used to represent sexual prowess and has been associated with fertility.