In years past, I've been pretty open with my friends, family, and colleagues about being a conservative, Christian, and Republican. I worked on George W. Bush's campaign, minored in theology, and was very public about my support for Trump. My Facebook has always been set to public, because setting who can see what is entirely too much fucking work. Everyone can see everything I post, but nothing is too over the top (my over the top shit goes on the RVF).
As things continue, I've found it bad for my career and business to share any political or social commentary on social media whatsoever. Part of the reason I post on here is because it's an anonymous outlet for likeminded men where I can actually discuss the things I'm thinking about.
However, and mostly in the past year, I've been unfriended by many people, some of whom are important socially or politically. When I picked up the phone and asked what happened, it was almost always "I don't want to be friends with Trump supporters." (even though I've been a conservative Republican since like, eternity). Suddenly politics have gotten very personal. I can help a person move on Saturday, and on Sunday they don't want to be friends anymore because of who I voted for. They'll opt to hang around the value signaling vegan, even though Hank and his buddies carried a piano down six flights of stairs the day before.
As a result, my Facebook account has gone completely benign. If you read my Facebook, you'd think I was a complete beta, as my posts now only touch on sports, local politics, some vacation pictures, and local happenings in the neighborhood. I'm beginning to hate my social media "identity." I even bore myself. But no one's unfriended me in the last few months.
The only reason I haven't deleted social media entirely is because I get business from it. As a lawyer, people tend to call the first person the think of. Sometimes a stupid post about how the good the Eagles are looking or a cheesesteak I ate results in a big case.
So, question for you folks...
How are you managing your social media?
I'm debating a few things...
1. Starting a fake Facebook account and just friending people I know won't get pissed off at my political and social commentary.
2. Just saying fuck it, owning it entirely, and allowing all the libtards to cry in their safe spaces. I actually get a good bit of work from conservatives, Republicans, and masculine males who are sick of the libtards. At the same time, a few local feminists were adamant about boycotting my law practice last year.
3. Starting a "fan" page or "business" page thingy.
Wondering if anyone else is having this issue...
As things continue, I've found it bad for my career and business to share any political or social commentary on social media whatsoever. Part of the reason I post on here is because it's an anonymous outlet for likeminded men where I can actually discuss the things I'm thinking about.
However, and mostly in the past year, I've been unfriended by many people, some of whom are important socially or politically. When I picked up the phone and asked what happened, it was almost always "I don't want to be friends with Trump supporters." (even though I've been a conservative Republican since like, eternity). Suddenly politics have gotten very personal. I can help a person move on Saturday, and on Sunday they don't want to be friends anymore because of who I voted for. They'll opt to hang around the value signaling vegan, even though Hank and his buddies carried a piano down six flights of stairs the day before.
As a result, my Facebook account has gone completely benign. If you read my Facebook, you'd think I was a complete beta, as my posts now only touch on sports, local politics, some vacation pictures, and local happenings in the neighborhood. I'm beginning to hate my social media "identity." I even bore myself. But no one's unfriended me in the last few months.
The only reason I haven't deleted social media entirely is because I get business from it. As a lawyer, people tend to call the first person the think of. Sometimes a stupid post about how the good the Eagles are looking or a cheesesteak I ate results in a big case.
So, question for you folks...
How are you managing your social media?
I'm debating a few things...
1. Starting a fake Facebook account and just friending people I know won't get pissed off at my political and social commentary.
2. Just saying fuck it, owning it entirely, and allowing all the libtards to cry in their safe spaces. I actually get a good bit of work from conservatives, Republicans, and masculine males who are sick of the libtards. At the same time, a few local feminists were adamant about boycotting my law practice last year.
3. Starting a "fan" page or "business" page thingy.
Wondering if anyone else is having this issue...