Quote: (11-23-2017 04:25 PM)churros Wrote:
How did experience make you tamer?
Because it taught me that there's more to life and human interactions than gaming young, clueless girls (even though it will always remain one of the most pleasurable thing in life).
You are not in a vacuum with the girls you are peacocking to. There are other girls, and most importantly,
other men, in that same environment with you. Some of them might end up being much more valuable to you than some random rolls in the shack with a young chick. But the *alpha* attitude you display are driving them off.
Back in my early aikido days, I was popular with the girls, but not popular with the rest of the club. I burn a lot of bridges because I loved a good fight and showing off. Of course I didn't give half a shit so long as the adrenaline is running from sex and energy. Now I know better.
That guy I just threw down to get a quick high and get girl's eyes sparkling? He could have been a very nice buddy who would buy me a beer when I'm broke or send me an insider job offer. Both of which can be more important to me than a random girl.
Samseau might be preaching, but he is right in one thing. We overvalue pussy too much. Building meaningful relationship with men, and women who matter, is far more rewarding in the long run than fucking. Even a beta can teach me stuff I'm clueless about. No girl can ever teach me anything of value. Most of what I know today (fencing, writing, french, patience, diplomacy, etc) were taught to me by men who couldnt give a shit about how many girls you banged, but will get annoyed at a loud, arrogant young buck.
Then there are "retention rate" - how long can you keep a girl around after the initial ONS.
But none of what I said is something players and newbies should be thinking about. If your goals are upping notch count, yes, the swagger walk and the attitude associated with it is very effective. Learn it, do it, love it.