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How should I play this?
#1

How should I play this?

so Im moving back to Ontario in a week, and lately ive been getting back in touch with a lot of high school friends..people who I havent talked to really in two years since I graduated. Anyway Specifically Ive been having some really good conversations with this girl, we'll call Megan,who I liked for a year in grade ten (back when I didnt have a game and was desperate..but she was hot then,and even hotter now),before I started going out with my ex (amy)which lasted until I graduated and moved provinces. anyway, megan's just recently come out of a bad relationship with a guy who she'd started seeing about the same time I started dating Amy.

As Ive said I started talking to her again and got drunk with her and a few friends at xmas when I was visiting, and she seemed very impressed(if thats the word) with the new me. Anyway after that didnt talk for a while and just a couple weeks ago started talking with her and she seems very interested in me and is really excited about me moving back and giving all the signs of wanting too hook up.

Question is, Im throwing a party the day after I get back, which will be next friday night, and was wondering if I should be quick and make my move then? Or is she trying to lead me on somehow? Im positive ive played all my cards right in our convos on msn and whatnot and she always wants me to text her but I never do (your not supposed to do what a chick wants you to). Just small things like that have been adding up. So,do I go for gold to break in the new place right away? or do I invite her and just chill and go for a chick at the club using her and my basically best friend Heather as social proof and if Im successful therefore making Megan jealous and even more into me?

Think I just answered my own question at the end there, but any advice would be well taken. And Im moving back due to a falling out with the rents, if things work out with Megan then great.
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#2

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no harm delaying the move, you're damn right

when I was single, I would deliberately not make moves on close women friends I found attractive. Some of you may think this is anti-intuitive. The thing was I had lots of action happening with girls I hardly knew. The result of the new hot girl looking in and the other girls looking out of the social cirlce at the new girls was amazing. Everybody thinks you have options, and everyone is super comfortable to hang around you.

Chumps don't get this. THey just burn every lead to its bitter end.

I see it in sales. The hard closer.

you want to heat the center of your social circle as a foundation for fun and meeting other women, not resolve it into girls who will and won't sleep with you.

"For the true meaning of victory ask the defeated warrior"
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#3

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Quote: (04-09-2009 03:38 AM)twigman Wrote:  

no harm delaying the move, you're damn right

when I was single, I would deliberately not make moves on close women friends I found attractive. Some of you may think this is anti-intuitive. The thing was I had lots of action happening with girls I hardly knew. The result of the new hot girl looking in and the other girls looking out of the social cirlce at the new girls was amazing. Everybody thinks you have options, and everyone is super comfortable to hang around you.

Chumps don't get this. THey just burn every lead to its bitter end.

I see it in sales. The hard closer.

you want to heat the center of your social circle as a foundation for fun and meeting other women, not resolve it into girls who will and won't sleep with you.

exactly. I know that two of the guys (good friends) that will be there will be trying to hook up with her, and its pretty amusing to be honest. They're the natural type and with running the risk of being called gay id say they're good looking guys. Thing is they dont really have a game and just go with the flow sort of and get ridiculously lucky. In H/s they laughed at me for liking her as they felt she was a slut,but now that shes grown some tits they've been trying to hit on her for months. Anyway, They'll be making idiots out of themselves and I'll just be playing things cool, being the life of the party and seeing as its my own place I'll look successful already.

Id also like to add I like to have a lot of chick friends,especially hot ones. Its good for social proof and if you go to a club and know everybody there,then at least THEIR friends will start taking an interest. A lot of the people on here seem to think that the best Idea is if a chick doesnt want to sleep with you or commit to anything then just move on but Im one of those people who likes to have a good group of friends and be seen as the good-guy type. Think about it if you dont make a total ass out of yourself if a chick rejects your moves then she'll respect you even more for that and tell her friends that your a great guy,etc,etc. and that'll leave you with a good impression before you've even talked to them. Its gotten me laid a couple times and I think a lot of you guys should try it.
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also I'll be staying at my dads. He has a house near downtown and there's an appartment on top with a seperate entrance that I'll be staying in. Him and his girlfriend are really laid back and share my drinking/smoking lifestyle. Can I use this as an advantage? Like invite them up to the party for a few beers and that'll give off the impression that Im a huge family guy as well? My dad's like my best friend so just wondering if a chick would see that as attractive or not.
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#5

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Ontario, represent...

Don't invite your dad, that will just be werid.

As for your game plan, you're thinking it out too much. I have a similar problem coming up next week as I am throwing a house party. But really if they were your friends, or if they were my Ontarian friends, I would tell them to fu*ck off, and that it was my night. An really in that situation the only way I see sucess, while your friends are going for your grade ten mistress, is that in the meantime you are hanging out with other (more attractive) girls.
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Quote: (04-09-2009 11:17 PM)College Game Wrote:  

Ontario, represent...

Don't invite your dad, that will just be werid.

As for your game plan, you're thinking it out too much. I have a similar problem coming up next week as I am throwing a house party. But really if they were your friends, or if they were my Ontarian friends, I would tell them to fu*ck off, and that it was my night. An really in that situation the only way I see sucess, while your friends are going for your grade ten mistress, is that in the meantime you are hanging out with other (more attractive) girls.

yeah that sounds like a good Idea. My two friends'll be cluelessly trying to chase after Megan and I'll just be walking around the place having a good time and chatting up some of the other women that will be there. If I see her (megan) look uncomfortable with one or both of the two idiots then I'll just ask her to come downstairs with me for a second, and tell her I've got a joint that we should light up. She'll no doubt be down for that and that would lead me to seperation and I could start almost leading her on. Why? Because i want to go and be free at a club and if I pick up it'll make her jealous and wanting me the next time, if not I'll settle for Megan and better luck next time lol. Im actually in a pretty good situation.
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#7

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Didn't read the other coments so what i say might be said above...

If i where you id lpay it cool with her, maybe hook up with her in a bathroom or somewhere out of sight so nobody sees you, but then also hook up with a few girls at the party in plain view. This will make her know that you are wanted by other women and that you arnt over into her, but will also let her feel a little bit special by the fact that you toook her off somewhere to be with her ALONE. She will play it through her mind over and over again, and the more she thinks about it the more she is thinking about you ....that can't be a bad thing right ?
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Quote: (04-11-2009 01:26 AM)lip service Wrote:  

Didn't read the other coments so what i say might be said above...

If i where you id lpay it cool with her, maybe hook up with her in a bathroom or somewhere out of sight so nobody sees you, but then also hook up with a few girls at the party in plain view. This will make her know that you are wanted by other women and that you arnt over into her, but will also let her feel a little bit special by the fact that you toook her off somewhere to be with her ALONE. She will play it through her mind over and over again, and the more she thinks about it the more she is thinking about you ....that can't be a bad thing right ?

yeah man,she'll most likely be uncomfortable with the two "naturals" (who are more pozerish then anything) and will be more then happy when I notice this and cut in and ask her if she wants to come downstairs with me for a minute. She'll no doubt be happy that I "rescued her" and if either Dave or Nick say anything I'll tell 'em off about it being my place and I run game, if they dont like it they can leave. Anyway, I'll pull Megan aside show her a joint and ask if she wants to smoke it with me. That'll give us our alone time and when we're done or maybe even without smoking the joint I'll just move in for the kiss once we're outside. Quick and Smooth.

Edit: I also could implement that with the club Idea,because if we end up making out and beyond at the party,and then I show that I dont really give a damn at the club by chatting up other girls then she'll be desperate for my full attention and by the end of the night I'll have her wrapped in my fingers lol.
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back when I didnt have a game and was desperate

Problem is it's hard for a girl to change her mind about you. If she knows you as a loser, that's how she sees you now even though you got cooler. This are the hardest girls to lay, and in my opinion not worth the time unless she comes hard after you.

In your case it seems like her mind has changed. All that's left is for you to make a physical move. Whatever you do, don't verbalize it by saying stupid shit like, "so i've liked you all this time." Just get close, and go for it.
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