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Meeting the Enemy - A feminist realises her misandry and bias
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Meeting the Enemy - A feminist realises her misandry and bias

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when viewing plays or movies or when reading articles, always be sure to think "WHO is telling me this -- and why?" Usually there is an agenda there that the general public doesn't get to see, but that we should be seeing...and publicizing on this board.

IMHO, the general public is more aware of films/TV/music having subtext than ever before. In fact, sometimes I think people are more interested in arguing over the implied subtext than treating entertainment's mission to, ya know, entertain.

You have SJWs who are basically watching movies with a little notepad and scoring everything according to whether it passes the Bechdel test or satisfies some racial diversity quota. I look at things like the female Ghostbusters and wring my hands at how Hollywood views diversity as a superficial marketing tactic while failing to make watchable films that truly 'work'. More conspiratorial readings which are popular here is that Hollywood is actively promoting a social-engineering agenda, something they genuinely believe.

But I think the general public are well aware of all the controversy that seems to spill out of our pop culture whether they are joining the fight on social media or not.

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Meeting the Enemy - A feminist realises her misandry and bias

Quote: (11-08-2017 10:30 AM)questor70 Wrote:  

IMHO, the general public is more aware of films/TV/music having subtext than ever before.

Yet, outside of Laska, every poster in this thread has been claiming that this director is "good" for men; and implicitly, that any subtext in this film is "good" (and even Laska claims that they are "better than the status quo."

The alternative perspective would be that this film redefines "red pill" as acceptance that men are being "oppressed" by "traditional gender roles" and their derivative codification in the the legal system.

Somewhere around 1:45:00 in the movie "The Red Pill" the lawyer states (paraphrased):

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No one asks, what's the motivation for this? Do we need a men's movement? No, we need common sense. But, if we have a women's movement and it's responsible for all of this, then maybe we need a men's movement to balance it out. But it's a shame. It's destructive.

But what if a return to "common sense" simply isn't in the cards. Then all this activism can do is destroy.

Destroy what?

Well, look at what (((Michael Kimmell))) says in the film (paraphrased):

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If all this stuff about men being oppressed is true, then we should join forces to get lots of funding to assist them.

How might the (Classical) Liberal State process this "liberation" from "Traditional gender roles?" To "free" men their traditional role as providers: Universal Basic Income and expansion of the welfare state. To "free" men from their traditional masculine roles (with all the stats about suicide and lack of health care): universal health care and increased medical/hormonal interventions. To "free" men from their traditional roles as husbands/fathers: corporate genetic engineering/ownership, the commodization of reproduction ("maternal/paternal care givers" as an occupation instead of the special relationship of parent to child), sex robots, VR porn, and legalization of prostitution.

So here's a hypothesis: Films like this and other "men are being oppressed" articles, etc. will grow in popularity/public awareness and won't be successfully suppressed. And the "red pill" guys here will continue to celebrate.
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Meeting the Enemy - A feminist realises her misandry and bias

I've heard all the arguments and they seem to boil down to three different approaches to dealing with the sorry state of the sexes:

Boycott (MGTOW)
Fight fire with fire (Game)
Political engagement (MRA)

There are downsides to each of these.

Pick your poison.
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Meeting the Enemy - A feminist realises her misandry and bias

Quote: (11-08-2017 07:01 PM)questor70 Wrote:  

I've heard all the arguments and they seem to boil down to three different approaches to dealing with the sorry state of the sexes:

Boycott (MGTOW)
Fight fire with fire (Game)
Political engagement (MRA)

There are downsides to each of these.

Pick your poison.

Roosh's 'Black Pill' podcast covers a fourth option, but this probably won't be a recognizable choice to guys until they are well into their 30's.
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Meeting the Enemy - A feminist realises her misandry and bias

Quote: (11-08-2017 07:01 PM)questor70 Wrote:  

I've heard all the arguments and they seem to boil down to three different approaches to dealing with the sorry state of the sexes:

Boycott (MGTOW)
Fight fire with fire (Game)
Political engagement (MRA)

There are downsides to each of these.

Pick your poison.

The alternative perspective is:

There are more fundamental choices, and you've made (and promoted) yours. Now, you'll live with it.
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Meeting the Enemy - A feminist realises her misandry and bias

Quote: (11-08-2017 09:44 AM)Different T Wrote:  

Quote: (11-08-2017 05:34 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

This reminds me of Nora Vincent, a lesbian feminist who disguised herself as a man so she could absorb all that "privilege," but found to her surprise that being male was so traumatizing she needed therapy.

Vincent has been mentioned on this board before, but I thought this was a good place to bring her up again. She wrote a book in 2006, "Self-Made Man: One Woman's Year Disguised as a Man," and the media frantically swept it under the carpet after she did a few interviews where she came out as very anti-feminist.

It's humorous that when you consider the director as framing "you" as oppressor, you write:

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But when viewing plays or movies or when reading articles, always be sure to think "WHO is telling me this -- and why?" Usually there is an agenda there that the general public doesn't get to see, but that we should be seeing...and publicizing on this board.

But when you consider the director as framing "you" as victim, nothing.

In both cases, it's the exact same thing. The media took subjects it considers "incorrect" and framed them negatively. There was no "victim" or "oppressor." Only people with ideas the media decided were bad and thus dismissed them or made them look bad.

That said, "oppressor" and "victim" are terms (largely) propaganda words used in academia to misinform us about race and gender. They mis-frame history and human relations in order to cast the winner and builders of society as bad people who "oppressed" all the supposedly good noble savages.

Those terms have little place on this forum, where we seek to uncover truths, not obscure them.

We don't consider the winners of sports games or academic challenges "oppressors," so we should also not considered the winners in the workplace or civilization "oppressors." To win, someone else has to lose. That doesn't make them a "victim." It makes them a loser.

None of this has anything to do with what I'd written on either of those threads where I didn't use those words at all.
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Meeting the Enemy - A feminist realises her misandry and bias

Quote: (11-09-2017 04:16 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

None of this has anything to do with what I'd written on either of those threads where I didn't use those words at all.

The quote comes from the "Waitress" play thread where you warn guys that "Besides the class issue, religion factors into this. A lot of anti-male rhetoric that comes from minority/Jewish women is actually anti-Christian resentment dressed up in pesudo-intellectual clothes. It's a way to misrepresent the builders of our society as destroyers and "oppressors,"" and encourage them to see if there's an agenda behind it.

The point being that if the director of "The Red Pill" was framing men as oppressors, you would immediately "see" it and look for an agenda. However, when "The Red Pill" uses the same "oppressor/victim" framework but "misrepresents" men as victims, you don't seem to recognize it and are unable to ask why; which is humorous.
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Meeting the Enemy - A feminist realises her misandry and bias

Quote: (11-06-2017 04:16 PM)Different T Wrote:  

Quote: (11-06-2017 07:02 AM)RoastBeefCurtains4Me Wrote:  

Society is a social compact between the different classes. The elites and ruling classes have to deliver enough to the common folk to at least keep them from rebelling, but with modern economics and the information age, they actually need the common people well enough off to work hard and creatively to succeed in their careers and companies.

So, society should treat its citizens as well as possible so they work hard and are happy, and they create economic growth and pay more taxes.

The alternative perspective would be that your idea of a “social contract” is directly based upon the philosophy and anthropological account of “Classical” Liberalism which posits a bunch of “free” individuals that somehow came into being and somehow came together and somehow formed this “contract.” This philosophy was promoted by certain, usually monied, powerful members within Western society to justify the State being run for their own benefit (which you largely allude to in your post with all the talk about the “ruling class” needing to increase their “worker drones” productivity).

The alternative anthropology would look something like:

Quote:”mrscientism” Wrote:

"The individual is not prior to society" means that society is not an "intersubjective" matter of agreement. You're born into a society and in the process of becoming a mature individual you must master its norms. You take them on not by considering each one and agreeing to it (you're not yet capable of this!) but through mastery of them. Once you have become a mature individual with an identity, the norms of society are already part of you. To reject them all (if this were even possible) would be akin to self-mutiliation. Society is not something like a mutual hallucination and the concepts of agreement, consent, contract, etc, are not appropriate to conceiving of the nature of society as a whole. There are circumstances within society when we come to agreements, give consent, make contracts with one another, etc, but these are not part of the fundamental nature of society.

We don't need this myth of society being formed by the agreement - consensual or otherwise, conscious or unconscious - between individuals. Our society precedes us as individuals and it has evolved over countless generations. That's where complex societies come from: from older, less complex societies. The changes society goes through may, of course, involve voluntary decision making, agreement, etc, but this sort of thing can only take place within an existing society with a rich set of norms and traditions already in place. The kinds of highly intellectual skills liberals tend to depend on in explaining the origin of society - reasoning, bargaining, agreement, consent, etc - are only possessed by the mature individual within society.

Every individual gains tremendous benefit from being born into a society. Even if a newborn baby could survive on its own it'd have no language, no culture, etc. So we can see already, from this perspective, that this idea that society must somehow prove its worth to the mature individual is nonsensical. Under ordinary circumstances, there's really very little reason to oppose our society or its structure, certainly not in any total sense. It's very perverse indeed that revolutionary and anarchic politics has become the norm and that we feel we must always be transgressing societal norms and challenging authority. In fact, sometimes liberals and Leftists actually express frustration because most people are happy to just go along with the social status quo, but this shouldn't really surprise us. The total misunderstanding of the relationship between the individual and society we find in the liberal tradition is surely responsible for this bizarre situation.

Or more bluntly:

Quote:”Bertrand de Jouvenel, Pure Theory of Politics, 57” Wrote:

Man appears, a screaming bundle of flesh, the outcome of mating. He is utterly helpless, his existence hangs upon the nursing he receives.

Quote:”Bertrand de Jouvenel, Pure Theory of Politics, 60” Wrote:

“Social contract” theories are views of childless men who must have forgotten their own childhood. Society is not founded like a club. One may ask how the hardy, roving adults pictured could imagine the solidarity to be, had they not enjoyed the benefits of a solidarity in being throughout their growing period; or how they could feel bound by the mere exchange of promises, if the notion of obligation had not been built up within them by group existence.

The social contract is not some highly reasonable thing that enlightened commoners negotiate with enlightened elites, in an atmosphere of reason and graciousness.

Rather, throughout history, elites have realized that if you oppress the common people too much, they will rebel. You can have your soldiers slaughter them, and that works well in the short term. However, there is a risk the soldiers will side with the people past a certain point.

The elites know they have to accomodate the common people, so they don't find themselves hanging from a lamppost, strangling slowly as they watch their children's throats being slit in front of their burning mansions.

In modern times, the welfare state is the way this is accomplished. The elites would gladly work us to death, but they recognize that it's not practical to do so.

This brings me back to my point that the demands of the MRAs may not make hot girl's pussies tingle, but the elites would be smarter to take the MRA's seriously, and change the laws to favor them more. They'll do so eventually once enough men decide to check out and stop killing themselves to build society with no recognition or reward.

Red pill men tend to scorn MRAs, because we are willing to do what it takes to make women's pussies tingle, but MRAs don't seem to get what it takes. Like I said, I'll do what it takes to make pussies tingle, but it's obvious to me that most men, by nature, can't or won't get this.

So, who do you side with? The women, who only care about pussy tingles, or the clueless betas who think that hard work, loyalty, and reliability should result in respect and a happy family? I side with the men. Eventually, the surviving elites will too.

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#34

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Quote: (11-09-2017 10:15 PM)RoastBeefCurtains4Me Wrote:  

The social contract is not some highly reasonable thing that enlightened commoners negotiate with enlightened elites, in an atmosphere of reason and graciousness.

Rather, throughout history, elites have realized that if you oppress the common people too much, they will rebel. You can have your soldiers slaughter them, and that works well in the short term. However, there is a risk the soldiers will side with the people past a certain point.

So this "social contract" isn't a "contract" at all? Why would you call it a contract and intentionally frame it as exactly as a negotiation of "enlightened" individuals?"


And look at this; even you, Red-Piller-and-totally-not-a-Cultural-Marxist, view society as made up of a bunch of "oppressors," and by extension "oppressed." Did you even notice that?

Quote: (11-09-2017 10:15 PM)RoastBeefCurtains4Me Wrote:  

The elites know they have to accomodate the common people, so they don't find themselves hanging from a lamppost, strangling slowly as they watch their children's throats being slit in front of their burning mansions.

And we are straight back to this account being utterly derivative of Classical Liberalism which posits a bunch of “free” individuals that somehow came into being and somehow came together and somehow founded this "society." And again, the statement that "the elites would gladly work us to death, but they recognize that it's not practical to do so," largely points to this philosophy (which you are so thoroughly engrossed in that you take its tenets simply as statements of fact) being promoted by certain, usually monied, powerful members within Western society to justify the State being run for their own benefit.

Quote: (11-09-2017 10:15 PM)RoastBeefCurtains4Me Wrote:  

This brings me back to my point that the demands of the MRAs may not make hot girl's pussies tingle, but the elites would be smarter to take the MRA's seriously, and change the laws to favor them more. They'll do so eventually once enough men decide to check out and stop killing themselves to build society with no recognition or reward.

Red pill men tend to scorn MRAs, because we are willing to do what it takes to make women's pussies tingle, but MRAs don't seem to get what it takes. Like I said, I'll do what it takes to make pussies tingle, but it's obvious to me that most men, by nature, can't or won't get this.

So, who do you side with? The women, who only care about pussy tingles, or the clueless betas who think that hard work, loyalty, and reliability should result in respect and a happy family? I side with the men. Eventually, the surviving elites will too.

Why do you not cut to the chase and state that all other humans besides yourself are disposable objects? That's essentially your position, correct? That some group called the "elite" ought to be nicer to MRAs to milk them better and for longer, right? It isn't that your list of qualities are actually goods, rather the elites should "act" like they are to keep/gain more power. Seriously, if we get an AI or robot that can do your job, you won't fuss about a trip to the Soylent factory, right?
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Quote: (11-08-2017 09:25 AM)Different T Wrote:  

@RatintheWoods

In simple terms, and in 20 word or less answer these questions:

1) why do you think females joined the feminist movement.

2) Why do you think blacks joined the Civil rights movement.

3) What do you think the result has been for females.

4) What do you think the result has been for the blacks.


1 + 2 = to get cash, prizes, adoration and equal rights (or extra rights!)

3 + 4 = they got cash, prizes, adoration and equal rights (or extra rights!)
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Quote: (11-08-2017 09:21 AM)Different T Wrote:  

Quote: (11-07-2017 11:11 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

1) why do you oppose the MRA fight against inequality that feminism has produced in the last few decades (they now own the media, education and courts)

Your "fight" appeals to authority (i.e. State) and implies it shares your values. It does not. You will be used.

Quote: (11-07-2017 11:11 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

2) What's your point about the origins and evolution of modern western society and how does it relate to feminism's war against men?

Framing "traditional gender roles" as harmful or using "victim/oppressor" is a bastardized, poor account that necessarily denigrates humanity.


First of all, not my fight. I'm with you on a "enjoy the decline" ticket

Secondly why do you think it "appeals to authority". I think the opposite.
Their cause is legislated against, censored, media banned and goes against the authoritarian role delegated to betas - wage slaver and paying for everyone elses shit.

I agree with you "Framing "traditional gender roles" as harmful but I am not so sure that's 100% the loud message of MRAs.

More like "you bitches got more rights, and more funding and men are not that privileged", which is a true story, and not that harmful to the cause.

At the very least running defence against the rise and rise of the feminazi is a great thing.
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Quote: (11-10-2017 03:45 AM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

First of all, not my fight. I'm with you on a "enjoy the decline" ticket

If I was "enjoying" the decline, I certainly wouldn't be on this board.

Quote: (11-10-2017 03:45 AM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

Secondly why do you think it "appeals to authority". I think the opposite.
Their cause is legislated against, censored, media banned and goes against the authoritarian role delegated to betas - wage slaver and paying for everyone elses shit.

It appeals to the State to change things.

Quote: (11-10-2017 03:45 AM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

I agree with you "Framing "traditional gender roles" as harmful but I am not so sure that's 100% the loud message of MRAs.

More like "you bitches got more rights, and more funding and men are not that privileged", which is a true story, and not that harmful to the cause.

At the very least running defence against the rise and rise of the feminazi is a great thing.

The alternative perspective is that none of your interpretation matters. What matters is how the "movement" can be used and to whose benefit.

In actuality, there doesn't seem to be any point in pointing these things out to you given your perspective on the results of the feminist and civil rights movement. Too much resentment.
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Quote: (11-10-2017 07:52 AM)Different T Wrote:  

If I was "enjoying" the decline, I certainly wouldn't be on this board.

Well then, what's your cause and how are you fighting it?

How does the MRA detract from that?


Quote: (11-10-2017 07:52 AM)Different T Wrote:  

It appeals to the State to change things.

What evidence or data led you to believe that the MRAs are not a bunch of pissed off, discriminated against, shafted and bitter dudes fighting the good fight against a misandrist system?

Do tell.
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Quote: (11-04-2017 01:26 AM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

And WB let there be no doubt.

Hence her swift rise through the dense monkey branches of the online manosphere.
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Meeting the Enemy - A feminist realises her misandry and bias

I've also thought of MRA's to be equivalent to male feminists. I was watching some clips of them and even saw one where a guy was complaining about domestic violence against men. Sure, it probably exists on a small level, but, I can't understand how a guy could let his own wife abuse him. At that point, I feel you would have bigger problems than anything society may have bestowed upon you.

I was also listening to a podcast by Quintus Curtius and heard him mention that he had tried reached out to Paul Elam, but, he wanted absolutely nothing to do with him. IMO, this documentary may be beneficial to our corner of the internet in the long run, but, the bottom line is, many MRA's aren't as supportive of us as we might hope.

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They are comprised mostly of men who bear the deepest afflictions of a fatherless culture. Abandoned to feminist governance by their male elders and bereft of masculine guidance, they have been dropped into the solipsistic void that was the only existence feminism ever could have offered them outside direct servitude. Stripped of values and consciousness and the ability to be circumspect, they have turned feral; so unable to form community or embrace brotherhood that they have shrugged off the desire for either.

I don’t blame them, given the way they were fucked out of relevance. They never had a chance. They are the walking wounded; the children left behind from a sexual war in which their fathers refused to fight. I have been personally wrong to have engaged in conflict with them when I could have, should have, been working harder to provide them an alternative.
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Quote: (11-14-2017 07:04 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

Quote from that article:

They are comprised mostly of men who bear the deepest afflictions of a fatherless culture. Abandoned to feminist governance by their male elders and bereft of masculine guidance, they have been dropped into the solipsistic void that was the only existence feminism ever could have offered them outside direct servitude. Stripped of values and consciousness and the ability to be circumspect, they have turned feral; so unable to form community or embrace brotherhood that they have shrugged off the desire for either.

I don’t blame them, given the way they were fucked out of relevance. They never had a chance. They are the walking wounded; the children left behind from a sexual war in which their fathers refused to fight. I have been personally wrong to have engaged in conflict with them when I could have, should have, been working harder to provide them an alternative.

Yeah. It's insane he actually said that.

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#43

Meeting the Enemy - A feminist realises her misandry and bias

Who is that Paul Elam guy
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Meeting the Enemy - A feminist realises her misandry and bias

Quote: (11-14-2017 11:20 PM)Kid Twist Wrote:  

Who is that Paul Elam guy

He's pretty much the leader of the Men's Rights movement. He also started the website "A Voice for Men"

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