[InternationPlayboy]

So the girl I'm seeing right now is always giving me this hot cold shit. One minute she is all about it and the next she isn't really feeling it. She takes adderole for her ADD, and usually when she isn't feeling it is when it is wearing off at night, which sucks because I'm always working late, so she'll either come over at night and be lame and tired and not want to fuck (including last night, when she is going back to New York for 5 days, so 6 days no pune for me), or she'll just say she is too tired to come over. When she isn't tired and being lame, she is cool as shit. Really, the coolest girl I've ever dated, and the sex is amazing, not to mention she does yoga, so really flexible and a perfect 10 body. I don't know what to do because next week is off season which means the already bad guy to girl ratio gets even worse. I mean really, I don't have trouble picking up girls, but when there are really no cute girls and even when there is there are 5 guys hitting on one, it makes it hard. All the bars and clubs close down. So basically if I break it off with her, I get no pussy or have to try hard. I'm thinking stay with her until she moves to LA, which is in July, when the girls come back and it is summer season. Basically, how can I let her know I'm not diggin' this whole hot cold thing without losing the puss???

[KCT0673]

(04-08-2009 10:22 AM)Brandon E Wrote:  



So the girl I'm seeing right now is always giving me this hot cold shit. One minute she is all about it and the next she isn't really feeling it. She takes adderole for her ADD, and usually when she isn't feeling it is when it is wearing off at night, which sucks because I'm always working late, so she'll either come over at night and be lame and tired and not want to fuck (including last night, when she is going back to New York for 5 days, so 6 days no pune for me), or she'll just say she is too tired to come over. When she isn't tired and being lame, she is cool as shit. Really, the coolest girl I've ever dated, and the sex is amazing, not to mention she does yoga, so really flexible and a perfect 10 body. I don't know what to do because next week is off season which means the already bad guy to girl ratio gets even worse. I mean really, I don't have trouble picking up girls, but when there are really no cute girls and even when there is there are 5 guys hitting on one, it makes it hard. All the bars and clubs close down. So basically if I break it off with her, I get no pussy or have to try hard. I'm thinking stay with her until she moves to LA, which is in July, when the girls come back and it is summer season. Basically, how can I let her know I'm not diggin' this whole hot cold thing without losing the puss???

This is a case where you need to use her own game against her. Call her out on it somehow,or just start shit-testing her yourself. Chicks and people in general always want things that they feel that they cant have, and it looks like she has you wrapped around her fingers so you must be getting a bit boring to her (no offence as Im sure your not boring). Dont worry about her until you get back and just talk to some randoms that you see in the grocery store or something. If all goes well you'll have met some more women by the time she gets back and if she wants to do something then schedule a date or something with one of them. From my experience she'll get jealous (women do very easily) and the next time you see her she'll want you more then you can imagine lol.

[InternationPlayboy]

(04-09-2009 01:50 PM)KCT0673 Wrote:  

(04-08-2009 10:22 AM)Brandon E Wrote:  



So the girl I'm seeing right now is always giving me this hot cold shit. One minute she is all about it and the next she isn't really feeling it. She takes adderole for her ADD, and usually when she isn't feeling it is when it is wearing off at night, which sucks because I'm always working late, so she'll either come over at night and be lame and tired and not want to fuck (including last night, when she is going back to New York for 5 days, so 6 days no pune for me), or she'll just say she is too tired to come over. When she isn't tired and being lame, she is cool as shit. Really, the coolest girl I've ever dated, and the sex is amazing, not to mention she does yoga, so really flexible and a perfect 10 body. I don't know what to do because next week is off season which means the already bad guy to girl ratio gets even worse. I mean really, I don't have trouble picking up girls, but when there are really no cute girls and even when there is there are 5 guys hitting on one, it makes it hard. All the bars and clubs close down. So basically if I break it off with her, I get no pussy or have to try hard. I'm thinking stay with her until she moves to LA, which is in July, when the girls come back and it is summer season. Basically, how can I let her know I'm not diggin' this whole hot cold thing without losing the puss???

This is a case where you need to use her own game against her. Call her out on it somehow,or just start shit-testing her yourself. Chicks and people in general always want things that they feel that they cant have, and it looks like she has you wrapped around her fingers so you must be getting a bit boring to her (no offence as Im sure your not boring). Dont worry about her until you get back and just talk to some randoms that you see in the grocery store or something. If all goes well you'll have met some more women by the time she gets back and if she wants to do something then schedule a date or something with one of them. From my experience she'll get jealous (women do very easily) and the next time you see her she'll want you more then you can imagine lol.

That's exactly what I was thinking, except the last part. I can't really schedule a date with another girl and let her know because she is my girlfriend right now, but I think I might change that since she is moving in a couple of months anyways.

[lip service]

KCT you touched on something there about playing her at her own game but not nearly enough...

Brandon, when she is playing hot, play her cold (not too cold though) and when she is playing cold dont play hot or cold just be fun and kind and whatever just general crap.

Also, depending on the age of you both, try pulling her hand away when she puts it in your pants even a little bit. Make it very subtle at first but then when you see shes noticing it then make it a little less subtle. In the end she will be pulling down your pants as ur pulling her away as she wants what she cant get. Thats more of a day task but can be done a few times or even over the course of a few days.

Let me know how it goes

[KCT0673]

(04-10-2009 10:08 PM)lip service Wrote:  

KCT you touched on something there about playing her at her own game but not nearly enough...

Brandon, when she is playing hot, play her cold (not too cold though) and when she is playing cold dont play hot or cold just be fun and kind and whatever just general crap.

Also, depending on the age of you both, try pulling her hand away when she puts it in your pants even a little bit. Make it very subtle at first but then when you see shes noticing it then make it a little less subtle. In the end she will be pulling down your pants as ur pulling her away as she wants what she cant get. Thats more of a day task but can be done a few times or even over the course of a few days.

Let me know how it goes

I totally agree with the last part. Its small things like that which will keep a girl wanting you.

[Roosh]

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This is a case where you need to use her own game against her.

Bingo. The best response is to mirror her. Be more aloof and disinterested and see how she responds.

[InternationPlayboy]

haha, no more problem with this. I got the women rapped around the finger now. Last night she goes in to buy cigarretes, and goes, "What should I do with this (Her cigarrette)" I go, "Give it to me, I'll smoke it and you go in and buy us some ciggarettes." After she just spent at least $100 on me. She isn't giving me the hot cold anymore. I don't even really know what I did. I mean I kinda played her at her own game, but I didn't think it would work so fast.

[Karbrino]

I am glad to hear this news.