There have been a lot of changes in my friendship group over the last three years. With one exception all seem to have gone through periods ranging from deep introspection to mental breakdown. They've all revolved around the person's place in the world and where they are going in the future. A very clear split has also emerged, which could best be described as between individualists and collectivists; and the selection of each group is clearly based on their survival strategy. Those who think they can carve their own part out of the world are individualists and those who are uncertain of their place in the world and are unhappy what they want is not just falling out of the sky have chosen collectivism. Describing leanings towards masculinity and femininity is not so clear cut, but the collectivists have all gone more towards femininity.
With one exception, the collectivised-feminists have drifted out of my life and I don't want to be in their presence again. I just visited the exception in a European capital on my way home and the guy, who is probably in the top 1% of intelligence, is living in a pretty dirty apartment with bed-sheets that didn't look like they've been cleaned in about two months. He has no direction in his life, no real plans, no thoughts of starting a family and no idea that his SMV is going lower and lower. Anytime I present facts that don't fit in with his emotional view of the world, he just shrugs his shoulders or giggles. Most of his days were spent messing about online as I banged out 12 hours solid / day. He walked about a lot in his frumpy looking underwear and it wasn't that he doesn't work out - his chronic lack of testosterone made him look like a hairy woman with a few extra pounds. I find this complete lack of self-respect and development increasingly infuriating, especially when it's coupled with the insistence for even more government control to promote even more adult babies waddling through their 30s with no responsibility.
On the last day, a friend showed up, going nowhere and also showing off his low-T physique in his ill-fitting boxers. I met other friends and it's all the same. These people have nothing, do little, are planning for nothing but the end of their family line and are worried about those who do. The whole city was brimming with this, full of scrubby looking males with their hair up in greasy hair buns and clothes their mother could have done better picking out. No self-respect, no direction, no future.
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I'm interested to know what others who have dumped long-standing feminised friends have experienced. Particularly if they themselves suffered from the condition.
It's only recently that I've realised that most of my male company has been a major factor in my standing with women. I never had anyone to point, force, coach or aggres me into a direction that would have benefited me in anything. A large part of my thinking is that being around this could be doing me no good, but also that it's good to have in sight an example of what you don't want to be.
With one exception, the collectivised-feminists have drifted out of my life and I don't want to be in their presence again. I just visited the exception in a European capital on my way home and the guy, who is probably in the top 1% of intelligence, is living in a pretty dirty apartment with bed-sheets that didn't look like they've been cleaned in about two months. He has no direction in his life, no real plans, no thoughts of starting a family and no idea that his SMV is going lower and lower. Anytime I present facts that don't fit in with his emotional view of the world, he just shrugs his shoulders or giggles. Most of his days were spent messing about online as I banged out 12 hours solid / day. He walked about a lot in his frumpy looking underwear and it wasn't that he doesn't work out - his chronic lack of testosterone made him look like a hairy woman with a few extra pounds. I find this complete lack of self-respect and development increasingly infuriating, especially when it's coupled with the insistence for even more government control to promote even more adult babies waddling through their 30s with no responsibility.
On the last day, a friend showed up, going nowhere and also showing off his low-T physique in his ill-fitting boxers. I met other friends and it's all the same. These people have nothing, do little, are planning for nothing but the end of their family line and are worried about those who do. The whole city was brimming with this, full of scrubby looking males with their hair up in greasy hair buns and clothes their mother could have done better picking out. No self-respect, no direction, no future.
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I'm interested to know what others who have dumped long-standing feminised friends have experienced. Particularly if they themselves suffered from the condition.
It's only recently that I've realised that most of my male company has been a major factor in my standing with women. I never had anyone to point, force, coach or aggres me into a direction that would have benefited me in anything. A large part of my thinking is that being around this could be doing me no good, but also that it's good to have in sight an example of what you don't want to be.
