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http://m.neogaf.com/showthread.php?t=1452075

He issued a statement:

Hi.

An allegation of sexual misconduct has been made against me by an ex. It's not true, the individual making the accusation isn't credible, the story doesn't reconcile logically with the facts, and there's plenty of evidence and witnesses to corroborate that. It'll be a process.

All allegations of this nature are serious, of course. I first got word of it on Wednesday when a screenshot of a Facebook post was handed to Voat. I immediately talked with my mod team about the contents of the screenshot and clarified that it was baseless and explained some of the details concerning my former associations with her, and tried to ensure any concerns from the team were addressed fully and transparently to everyone's satisfaction. On Thursday I heard that she had deleted the accusation from Facebook, and wasn't entirely sure how to proceed from there or how this would all play out in the public space at that point. Then, Friday morning, the screenshot made its way to NeoGAF and chaos ensued.

I was in the process of writing a statement that entire day to address formally address the allegation, but the community had erupted in a flash that morning. While the moderation team was trying to restore the peace, accusations and threats concerning the screenshot started shifting to them as well by association with me, and I was asked by my team to do something to fix things and get the heat off of all of them at least. I was beyond exhausted by that point, though, stretched too thin in the time since the post had first appeared and seeing unprecedented events unfold on NeoGAF. I was slow and weak. I failed to handle it quickly enough and let the team down. Before I could finish a statement and get it out there, understandably some mods hit their emotional limit, expressed concerns about the community coming after them, and decided to leave. A few people resigned, and many more quickly followed for similar reasons, citing stress and harassment. The site started breaking under load spikes leading up to the first resignations, too, and then flatlined altogether, so issuing a statement at that time on NeoGAF itself became impossible for the time being, and my attention shifted toward the moderation team's future.

Since that whole mess, lasting from Friday morning through Saturday, before we formally went offline for maintenance and repair and restructure, we've just been trying to figure out the best course of action for NeoGAF going forward. And as stories began being published by various outlets, I issued some comments to the press, since everything coming out was proving to be sensationalized, opportunist, and unprofessional.


We've all become increasingly stressed and weary this year in ways even I'm not accustomed to by now, and discussions on heated news, political issues, and social issues on the off-topic side of the site have become areas no one has wanted to moderate in the open for fear of backlash or just general exposure to the inevitable toxicity. I've gone in there myself to take the heat, since it's very much my responsibility to do so before anyone else's, but there's been little headway, mostly just more anger and resentment and a lot of bans. I don't think this necessarily reflects on our community; more so the tone of the entire internet this year with regards to heated issues.

That's all going to inform the way forward for NeoGAF as we refocus on what the main goals are supposed to be for the site. The mod team will talk about more specifics on what that will entail below.


One last thing. The NeoGAF mod team is here for this community; all of you. You have no obligations to respect me or believe anything I say about my personal life one way or another, but if you're going to be here and participate on NeoGAF, respect the mod team by following the rules and behaving. The team is diminished at the moment and the folks who stuck around care very much about this community and its future. Be considerate of them. That's non-negotiable.

Thanks.

[Nonpareil]

(10-23-2017 01:14 PM)Vill@in Wrote:  

The "Assault":

Quote:

In NOLA we drank and had fun and one night we had been drinking our hotel room and I got sick.

I was throwing up and decided to hop in the shower to feel better.
I was surprised when he got into the shower, fully naked, behind me.

I had a boyfriend at the time and didn’t think I had given him any reason to believe I wanted this. I didn’t cheat.

So I told him that it wasn’t ok, that I was sick, that I had a boyfriend, that I didn’t want that.

He got out and slowly started resenting me, being mean to me, ignoring me… in a city he drove me to.

I couldn’t wait to get home.
I couldn’t tell my partner for fear that he would claim I led him on.
My relationship with my boyfriend suffered and we broke up soon after that.

So if I'm reading this right, this chick went to another city with this beta faggot, drank copious amounts of alcohol, had a hotel room with him, decided to shower to make herself feel better, and then was sexual assaulted when he got in the shower with her. Got it. Oh and then her boyfriend broke up with her months later because a naked Soy Boy got in the shower with her. No mention of any physical contact but admitting to such might make her look like a cheating whore.

Call me crazy, but why go on a trip to another city with a dude if you had a boyfriend? Why get a hotel room with said guy? Why drink lots of booze with him? WHY SHOWER WITH THE DOOR UNLOCKED? Hamstering the reasons why her relationship with her boyfriend failed because of this incident is par for the course though.

The only thing this incel Evilore sounds guilty of in this particular instance is having no game whatsoever. However, he's definitely guilty of being a hypocritical beta, running a message board full of SJW's ready to stab each other in the back on a seconds notice, and having pedophiles for moderators. So have fun reaping what you sowed, faggot.

It would appear you're reading that correctly.

Here's what I think happened:

- She went on the trip knowing full well the hotel arrangement not because she's a slut (maybe she is? Can we get a pic?), but because free trip!

- He, like most men in that situation figured 'if I take this girl on this trip and we go out boozing I'll get the bang for sure!'. Because if not, why not take one of his boys or something?

- To which I'll add, I will ten times out of ten take one of my buddies on a party trip to a place like New Orleans over some chick I'm not even banging...hell might even slide that 10/10 over for girlfriends too, I would have more fun and we could both find some girls.

- At some point in time before this, he got the bang, probably an alcohol assisted bang. This has changed from a harassment narrative into a slut penance narrative in her mind at this point.

- She, suddenly remembering she had a boyfriend, is naturally repulsed that she let this elfin little soy boy fuck her, spends the rest of the trip looking for a way to spin this into a 'muh harassment!' victim narrative.

- And one presents itself when he drops weak game by trying to jump into the shower with a sick girl. If he wasn't the owner of a website that unleashed Anita Sharknosian on the world I might even buy him a drink and say 'Don't trust these hoes', but he is so fuck him.

TLDR: She did fuck him, her boyfriend found out and in light of Harvey Weinstein, she felt that OTHER women being victims was just, like, unfair guys!

- And in closing, like probably many of you, I've done things I'm not proud of and had moments of shameful game, but first we got Harvey Weinstein's 'Jewish mother guilt' game and now this...I find myself thinking 'It wasn't really that bad'...

[AnonymousBosch]

[url=https://twitter.com/zyxophoj/status/922039229076656128][/url]

It's sad that we live in a time where random twitter users are reliably-funnier than comedic 'professionals'.

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(10-24-2017 02:32 PM)Nonpareil Wrote:  

(10-23-2017 01:14 PM)Vill@in Wrote:  

The "Assault":

Quote:

In NOLA we drank and had fun and one night we had been drinking our hotel room and I got sick.

I was throwing up and decided to hop in the shower to feel better.
I was surprised when he got into the shower, fully naked, behind me.

I had a boyfriend at the time and didn’t think I had given him any reason to believe I wanted this. I didn’t cheat.

So I told him that it wasn’t ok, that I was sick, that I had a boyfriend, that I didn’t want that.

He got out and slowly started resenting me, being mean to me, ignoring me… in a city he drove me to.

I couldn’t wait to get home.
I couldn’t tell my partner for fear that he would claim I led him on.
My relationship with my boyfriend suffered and we broke up soon after that.

So if I'm reading this right, this chick went to another city with this beta faggot, drank copious amounts of alcohol, had a hotel room with him, decided to shower to make herself feel better, and then was sexual assaulted when he got in the shower with her. Got it. Oh and then her boyfriend broke up with her months later because a naked Soy Boy got in the shower with her. No mention of any physical contact but admitting to such might make her look like a cheating whore.

Call me crazy, but why go on a trip to another city with a dude if you had a boyfriend? Why get a hotel room with said guy? Why drink lots of booze with him? WHY SHOWER WITH THE DOOR UNLOCKED? Hamstering the reasons why her relationship with her boyfriend failed because of this incident is par for the course though.

The only thing this incel Evilore sounds guilty of in this particular instance is having no game whatsoever. However, he's definitely guilty of being a hypocritical beta, running a message board full of SJW's ready to stab each other in the back on a seconds notice, and having pedophiles for moderators. So have fun reaping what you sowed, faggot.

It would appear you're reading that correctly.

Here's what I think happened:

- She went on the trip knowing full well the hotel arrangement not because she's a slut (maybe she is? Can we get a pic?), but because free trip!

- He, like most men in that situation figured 'if I take this girl on this trip and we go out boozing I'll get the bang for sure!'. Because if not, why not take one of his boys or something?

- To which I'll add, I will ten times out of ten take one of my buddies on a party trip to a place like New Orleans over some chick I'm not even banging...hell might even slide that 10/10 over for girlfriends too, I would have more fun and we could both find some girls.

- At some point in time before this, he got the bang, probably an alcohol assisted bang. This has changed from a harassment narrative into a slut penance narrative in her mind at this point.

- She, suddenly remembering she had a boyfriend, is naturally repulsed that she let this elfin little soy boy fuck her, spends the rest of the trip looking for a way to spin this into a 'muh harassment!' victim narrative.

- And one presents itself when he drops weak game by trying to jump into the shower with a sick girl. If he wasn't the owner of a website that unleashed Anita Sharknosian on the world I might even buy him a drink and say 'Don't trust these hoes', but he is so fuck him.

TLDR: She did fuck him, her boyfriend found out and in light of Harvey Weinstein, she felt that OTHER women being victims was just, like, unfair guys!

- And in closing, like probably many of you, I've done things I'm not proud of and had moments of shameful game, but first we got Harvey Weinstein's 'Jewish mother guilt' game and now this...I find myself thinking 'It wasn't really that bad'...

Excellent analysis. I would only add that Tyler "resenting" her after the shower incident just made the situation worse, playing into her anger. I agree that she was a slut that tried to reframe the situation by making him the powerful oppressor and she was just the blindsided victim the entire way through.

[raveking]