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So, I have started College two weeks ago as a freshman.My life experiences till this moment and social tools are not enough to let me be the coolest guy in college but I try to keep up with the infos shared here on the forum and RSD videos to keep my mind straight. I knew a guy on the first day on college.Sooner we became somewhat of friends (later I get amog'd by this guy).My social skills have improved massively during the first week and I managed to maintain the uni mates So I do not stand alone during the gaps between lectures.I learned from roosh and rsd that its all about social circle game, So I'm trying as much to be as open and funny with people.Week two , I see a girl giving me strong eye contacts and is always standing alone (We have only 1 session about one and half hour a week in common). Yesterday , session time she comes and asks me if the seat beside me is taken and eventually she sits down. I strikes up a conversation 10 mins after asking her to help me in X she leads me. Sooner I make her laugh, I ask her if she thinks the TA's english is good she tells me not so good then she asks about what I think, I bait her by saying that I were in a french school So the conversation flew.. And when session time ended I ejected after giving her a good line for her to sit beside me again while not being so needy. End of the day going to my lecture hall I see the Amog making her all laugh in front of the hall , I walk my way and he shouts my name Do you know that she's X , Nothing in my head at this time , no social tools or experience I shake hand with her in a ceepy way with nothing to say . They enter the lecture hall together he's making her all laugh. He takes her close to a seat of another hottie that he stated to her before that he likes her. I get jealous at this scene( The girl that was into me is now into him , he's making the hotties of the lecture hall jealous too) . I ask my friend do you really understand what the Prof is saying , He answers me he doesn't, We both eject and Im at the peak of frustration I get out of the hall and tell my buddy why Im frustrated. Women are the reasons of conflict between men , They initiate jealousy which leads to frustration. I try to maintain myself and he's here tellin me its ok. Sooner I forgot about it and we're laughing together. I get back to the parking to wait for the uni bus to arrive I sit down And this happens.Guess who's coming back to ruin it more for me ,Yep. The Amog and the girl are walking in together He sees me and says my name Shakes hand , she tells him we sit her with a friend of her. They're all laughing about things together and I feel they sense my frustration I try to be as cool as possible and making my mate laughing at something at my phone . She asks me a question and I answer back. I eject when the bus came feeling like a wuss. I talk to myself 'I really need to go to approach some girls today so I forget what happens" But then I say ' You're really in a bad mood get back to your home , Take a shower and sleep , tomorrow is a better day' Next day I thought I forgot about it but the thing is It keeps catching to me again in someway or another and I still feel jealous about the amog and can't keep it down.
I even don't know in what way I should be proceeding in college, Do I keep talking with the amog and tellin him what was my intentions , Or I keep talking with the only hottie I see in my session which got picked up by the amog.I would like to know your thoughts on this stating what I did wrong , etc and how to handle future situations if that could help.
So, I have started College two weeks ago as a freshman.My life experiences till this moment and social tools are not enough to let me be the coolest guy in college but I try to keep up with the infos shared here on the forum and RSD videos to keep my mind straight. I knew a guy on the first day on college.Sooner we became somewhat of friends (later I get amog'd by this guy).My social skills have improved massively during the first week and I managed to maintain the uni mates So I do not stand alone during the gaps between lectures.I learned from roosh and rsd that its all about social circle game, So I'm trying as much to be as open and funny with people.Week two , I see a girl giving me strong eye contacts and is always standing alone (We have only 1 session about one and half hour a week in common). Yesterday , session time she comes and asks me if the seat beside me is taken and eventually she sits down. I strikes up a conversation 10 mins after asking her to help me in X she leads me. Sooner I make her laugh, I ask her if she thinks the TA's english is good she tells me not so good then she asks about what I think, I bait her by saying that I were in a french school So the conversation flew.. And when session time ended I ejected after giving her a good line for her to sit beside me again while not being so needy. End of the day going to my lecture hall I see the Amog making her all laugh in front of the hall , I walk my way and he shouts my name Do you know that she's X , Nothing in my head at this time , no social tools or experience I shake hand with her in a ceepy way with nothing to say . They enter the lecture hall together he's making her all laugh. He takes her close to a seat of another hottie that he stated to her before that he likes her. I get jealous at this scene( The girl that was into me is now into him , he's making the hotties of the lecture hall jealous too) . I ask my friend do you really understand what the Prof is saying , He answers me he doesn't, We both eject and Im at the peak of frustration I get out of the hall and tell my buddy why Im frustrated. Women are the reasons of conflict between men , They initiate jealousy which leads to frustration. I try to maintain myself and he's here tellin me its ok. Sooner I forgot about it and we're laughing together. I get back to the parking to wait for the uni bus to arrive I sit down And this happens.Guess who's coming back to ruin it more for me ,Yep. The Amog and the girl are walking in together He sees me and says my name Shakes hand , she tells him we sit her with a friend of her. They're all laughing about things together and I feel they sense my frustration I try to be as cool as possible and making my mate laughing at something at my phone . She asks me a question and I answer back. I eject when the bus came feeling like a wuss. I talk to myself 'I really need to go to approach some girls today so I forget what happens" But then I say ' You're really in a bad mood get back to your home , Take a shower and sleep , tomorrow is a better day' Next day I thought I forgot about it but the thing is It keeps catching to me again in someway or another and I still feel jealous about the amog and can't keep it down.
I even don't know in what way I should be proceeding in college, Do I keep talking with the amog and tellin him what was my intentions , Or I keep talking with the only hottie I see in my session which got picked up by the amog.I would like to know your thoughts on this stating what I did wrong , etc and how to handle future situations if that could help.