New to the forum. Wanted to throw this out there. Apologies in advance for offending anyone on my first post.
I'm a 41 y.o. white male, above average looks, 100k plus annual income. HS education, I've never married, no kids, pets, etc. I live well, gamble, party, hookers, etc.
I can not understand why a young woman, assuming they are attractive, settle for low-paying waitress jobs while churning out children. The husband, if they are even married, provides little in financial support, as he most likely works in a low paying job as well. If he did make good money, his pregnant wife wouldn't be selling beer at the local bar.
I was at a local sports bar tonight, both bartenders are in the middle of a pregnancy. Both require someone to drop off & pick them up from work, as they have no car. One waitress was openly discussing the fact that she was going to get a payday loan after work, to pay her power bill. Both pregnant girls have above average looks outside of the pregnant issue.
Am I out of line for thinking these people are absolute idiots? Or do I have it all wrong, whereas I should have married a girl, impregnated her, and forfeit my hard earned income by the estimated cost of $1,500 a month per child? Is raising a child that fulfilling?
In summary, I don't think that I'm that smarter or better than the other people around me, or am I?
I'm a 41 y.o. white male, above average looks, 100k plus annual income. HS education, I've never married, no kids, pets, etc. I live well, gamble, party, hookers, etc.
I can not understand why a young woman, assuming they are attractive, settle for low-paying waitress jobs while churning out children. The husband, if they are even married, provides little in financial support, as he most likely works in a low paying job as well. If he did make good money, his pregnant wife wouldn't be selling beer at the local bar.
I was at a local sports bar tonight, both bartenders are in the middle of a pregnancy. Both require someone to drop off & pick them up from work, as they have no car. One waitress was openly discussing the fact that she was going to get a payday loan after work, to pay her power bill. Both pregnant girls have above average looks outside of the pregnant issue.
Am I out of line for thinking these people are absolute idiots? Or do I have it all wrong, whereas I should have married a girl, impregnated her, and forfeit my hard earned income by the estimated cost of $1,500 a month per child? Is raising a child that fulfilling?
In summary, I don't think that I'm that smarter or better than the other people around me, or am I?