Met a ~20yo Latina (American-born) at a museum about 30 min before closing. She's from a few hours out of town. She said she had to go meet her friends but I took her to a nearby semi-private lounge.
After about another 20 min of talking, walking around the venue, and light kino, we sat down side by side. Then I kissed her, and we lightly made out. She leaned onto my shoulder after the kissing.
Seeing that she had to see her friends and then leave the next day, I decided that it was now or never. As we got up from the seat, she tripped and fell. I wonder if that was due to being really flustered and turned on by the makeout.
We went to a private room in the same venue where we started making out and getting physical. She gave some LMR talk like she's not sure if she should do this. I got her shirt off and we made out some more. But when I moved her hand to my dick, she resisted. I did this a few more times. Finally, I pulled it out and put it in front of her face. She started lightly crying. I stopped what I was doing, put my arms around her, and wiped her tears away. I held her for a bit.
Her mood returned to normal and she was happy again. We played around some more. I tried once more time to get her to touch me, but she still refused. At this point, it was getting late, so we left. I got her number. She bade me farewell with a kiss and then a hug. I probably won't contact her, but instead wait for her to contact me if she decides she wants to visit.
I would like some feedback on what I did right and what I could have done better. Especially the following points:
- Should I have done things with a different pace? Given the circumstances, I don't think I had a few hours to spend on this interaction to build up more comfort, as much as I'd have liked to.
- Was her crying just a ruse, or a genuine response due to lack of comfort? The makeout did seem to have a strong effect on her. I wonder if she was having trouble processing all the strong emotions.
- This girl was direct and asked me how many times I've picked up girls from museums in the past, after I kissed her. I wonder if it's because I didn't escalate smoothly enough, or that I did it too quickly, about an hour after I met her in a non-club/bar venue. I said she was the second, and she said she figured I'd done it before. Is this something that girls often ask during dates from day game? Should I have said anything differently -- maybe grin and lie that I've never done it before?
- Did I give up and end the interaction too soon?
Other observations:
- I've started to notice during day game (or approaching in non club/bar venues) that some of the girls show a brief moment of pleasant surprise immediately when I open them, and seem keen to continue the conversation. While I assume this is a sign of interest, I am wondering if this is something commonly encountered during day game, and hence a reliable indicator of interest.
- I have noticed myself doing more approaches this past week. I did about a dozen approaches this week, whereas a month ago I'd probably have done 3-5 in a week. I don't consciously feel any different. Maybe it's a subconscious change.
After about another 20 min of talking, walking around the venue, and light kino, we sat down side by side. Then I kissed her, and we lightly made out. She leaned onto my shoulder after the kissing.
Seeing that she had to see her friends and then leave the next day, I decided that it was now or never. As we got up from the seat, she tripped and fell. I wonder if that was due to being really flustered and turned on by the makeout.
We went to a private room in the same venue where we started making out and getting physical. She gave some LMR talk like she's not sure if she should do this. I got her shirt off and we made out some more. But when I moved her hand to my dick, she resisted. I did this a few more times. Finally, I pulled it out and put it in front of her face. She started lightly crying. I stopped what I was doing, put my arms around her, and wiped her tears away. I held her for a bit.
Her mood returned to normal and she was happy again. We played around some more. I tried once more time to get her to touch me, but she still refused. At this point, it was getting late, so we left. I got her number. She bade me farewell with a kiss and then a hug. I probably won't contact her, but instead wait for her to contact me if she decides she wants to visit.
I would like some feedback on what I did right and what I could have done better. Especially the following points:
- Should I have done things with a different pace? Given the circumstances, I don't think I had a few hours to spend on this interaction to build up more comfort, as much as I'd have liked to.
- Was her crying just a ruse, or a genuine response due to lack of comfort? The makeout did seem to have a strong effect on her. I wonder if she was having trouble processing all the strong emotions.
- This girl was direct and asked me how many times I've picked up girls from museums in the past, after I kissed her. I wonder if it's because I didn't escalate smoothly enough, or that I did it too quickly, about an hour after I met her in a non-club/bar venue. I said she was the second, and she said she figured I'd done it before. Is this something that girls often ask during dates from day game? Should I have said anything differently -- maybe grin and lie that I've never done it before?
- Did I give up and end the interaction too soon?
Other observations:
- I've started to notice during day game (or approaching in non club/bar venues) that some of the girls show a brief moment of pleasant surprise immediately when I open them, and seem keen to continue the conversation. While I assume this is a sign of interest, I am wondering if this is something commonly encountered during day game, and hence a reliable indicator of interest.
- I have noticed myself doing more approaches this past week. I did about a dozen approaches this week, whereas a month ago I'd probably have done 3-5 in a week. I don't consciously feel any different. Maybe it's a subconscious change.
