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(09-04-2017 12:13 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

I hear the "female shortage" in China is actually just a result of the Chinese cheating the official government stats and hiding girls that were born during the one-child rule period. So do not trust the official stats of how bad things may be for the Chinese man.

As for women becoming spoiled princesses who are too good for anyone, sometimes I think that money is so intoxicating that even if women outnumbered men 3:2 it wouldn't make a difference. The girls would claim there aren't enough men and that the men have it too easy, therefore they wouldn't get married. Nothing but excuses for spoiled women, doesn't matter what the circumstances are.

A Chinese woman whom I lived with concurs with this. Officials are bribed, family contacts made, girls are hidden or sent away so the number of girls in China is higher than official figures suggest.

China's official fertility rate is around that of feminist Canada's and higher than that of the EU (1.6 children per woman). Financial-democracy which spawns feminism appears to be worse for families than Maoism which is sobering to say the least. The EU has nearly achieved by financial and social stealth what Red China tried to achieve with state force.

China has a long way to go before it reaches the depths of Toronto or an English town.

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(09-04-2017 02:24 PM)John Michael Kane Wrote:  

The marketplace ultimately makes the final determination of value. You're only able to attract AND KEEP potential mates at, or near, your own value. Men and women that try to punch way above their weight class usually get burnt by someone who was not really attracted to them, but rather using them for some temporary purpose. If LTR/marriage is the game, it is best to make a brutally honest assessment of your own market value and target those mates that can appreciate you on your own merits, not an inflated sense of self-worth. As the old saying goes, pride commeth before the fall.

Extremely well stated.

I know my strengths and weaknesses, based on what women want, and act accordingly. I underline that part because it is indeed, as you stated, a marketplace. I have to sell what the buyer wants.

The problem that has arisen is that women are trying to tell men what to buy, and many just aren't going for it. No matter how hard they try, being an overweight, angry, post-wall, ball busting, cubicle jockey isn't something quality men will ever choose over an attractive, pleasant woman. No one goes into a steakhouse asking for day old vegan food.

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(09-04-2017 03:08 PM)Higgs Bosun Wrote:  

(09-04-2017 03:39 AM)Suits Wrote:  

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When it comes to potential wedding partners, single Chinese women rate themselves more highly than their counterparts. More than half of single women surveyed thought their boyfriends were not good enough for them with almost two-thirds believing their boyfriend's family background and education was inferior to their own, while almost two-fifths consider their partner's "face value" to be sub-par.

Unless there's a huge trend towards powerful, successful families with money and objectively good genetics are having girls instead of boys, this seems to point to women over-estimating their value and status.
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These pessimistic attitudes of commenters reflect an unstoppable trend that will shape all Chinese relationships in the years to come. Current estimates say Chinese men will outnumber women by 15 million by 2020, and 30 million by 2050. By 2027, the number of unmarried Chinese men will be twice that of unmarried Chinese women.

There ya go. There is a huge trend in men outnumbering women, leading to women having a perfectly justifiable notion that their value exceeds that of the average man. Of course that is true only on the aggregate as any individual woman may have a completely unrealistic picture of her own personal place on the value chain, but on the whole, Chinese women are rational to view themselves as "higher value" than their male counterparts.

Long term predictions don't take into account that China is about to take over from the US as the globalist police force with bases all around the world. Also one big plan is to move some 50-100 mio. Chinese to Africa.

You can guess who those Chinese soldiers will be marrying - sure a Chinese woman will be preferable, but many many of them simply marry a cute African woman and produce some Blasians. China was decided to take over the black continent - globalist plan even written about some 100 years ago.

So the "woman-problem" of China won't be one for long.

Also in Africa - even 100 mio. Chinese won't put a dent into the entire population. It's enough to rule and control the continent, but not not enough to endanger the black majority states.