[Uhondo]

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I've had sex with plenty of MILFs, and to be honest, they tend to have looser pussies ON AVERAGE than women with no kids. It's not a myth, it's true based on my experiences.

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About Kegels, I spoke to a woman who did them right after her birth and she claimed she was tighter than before

I once had an on off relationship with a woman who had three kids. She had been doing kegels, and without any iota of exaggeration she was the tightest sex buddy i have ever had. She literally could grip my cock using her inner muscles (or whatever one could call them) to the point my schlong would be throbbing post sex. She would make it so tight that it would hurt sometimes when i was in her -it felt kinda like squeezing my cock in her palm. I haven't come across such a tight pudenda before or since.

On the other side i have come across pretty loose women that don't have kids.

The kegel thing is real.

But outside of sex the MILFs i've known generally are easier to get along with. But the baggage they come with is just not worth any sort of long term commitment. From me.

[realologist]

Speaking of MILFs. I just saw one. I was at the grocery store and she was probably 25sh with a son that looked about 8. Blonde hair, in tight spandex workout shorts, tight workout shirt, baseball hat, trashy blonde hair. Even though she was small had nice juicy thighs and a little bubble butt. Looked like a dancer body. Ratchet thigh tats on each leg.

I'll tell you what, I would have loved to tattoo that pussy with my dick. Too bad I was short on time and saw her as I was walking out. Oh well. Probably forget about her tomorrow.

[J_Sway]

Had a 17yo in my 20s with a 6mo baby. Tiny little thing but horny as hell. She eventually went bananas and started stalking me, eventually pulling the "pregnant" card. I told her to prove it and have it or go to the clinic and have it dealt with, either way it wasn't my problem until something came out. Never heard from her again.

Had another one a few years ago, a couple years older than me with a 4yo daughter. Ex-wife of an AA buddy who was an AA and a SLAA member (Sex & Love Addicts Anonymous) herself. You can imagine what that was like.

[rudebwoy]

I normally don't like dating women with kids.

I must say though, I have had some great lays with women with kids in the past.

Heck, we are men.

[Test Pilot]

Women with kids - just not my thing. Turns me off like a smoker or tats.

Having said that, have banged two.

The first, in my blue pill & thirsty days, she had a 1 year old that lived with the father. She was very skinny, and had a skin stretched stomach and tiny sagged A cups.

The second, was a plate I had spinning in her early 40's and divorced - an Iranian. I just assumed she had them, she mentioned later on she had kids when she was 18 then 20. So they where young adults and moved out. She was passionate and hot with a curvy figure

[david.garrett84]

Each to their own, but I think just as we would generally prefer a virgin 8 to an experienced 8 (if we had to choose), a lot of guys are going to prefer a childless woman to fuck instead of one with kids.

[Vaun]

Dating and hooking up with single moms is along the same lines as dating overweight women, you're slumming it.

If you are a younger, childless, single man with a decent eduction and a job, and you have all of your teeth, you probably have severe self esteem issues if you're attracted to them. Or if you're dating one, or making one your "girl friend".

Slump busters at best.

[Banna]

^^^

Awww C'mon I'm no fan of single mom's myself and even I think that's an extremely judgemental umbrella position to take.

There are a lot of success stories that can potentially happen. I wouldn't even be seeing this girl i mentioned now if her mom hadn't stopped at 2 kids from a prior relationship before having her and her brother via her 2nd husband.

There's been some girls that when clubbing I've opened I was like: "damn you're so fine" only to realize through convo or their screensaver that've got a child.and kinda cool on the hookup talks.

Physically speaking some of them manage to keep their hot looks.

[Vaun]

(09-09-2017 08:27 AM)Banna Wrote:  

^^^

Awww C'mon I'm no fan of single mom's myself and even I think that's an extremely judgemental umbrella position to take.

There are a lot of success stories that can potentially happen. I wouldn't even be seeing this girl i mentioned now if her mom hadn't stopped at 2 kids from a prior relationship before having her and her brother via her 2nd husband.

There's been some girls that when clubbing I've opened I was like: "damn you're so fine" only to realize through convo or their screensaver that've got a child.and kinda cool on the hookup talks.

Physically speaking some of them manage to keep their hot looks.

It sounds like you might have low self esteem, and dont hold yourself(your sperm) in high enough regard, to pursue and choose fertile young single women for procreation, who have not had childern with another man. Its really a result of the perversions this society has created in normally healthy young men. I would dig a little deeper in yourself to ask why you would choose something so much less than ideal.

Forgot to add: Location. If you live somewhere with a low amount of attractive, single women, a man will gravitate towards slumming it by white knighting with single moms and "mature" women.

[realologist]

People are overacting about this on both sides. If you fuck a lot, chances are you're going to fuck some single mothers. And you shouldn't just disqualify a chick for fucking because she's a single mom. As long as they pass the boner and drama test you might as well bust a nut on busted goods. Don't ever make them more than a fuck buddy though.

[Chetthebaker]

^ I haven't, but I concur. Nothing wrong with giving em a toss, just don't get serious.

[Vaun]

(09-09-2017 12:06 PM)realologist Wrote:  

People are overacting about this on both sides. If you fuck a lot, chances are you're going to fuck some single mothers. And you shouldn't just disqualify a chick for fucking because she's a single mom. As long as they pass the boner and drama test you might as well bust a nut on busted goods. Don't ever make them more than a fuck buddy though.

You forgot dry, cavernous pussy, c-section scars, massive stretch marks, worn out loose abdomen skin, worn out breasts, strange smells, lurking exes, besides the fact she probably has made some of the worst life choices someone can make. And roped another guy into a baby. But if that passes your "boner test", I guess someone has to take the plunge.

[Banna]

(09-09-2017 08:32 AM)Vaun Wrote:  

(09-09-2017 08:27 AM)Banna Wrote:  

^^^

Awww C'mon I'm no fan of single mom's myself and even I think that's an extremely judgemental umbrella position to take.

There are a lot of success stories that can potentially happen. I wouldn't even be seeing this girl i mentioned now if her mom hadn't stopped at 2 kids from a prior relationship before having her and her brother via her 2nd husband.

There's been some girls that when clubbing I've opened I was like: "damn you're so fine" only to realize through convo or their screensaver that've got a child.and kinda cool on the hookup talks.

Physically speaking some of them manage to keep their hot looks.

It sounds like you might have low self esteem, and dont hold yourself(your sperm) in high enough regard, to pursue and choose fertile young single women for procreation, who have not had childern with another man. Its really a result of the perversions this society has created in normally healthy young men. I would dig a little deeper in yourself to ask why you would choose something so much less than ideal.

Forgot to add: Location. If you live somewhere with a low amount of attractive, single women, a man will gravitate towards slumming it by white knighting with single moms and "mature" women.

Please be quiet with this bolded garbage as if you know me personally to make such an assumption. Truth be told I don't lose sleep about whether or not I will ever have kids in the first place.

I like 20-29 year old childless girls exclusively.

I already stated I don't mess with single mothers.....anymore, no girlfriends and not even for a quick fling. That has come over time and from personal experiences. In terms of gaming I try to limit myself to places/venues they're less likely to be.

But I still respect them as women and as human beings and you should too. Look at all the nonsense you posted about their physiques post childhood.....isn't that how your ass left your mom's figure after slithering out of her womb too to exist on planet earth?

[Vaun]

(09-09-2017 01:57 PM)Banna Wrote:  

(09-09-2017 08:32 AM)Vaun Wrote:  

(09-09-2017 08:27 AM)Banna Wrote:  

^^^

Awww C'mon I'm no fan of single mom's myself and even I think that's an extremely judgemental umbrella position to take.

There are a lot of success stories that can potentially happen. I wouldn't even be seeing this girl i mentioned now if her mom hadn't stopped at 2 kids from a prior relationship before having her and her brother via her 2nd husband.

There's been some girls that when clubbing I've opened I was like: "damn you're so fine" only to realize through convo or their screensaver that've got a child.and kinda cool on the hookup talks.

Physically speaking some of them manage to keep their hot looks.

It sounds like you might have low self esteem, and dont hold yourself(your sperm) in high enough regard, to pursue and choose fertile young single women for procreation, who have not had childern with another man. Its really a result of the perversions this society has created in normally healthy young men. I would dig a little deeper in yourself to ask why you would choose something so much less than ideal.

Forgot to add: Location. If you live somewhere with a low amount of attractive, single women, a man will gravitate towards slumming it by white knighting with single moms and "mature" women.

Please be quiet with this bolded garbage as if you know me personally to make such an assumption. Truth be told I don't lose sleep about whether or not I will ever have kids in the first place.

I like 20-29 year old childless girls exclusively.

I already stated I don't mess with single mothers.....anymore, no girlfriends and not even for a quick fling. That has come over time and from personal experiences. In terms of gaming I try to limit myself to places/venues they're less likely to be.

But I still respect them as women and as human beings and you should too. Look at all the nonsense you posted about their physiques post childhood.....isn't that how your ass left your mom's figure after slithering out of her womb too to exist on planet earth?

The fact that you even chimed in, after my first post wasn't even directed to you, shows you know this is wrong(I didnt even read your post). Who is saying I dont respect them? I simply choose not to engage in any sort of relationships with them.

You're clearly a butt hurt guy with low self esteem, grasping at straws. Looking at your disgusting comment you made, when my original comment wasn't even posted at you directly.

Judging by your comments, you're obviously the one disrespecting these women. Just using them for sex, and coming here lamenting about it. I choose not to engage them in any way. You choose to take advantage of desperate women. Because you're a desperate man yourself, on the hunt for easy pussy, because you are unable to pull more suitable women, who likely rule you out as a weirdo(judging by your comments and desire to bed vulnerable women).

Here we have another example of low self esteem. Keep talking, you prove it even more.

[kosko]

Single moms are a trap and a circle situation. These girls are bad apples that chased away good men or stuck around with shitty dudes, and it shows more poorly on those character. It's a trap be sure it really isn't hard to swoop them, just be moderately stable and show them a good time and they will cling on like plastic wrap. Duds who get tired or lazy can get fooled and stuck and then once the hurricane hits (too soon?) They get stuck in a storm of drama.

If find its the moms who still hit the bars and clubs hard, almost like they making up for lost time. You won't find these bitches in coffee shops, also Universites are void of them as every school girl just gets an abortion. Community College though is a different story -- go walk into the Executive Assistant, Medical Records, or Paralegal programs and it's full of single moms.

[goldmine]

Of course I have, there are some hot single mothers out there.

[goldmine]

(09-09-2017 12:06 PM)realologist Wrote:  

People are overacting about this on both sides. If you fuck a lot, chances are you're going to fuck some single mothers. And you shouldn't just disqualify a chick for fucking because she's a single mom. As long as they pass the boner and drama test you might as well bust a nut on busted goods. Don't ever make them more than a fuck buddy though.

Very true, there are some cool single mothers out there.

[Geomann180]

I don't seek out single mothers and avoid them if I can; that is if plentiful better options are available.

Hell, it wasn't until I was stationed at Ft. Benning, just over a year ago, that I banged my first single mom. And she took me home from a bar that had not much going for it. I'm not proud that I've banged single moms and wouldn't be proud that I never did. I just play the cards I'm dealt, man.

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[DonnyGately]

One of the hottest girls I ever banged was a stripper, 20, with 3 kids who was a dead ringer for Jenna Haze. Like, eerie how close they looked - same fit level as a young Jenna needless to say.

Below 21 those bodies/muscles bounce back really fast. Over, not so much.

[Rain97]

Nothin' better than smashing a MILF then drinking all her sons juice-box.

[Conquistador]

So what are the choices here?

1. Bang women that uses birth control responsibly

2. Bang women who don't use bc responsibly but who gets abortions

3. Bang women who don't use bc and don't get abortions but for whatever reason couldn't/didn't want to keep a man

I also don't understand why guys are shamed when picking this route. In a perfect world these women would be shunned out of existence, but they are there and somebody has to take care of that business.

[questor70]

The younger the kids are, the more I "blame" her for having made a bad decision. And getting knocked up by a boyfriend and not even trying to marry him is the worst. However, given the statistics on divorce, most marriages, even the happiest ones at inception, are going to fail by the time the kids are teenage or just out of the house. I don't think women should be crucified over not being able to look ahead 18+ years.

Women wind up having kids. It's just a fact of life otherwise the species would go extinct. And the older you get the more you're going to have to start accepting older women into your life. Once you start conceding this and date older, I've found it's the women who have still not had kids are a red-flag. There is either something seriously wrong with them that scare men away or if they are still fertile they are desperately looking for a sperm donor and nothing else.

At least if they've had kids they've gotten their biological imperative over with, in which case I just want to make sure I'm not seen as a prospective step-father and college-fund.

[Incubus]

Keep a condom on

After the first kid (or 2) with a loser (single moms call all ex's the loser)..they naturally think they could of gotten a winner with money (forget about love) just by spreading there legs and being smart

The longest relationship these women ever had was maybe 5 years. (you will last 3 years...maybe)

Most women have a dream about the number of kids they want. Usually it isn't just one kid. AND they are smarter $$$ now

These MILFS already have the boring infrastructure in place to take care of one kid or kids....their life is over (any parent with kids know it's a lifelong job)

All I can say is "enjoy the sex"...wear a condom always......and don't buy the Bullshit......look for a widower at 19 who's boyfriend got hit by a bus.

[meetjoeblack]

(08-28-2017 06:43 AM)david.garrett84 Wrote:  

I have more flags than I care to remember and am regularly on the prowl for new notches - but I have never bedded a woman with a kid or kids. Ever.

Cratered SMV. Gross. Nobody with valid options would dare bother.

[Noir]

I have banged a few women with kids, but they were under 30-35.

Best sex of my life was with a 43 year old when I was 22. She had a 25 year old son and was a recently divorced trophy wife of some millionaire and she had just moved to my city.

I picked her up at an upscale bar where I knew the bartenders.

She wanted to take me home the same night but I had work early so we met on the weekend. Checked with me what I wanted to eat, bought me a bottle of brandy, cooked me a steak and salad and we basically sat on the couch of her loft apartment talking to each other.
Showed me pics of her kids, drank some more, put on Moby and basically had sex for 4 hours.

The best thing was the fact that she was a trophy wife so her body was tight, fake tits, and basically was an 8/10.

I have yet to find a woman who would be so subservient but all she wanted was some rough sex I suppose.

It didn't last very long because it was during a 2 month period where her daughter would be with her father but it was amazing and probably one of the best things to happen to me, game-wise. I ended up seeing her more than most other girls during that period though.

It gave me an unshakable sense of confidence and internalized the feeling of 'unstoppable'.

I remember one of our last 'dates', we watched Wolf of Wall Street at the cinema; I will never forget the looks I got. Girls my age looking irritated yet all guys looking with a sense of awe and admiration. Holding hands in public and shit.

So, to answer your question OP, the MILF experience is quite interesting and full of lessons if you are young enough that they are aware you ain't gonna settle with them. A dose of realism. During our conversations, she threw out some real red pill shit about her 15-30 years of age and her rich husband bringing strippers home, drug usage, the power struggle in marriage especially when there's millions at stake, a lot of shit.

I might be biased but if guys go with it while having one foot out of the door, to get an insight into an older woman's mind (and she is bangable of course) then go for it.

If you are 28-30+ then you start going into the provider stage and it's a whole different game.

The greatest irony was that she was trying to set me up with her niece, at the bar but I wanted her and I always get what I want.