Hey fellas,
I've been trying to be more pro-active with respect to approaching. I have a question for you guys out there that live in faster-paced cities, or maybe those who have more experience. Is there a certain unspoken urgency about materializing an approach/digits into a date quickly here (I live in New York.)
Allow me to explain:
Despite having a few plusses on my side (if we were to pretend there are 5 steps to getting the lay, I'm an absolutely ace at the last 4 steps, but I'm a cripple on the first step -- the approach.) So I typically, and hesitantly engage girls within my radius, anyway there was a solid 8.5 the other week who I had the courage to say hey too and ask a boring question, which led to me getting her digits, a wink, and I'm usually a good judge of character -- but me being out of practice I was like 'whatever, I'll text her in a day or so' but my gut told me to set up something that very moment. I went with the former, and she never wrote me back. It's as if in some cases, you gotta cap off the date instantly, or girls vanish. Has that been anyone else's experience? Or am I misreading something?
I've been trying to be more pro-active with respect to approaching. I have a question for you guys out there that live in faster-paced cities, or maybe those who have more experience. Is there a certain unspoken urgency about materializing an approach/digits into a date quickly here (I live in New York.)
Allow me to explain:
Despite having a few plusses on my side (if we were to pretend there are 5 steps to getting the lay, I'm an absolutely ace at the last 4 steps, but I'm a cripple on the first step -- the approach.) So I typically, and hesitantly engage girls within my radius, anyway there was a solid 8.5 the other week who I had the courage to say hey too and ask a boring question, which led to me getting her digits, a wink, and I'm usually a good judge of character -- but me being out of practice I was like 'whatever, I'll text her in a day or so' but my gut told me to set up something that very moment. I went with the former, and she never wrote me back. It's as if in some cases, you gotta cap off the date instantly, or girls vanish. Has that been anyone else's experience? Or am I misreading something?