Quote: (06-20-2017 12:10 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:
Quote: (06-20-2017 07:33 AM)EmotionalGeek Wrote:
Is there some good counter to her not wanting to take her panties off?
Yes. Take your undies off and put her hand on your tub-puppet and make her start working it. This works the most of the time.
Why? Because youre not working against her "vulnerabilities" but still breaking the last sexual intimacy barrier
OP
If you are laying in bed w a girl making out and down to your undies you dont need anymore attraction or comfort. You need
[b]arousal[/b] Arousal like attraction is not a choice: it is a reaction.
Sex is
acting on that arousal. Like any act there is a beginning, a middle, and an end. There is also a certain degree of "momentum".
If she's in bed with you then the attraction is there. If she wont let you pull off her panties she is breaking that momentum. Why?
Fear
"He'll think Im a slut"
"I didnt shave and it'll gross him out"
etc etc...could be a million things
But the easiest way to keep the
momentum going in the direction is to do what I explained above.
She can stop you from pulling her panties off but
she cant (and wont) stop you from pulling your shorts off...right?
This takes the onus off of her but keeps the momentum going in the right direction so the final "barrier" is broken. Once she's ok touching your pee pee she will soon be ok with you touching her hooha
Ive used this too many times to count for first bangs (discovered and tested in high school on virgins even)
If you want you can put her hand on your dick on top of your underwear first and let her rub it. Rubbing a hard dick is instinctively going to heighten her arousal.
You at the very least get a hand job (way better than blue balls) or blow job and likely get the bang if you dont blow your load too soon
Play on
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Does She Have The "Happy Gene" ?
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