I made a decision to pursue certain goals and purposely cut ties with all my friends, both new and the ones I grew up with, in order to prevent their 9 to 5 mindsets from polluting my mind. I kept in touch with one that's like a brother, and he's also a businessman, so that's cool, but even if he wasn't, I'm not cutting him out regardless, great guy.
Overall, my productivity has been positively affected, and so has my overall happiness. If I had to make the decision again, I'd do it in a heartbeat.
For example, I've got things on my mind like what new business to launch, while they're thinking of where to have a cookout that weekend. There's nothing wrong with that, it's just if that's what you're thinking of every week, you'll accomplish nothing more than a bunch of cookouts.
If your friends are all engaged in the same activities you're engaged in, that further your goals, then by all means, keep interacting with them, but if instead they're engaged in mundane activities, or even worse, time-wasting activities like getting shit-faced, cut them from your life.
In the end, you're the only one responsible for achieving happiness in your life, and I would advise you to make sure the people in your life are helping you get towards that goal, or towards whatever your goal may be.
If your goal is just to chill and have cookouts, that's cool too.
Overall, my productivity has been positively affected, and so has my overall happiness. If I had to make the decision again, I'd do it in a heartbeat.
For example, I've got things on my mind like what new business to launch, while they're thinking of where to have a cookout that weekend. There's nothing wrong with that, it's just if that's what you're thinking of every week, you'll accomplish nothing more than a bunch of cookouts.
If your friends are all engaged in the same activities you're engaged in, that further your goals, then by all means, keep interacting with them, but if instead they're engaged in mundane activities, or even worse, time-wasting activities like getting shit-faced, cut them from your life.
In the end, you're the only one responsible for achieving happiness in your life, and I would advise you to make sure the people in your life are helping you get towards that goal, or towards whatever your goal may be.
If your goal is just to chill and have cookouts, that's cool too.