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Ever found out a girl you were seeing was a pro?
06-07-2017, 07:45 PM
I met some tourist in my country some time ago, and ever since meeting her, I was thinking to myself whether she's a pro or not.
She never asked me for anything materialistic, and we met each other on some online app, and along with several other factors, I convinced myself that she's not a pro (I even asked her directly, eventually).
But I just found out that she actually is, and I'm not sure how to digest it. It feels pretty weird now that I know for certain. she has kids, so that's her motivation (though as a single male, it's still hard for me to get it), and I really like her personality, but now that I know the real story, I'm not sure what to do. should I tell her that I know?
on one hand, I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable (or make her feel that it's dangerous to keep communicating with me), and I guess I would still like to keep in touch with her, but on the other hand, I kinda have this internal urge to ventilate it out.
The thing is that I actually had strong feelings for her, even though it's irrational (being that she's a tourist), but I guess I have some twisted tendency to be attracted to "bad girls", or mysterious girls, as I usually feel nothing when I meet a good girl.
Did anyone here ever had a similar expedience? how did you go about it?
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06-07-2017, 07:51 PM
Don't waste time thinking about this girl. Think about your behavior, that's all that matter you have zero future with her.
When guys say they are only attracted to bad girls it usually means that can't land hotter normal girls and hot damaged girls are easier to bang. So a hot damaged girl vs plain normal they choose hot damaged.
Look at your life, find a way to bang and start relationships with hot normal girls - which usually means you will have to do a lot of hard work.
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Ever found out a girl you were seeing was a pro?
06-07-2017, 09:28 PM
What made you suspect she was one?
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Ever found out a girl you were seeing was a pro?
06-07-2017, 10:52 PM
How do you know that "she actually is"?
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Ever found out a girl you were seeing was a pro?
06-07-2017, 11:06 PM
Hookers are for fucking, not loving.
So are women.
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Ever found out a girl you were seeing was a pro?
06-07-2017, 11:29 PM
"Just found out she actually is" = I put the envelope on the table, she counted the money, and left. If you have to ask a forumof guys you don't know if you should still date your pro gf, the answer is probably "no"
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Ever found out a girl you were seeing was a pro?
06-08-2017, 01:03 AM
This has definitely happened to me when I was younger and more stupid in Cuba. The only time it really phased me was when I was 19. I was spending some of my summer there and with a girl I thought was a decent girl. About 2 weeks into hanging out with her a buddy came clean and told me. I thought I was going to die of HIV. That was my first thought. Scared the shit out of me for the 6 weeks after till I went for an HIV test.
Now it doesn't really phase me. I've quite a few pros that are friends of mine. My long term relationship is half-sister has been a pro for as long as I remember. A lot of guys feel like they need to save them. That is 100% the wrong approach. You have to understand something it's a life choice and a relatively profitable profession. I asked my gf's sister what work she'd want to do in America and she said same thing. Only difference she said is she'd make more money there but buy more expensive goods. It's a good business for a lot of woman. If they are attractive and smart with their money they can become millionaires far faster than any guy with a high end profession. Most of them though aren't what I'd call financially savvy though unfortunately.
I wouldn't recommend dating a pro seriously unless a) you are trying to get a sugar momma or b) you are totally fine with her being with other men sexually.
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Ever found out a girl you were seeing was a pro?
06-08-2017, 04:55 AM
Just don't date a Pro, so many legit girls around besides them.
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06-08-2017, 10:22 AM
Crap! The writing sample analyzer looks really cool and I was curious so I submitted my own writing. I do not like the results:
Genre: Informal
Female = 473
Male = 435
Difference = -38; 47.9%
Verdict: Weak FEMALE
Weak emphasis could indicate European.
Genre: Formal
Female = 391
Male = 289
Difference = -102; 42.5%
Verdict: Weak FEMALE
Weak emphasis could indicate European.
I know I'm setting myself up with this post, but you'll just have to trust me, I'm a guy. I have to work on my writing game!
