[elRey]

I'm pretty young, but I've been going out fucking heaps for the past year and a half, and I think I've got a mad handle on my night/club game. Approaching in bars is no big deal for me, the whole getting laid thing is a no-brainer for me. I just want to transition to only going out at night 1-2x a week to be more productive.

But, most of this time was spent in Australia where (I now realise) it is really fucking easy to pick up girls in a bar/club - if you look good and are direct. So most of my game is pretty direct, and looking back on the girls I've been with - practically all of them come from night game with a few from other social settings like work/hostels.

I have made very few street approaches in my life, but one of the handful I did approach actually became a FWB for almost a year and was the closest thing I've had to a girlfriend.

Different things work for different people, but I will say that I'm comfortable being direct/escalating/closing, but I don't have confidence approaching during the day on the street - scares the shit out of me (though probably much less than most dudes to be honest, I'd know what to say).

I just think it's fucking retarded to stop a girl while she's walking, and it's weird to just talk to some chick on the street in broad daylight. I fucking respect the guys who do it - it takes b a l l s.

Any advice on getting started?? Thanks in advance

tlr; tips on getting started in day game w/ solid experience with chicks otherwise?

[ksbms]

(06-05-2017 10:38 AM)elRey Wrote:  

I just think it's fucking retarded to stop a girl while she's walking, and it's weird to just talk to some chick on the street in broad daylight. [...]

Just as it's fucking retarded to 'approach' a girl online.

As long as you have negative attitude to dg and perceive it as strange, you'll have a mental block preventing you from doing it successfully.

This the most natural thing in the world - a man initiates, a woman reacts (be it positively or negatively).

The setting is irrelevant (perhaps, from the work setting but only for the last few decades).

How else we'd make babies?

it's been like that for millennia.

Go out and approach, direct, indirect, something in between. First 50 doesn't matter that much in terms of getting a lay, just get used to the experience and self-diagnose.

[Teflon1]

I never understood the "it's retarded to approach a girl while walking" or "forget Tinder" mentality. The idea is to meet people, yes? So why limit yourself to one option or the other? Fundamentally, it's about talking to people and getting over the mental roadblocks to do so. Whether it's night, day, online, whatever. WAY too much overthinking and overanalyzing going on over here. You aren't splitting the atom--you're saying hi to a girl.

[sonderho]

(06-05-2017 10:38 AM)elRey Wrote:  

I'm pretty young, but I've been going out fucking heaps for the past year and a half, and I think I've got a mad handle on my night/club game. Approaching in bars is no big deal for me, the whole getting laid thing is a no-brainer for me. I just want to transition to only going out at night 1-2x a week to be more productive.

But, most of this time was spent in Australia where (I now realise) it is really fucking easy to pick up girls in a bar/club - if you look good and are direct. So most of my game is pretty direct, and looking back on the girls I've been with - practically all of them come from night game with a few from other social settings like work/hostels.

I have made very few street approaches in my life, but one of the handful I did approach actually became a FWB for almost a year and was the closest thing I've had to a girlfriend.

Different things work for different people, but I will say that I'm comfortable being direct/escalating/closing, but I don't have confidence approaching during the day on the street - scares the shit out of me (though probably much less than most dudes to be honest, I'd know what to say).

I just think it's fucking retarded to stop a girl while she's walking, and it's weird to just talk to some chick on the street in broad daylight. I fucking respect the guys who do it - it takes b a l l s.

Any advice on getting started?? Thanks in advance

tlr; tips on getting started in day game w/ solid experience with chicks otherwise?

I find your situation interesting...Just so I understand, you want to keep your amount of lays consistent while going out less and saving time through day gaming? Do you have other motivations?

Taking time out of your day to cold approach girls on the street in itself is time consuming, not to mention taking one night (or day for an instadate) of your week to go on a date/future meet. With night game, you'd spend a whole night but with the possibility of a same night lay which is probably less time spent if you think about it...not to mention you seem to have night game downpat.

Are you thinking of saving time through day gaming an environment besides the street that you regularly frequent (as a neccessity)? If that's the case, you might save a bit of time.

But back to your original question, if you're still intent on day gaming i'd look at resources for either a direct or indirect approach. For me personally, I use Roosh V's 'Day Bang' which is indirect, though I've been adding direct elements into it to experiment with lately. I'm not experienced with direct game but my friend who's had success with girls swears by the direct method - one of the resources he used when starting out was Krausers daygame method (which is direct).