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[FR] fail (so far) to f*ck my ex-LTR
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[FR] fail (so far) to f*ck my ex-LTR

Hello Guys,

This is a field report which features a long discussion with my ex LTR.
I am open to your criticism as I have fucked up...

So I have been on LTR with a polish 9 for about a year, more and less one year ago.
I broke up with her because she was a psycho, I blocked her on all media (apart wassap which I forgot)
She was deeply affected and, even though I saw her in clubs, I avoided her.
Of course I saw her having her fun, and so did she as well,which ended up with her crying once.
I also did some stupid stuff like trying to hook her up with one of my previous roommate through wassap (I know, I know...)
I did broke up with her over the phone, brought her stuff to her office ect. It was a bit wild so about 6 month later I did try to apologize for not having handled things as a man (after reading a book about it)
Now she is in a relationship... and then I bounced into her in a nightclub.

She was very happy to see me, we talked and then she came to me to dance. Basically I ignored her, still she will always be next to me on the dancefloor.
So we started to dance quite sexual, holding her firmly, making her body shake ect.

Of course she made me horny.
So I decided to see how far she would go at this game.
Why?

She always played the "good girl act" when I was with her, and I just want to prove that she is just some random slut and that social conditioning can be broken anytime.
People really annoyed me with the "she is nice because she wants to have babies and be married" lol yea sure.
In fact I do not even even have to fuck her myself,but arousing her and having one of my wing doing the job would be fine.

Here is the conversation we had over wassap:

[14/05, 12:36] Me: Reminder: water your plants ?
[14/05, 18:44] Her: Thanks ? they deserve to get some water today ?
[15/05, 13:25] Me: Btw I should say that you were not such a great bodyguard for Madga ^^
[15/05, 13:26] Her: Hahah I know and she knows that too
[15/05, 13:26] Her : We just try to pretend for Pawel ?
[15/05, 13:29] Her : And btw, do I look like a bodyguard ahhaha?
[15/05, 13:36] Me: If you do the moustache then yes ?
[15/05, 13:52] Her: Hahah Ive forgotten about the moustache thing ?
[15/05, 14:00] Me: You did try to knock me down with one of your boobs though!
[15/05, 14:37] Her: Oh noo! They are innocent ? I think you have been mistaken them with some other boobs for sure ?
[15/05, 14:52] Me: No way. I could even heard them screaming to me" please save uuuuuuuuus" ^^
[15/05, 15:19] Her: Hahhaha do you realize it sounds like you were soooo drunk? Xddddde
[15/05, 15:25] Me: ?. Actually, if I was drunk I would have done something else...
[15/05, 15:52] Her: Mhmmmmm
[15/05, 15:53] Her : Sounds a bit scary ?
[15/05, 17:44] Her : And how are you btw?
[15/05, 17:59] Me: Well....
[15/05, 18:00] Me: I am in Monaco ?
[15/05, 18:00] Her: Well
[15/05, 18:00] Her: Lucky you!!
[15/05, 18:01] Her: I want a postcard ![Image: tongue.gif]
[15/05, 18:09] Me: Nah
[15/05, 18:09] Pauline: Pff ?
Me: picture of statue but "But here is a nice ass instead"
[15/05, 18:10] Her: Well not bad
[15/05, 18:24] Me: Would you bite it? ?
[15/05, 18:28] Her: Nope
[15/05, 18:28] Her: Its too hard for me ?
[15/05, 18:32] Me: I think you would love this place
[15/05, 18:58] Her: I hope Ill fond out one day ?
[15/05, 19:15] Me: It might be a bit too much for you to handle though...
[15/05, 19:15] Her: Why?
[15/05, 22:08] Me: You would be constantly horny ?
[16/05, 06:55] Her: Hahha nothing new ? and who says that !
[16/05, 09:30] Me: OMG What makes you think I am the same? ?
[16/05, 09:42] Her: Experience? ?
[16/05, 12:12] Me: That was long time ago... Now I have retired from being a pornstar ?
[16/05, 12:40] Her: Oh poor you..it's hard to believe that anyway ? soo now you're innocent old pornstar?
[16/05, 14:09] Me: I am. I decided to be pure and no one can make me change this path...
[16/05, 14:45] Her: Mhmm you should tell me this e2e contact cause Im not gonna believ that ?
[16/05, 16:14] Me: How are you going to test my new resolutions? ?
[16/05, 16:20] Her: Ohh maybe I wont ?
[16/05, 16:20] Her: It's better that way ?
[17/05, 10:18] Me: Well, only one thing could make me doubt anyway ...
[17/05, 10:28] Her: Hahah what's that?
[17/05, 11:13] Me: Having you teasing me in "club name" by making moaning sound into my ears ?
[17/05, 11:22] Her: But in "club name" it's so loud I'd rather scream than moan ?
[17/05, 11:45] Me : That s quite a challenge... but i heard you have some experience with "club name" sofas ?
[17/05, 13:28] Her: Oh dont tease me ? you have poor source of information xd
[17/05, 13:49] Me: So you are telling me you have never been fornicating there?? Ho nooo ?
[17/05, 13:53] Her: Nope
[17/05, 13:54] Her: And you still trying to convince me you have pure mind? ?
[17/05, 15:42] Me: My mind is pure but my cock is constantly trying to escape and spread my cum around ...I am a tortured soul ?
[17/05, 16:37] Her: Oh poor you
[17/05, 19:09] Me: I know... don t come next to me while wearing a dress ?
[17/05, 19:35] Her: ? only in "club name"? ?
[18/05, 09:04] Me: I would say yes... is there anywhere else where I should be careful of you?
[18/05, 09:20] Her: I dont know...maybe you'll have a walk at my business park and we'll meet or somewhere randomly on the street
[18/05, 09:35] Me: the malls are the biggest danger of all. No dress and heels allowed from "this district to this district"
[18/05, 09:39] Her: Im very rare at the shopping mall ?
[18/05, 09:47] Me: Even worst. Meeting there and you would feel an urgent need to try on some new lingerie and duties will call me to offer you my expertise ^^
[18/05, 11:05] Her: Oh you'll never change ?
[18/05, 11:06] Her: Unfortunately I have already expert for my lingerie
[18/05, 11:32] Me: As a well recognised expert my agenda is fully booked anyway ?
[19/05, 12:01] Me: At what time and until when do you work at "business park" ?
[19/05, 12:04] Her: Depends on the day
[19/05, 13:33] Me: Today ? ?
[19/05, 14:17] Her: Oh noo I have plans already...and Im gonna be quite busy next week ?
[19/05, 14:19] Her: Anyway I usually finish before even 4pm (besides Fridays when Im up to 5)
[19/05, 16:21] Me: I just landed in Warsaw so no worries ?. It was just to see how to arrange logistics when I am around... it takes time to put chains and all those lockers around my pants ?
[19/05, 17:41] Her: Hhhahaha you're so funny
[19/05, 17:41] Her: How was the flight?
*photo of her legs with a book*
19/05, 17:45] Me: Premium class on Lot is not so bad ^^. A book with a bra? Surely an interesting read ?
[19/05, 17:49] Her: Yes, indeed.
[19/05, 17:49] Her: Oh havent you heard the wise words?
[19/05, 17:49] Her: Never judge the book by its cover
[19/05, 17:51] Me: What is it about?
[19/05, 17:51] Her: Well it's Bukowski
[19/05, 17:52] Her: And it's about women and actually this time the cover is quite appropriate
[19/05, 17:55] Me: Ok i will try to get the topic. But if I am right next round in "club name" is on you ?
[19/05, 17:55] Her: Doesnt sound very fair xddd
[19/05, 17:58] Me: Whyyyyyyy?
[19/05, 17:59] Her: Caaaaauuuuseeee it's soooo simpleee ?
[19/05, 18:00] Me: Is it about being a nymphomaniac? ^^
[19/05, 18:01] Her: Noooo
[19/05, 18:01] Her: Oh I thought you were talking about the title xd
[19/05, 18:02] Me: No i meant guessing what the book is talking about
[19/05, 18:04] Her: So well
[19/05, 18:04] Her: That's the deal but..
[19/05, 18:04] Her: I wont be in "club name" before July I suppose
[19/05, 18:05] Me: You are travelling?
[19/05, 18:10] Her: Noo Im finishing my studies
[19/05, 18:18] Me: Ha yes I forgot... July is far, i might forget. What else do you suggest?
[19/05, 21:42] Her: No ideas
[19/05, 21:53] Me: Well we might bump into each other at "bar name" tomorrow at 2pm
[19/05, 21:54] Me: That will be crazy coincidence ?
[19/05, 22:51] Her: Oh I really cant
[19/05, 22:51] Her: I have to finish my thesis till Monday ?
[19/05, 23:02] Me: Ho ok. I have unexplainable needs when it comes to you... So I gonna ask you against my own wisedom: when do you have 2 hours next week?
[21/05, 13:32] Her: What kind of needs?
[21/05, 14:03] Me: It is a secret...
[21/05, 15:02] Her: Ive to know if I gonna be safe with you
[21/05, 15:02] Her: Its also about my wisedom ?
[21/05, 15:18] Me: Safe?? I feel insulted you don't trust my strong arms after me holding you firmly against the crowd in "club name" ?
[21/05, 15:26] Her: Come on its more about your intentions
[21/05, 15:30] Me: I have to test my new resolutions ?
[21/05, 15:46] Her: Well not sure my bf would like that
[21/05, 16:01] Me: Why? I am sure he has no reasons to be worried[Image: smile.gif]
[21/05, 16:02] Me: Am I wrong?
22/05, 10:46] Her: Anyway I have I question..do you know how long does approx.it take to "my company" HR call you back?
[22/05, 10:54] Me: You did apply?
[22/05, 10:56] Pauline: Yep
[22/05, 11:02] Me: 2 weeks... But you will have to wear a stunt belt there ?
[22/05, 11:04] Her: Hahah
[22/05, 11:04] Her: I think they wont call me ?
[22/05, 11:40]Her: I applied May 3th xd
[22/05, 13:24] Me: Their loss ?
[22/05, 19:55] Her: Of course
[22/05, 22:22] Me: Look, It is not such a bad thing..
[23/05, 14:23] Me: We would have most probably work in the same building... It is probably part of some evil plan of yours to stalk my (nice and round I should say ^^) ass! ?
[23/05, 14:30] Her: You know, your self-esteem is definitely too high
Me next day: Are you saying my ass is not nice??
Her: hah


I have blocked her on wassap for now.

My mistakes in my opinion:

I have given her what she wanted,validation, and I gave away some of my status.
Also the convo is waaaaay too long and the sexual tension could not keep up.
I should have stopped at her July comment to build up expectations for a meeting later.
I have been way too available
Too eager to meet as well while ignoring the fact she might have "bf remorse"
I wonder if i should have built comfort in some ways... but then she would think of going back to a LTR with me...
being too cocky as well = "I just want to fuck you, you have been warned" also she is a low self esteem girl
She has to earn my attention

How to recover:
I should not contact her again I think until I bumped into her in a nightclub.
Then I will just repeat the "I ignore you" cycle. She will probably try to show off which will be an opportunity for one of my wings.

About the morality:
You saw the convo, I do think she is open and,if not with me, she will most probably cheat with someone else later

Any opinions?
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[FR] fail (so far) to f*ck my ex-LTR

1 - What does FR mean?

2 - What's up with the ***?

3 - Why isn't this in the newbie thread or texting thread?

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[FR] fail (so far) to f*ck my ex-LTR

FR = field report.
I was not sure about which was the right section where to post this thread. I did not see a dedicated texting sub forum
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[FR] fail (so far) to f*ck my ex-LTR

Quote: (06-04-2017 05:47 PM)Sleek2b Wrote:  

I broke up with her because she was a psycho, I blocked her on all media (apart wassap which I forgot)...I did try to apologize for not having handled things as a man (after reading a book about it)...Now she is in a relationship...Of course she made me horny...She always played the "good girl act" when I was with her, and I just want to prove that she is just some random slut and that social conditioning can be broken anytime.

Honestly, I don't need to read the text messages.

She is gaming you, not the other way around. As you say, you give her too much validation, too fast.

Hidey-ho, RVFerinos!
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[FR] fail (so far) to f*ck my ex-LTR

Thread title is misleading/confusing. Should read:
"two chicks talk about jobs or something on wassapp"

And for the record she ain't interested. You are a guy who might help her get a job. Nothing more.
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[FR] fail (so far) to f*ck my ex-LTR

Thank you for the feedbacks. Agreed. For the job, i don t think so, it is impossible for me to get her a job and she would know that (corporation and i am not a manager).
I am still surprised she would text like this while on a relationship. I am wondering if a more talented guy than I could get her
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#7

[FR] fail (so far) to f*ck my ex-LTR

Why do you want your roommate to bang your former girlfriend?
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[FR] fail (so far) to f*ck my ex-LTR

He did ask me if he could. That was a while ago, i thought if she hooked up with him she would move on faster
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#9

[FR] fail (so far) to f*ck my ex-LTR

Looks like you forgot to redact her name in the WhatsApp log.

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[FR] fail (so far) to f*ck my ex-LTR

Stop playing drama games, move on: saves time and emotions!

Wise man said: You could not step twice into the same river
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[FR] fail (so far) to f*ck my ex-LTR

Jesus Christ that's a long text thread that goes absolutely nowhere. You broke up with her because she was "Crazy" but, because she's hot, you're trying to get back to hook up (and she knows it). Move on. At least you didn't try to preface all of this nonsense by saying "but I TOTALLY have 5+ plates spinning, so I'm doing fine."
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