Quote: (05-30-2017 10:17 AM)crispytaco Wrote:
I know the trend in the forum is to bang in the first date, but sometimes I feel some people stopped having fun because of the pressure.
That is true, banging tinder girls has become kind of a robotic act for me.
Quote: (05-30-2017 11:45 AM)GreenHills Wrote:
Quote: (05-29-2017 10:42 AM)Stallion Wrote:
honest question. From my experience if it doesn't happen from the beginning, you are wasting your time.
No. I've banged on second, third, fourth date. After four dates, she's just playing games with me. Second date might be my most common. But I push for the bang on the first date. They know that if we go out on a second date - it's time.
Fair enough. We seem to have different definitions of wasting time on bangs. Personally, even if I fuck her, wasting my time on 4 dates is not acceptable. I could do many more important things during those 4 dates.
2 dates is ok though. I never encountered a girl who was worth more than 2 dates. That means I miss bangs that would have happened if I went on a third date. But if I have time for a 3rd date, I have time with a 1st date with a girl that is DTF.
Or seen another way. During those 4 dates, you could have 4 dates with 4 different girls, which should lead to 2-4 bangs,
Maybe it's the engineer inside of me, I can't help to look for efficiency!
But that's just me. If your system works for you and you are happy with it, great for you!
EDIT: this 1-2 dates thing is just for girls I met traditionally.
For tinder I always tell them to come "try my homemade sangria" at my place after a few messages (normally my third message) so they know what is going to happen. I'm not wasting more than a few seconds messaging a random tinder girl.