[Jetset]

(04-26-2017 02:56 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  

(04-20-2017 01:47 PM)godzilla Wrote:  

Choke a girl when you have sex, if she likes it, she's probably a little psycho

Almost every girl I've fucked was cool with it.

Keep choking her until she tells you to stop.

If she doesn't, she's a little psycho.

(Do not do this.)

[Ringo]

Red flags:

- No long term friendships.

- Uses prescribed medication.

- Shady close friends or ex.

- Changes her mind suddenly.

- Clings on like she's holding for dear life.

[Palo_alto]

When she tells you she is thinking in escorting as a side gig.

[puckerman]

You should definitely screen out any female who uses the term rape culture. I am surprised nobody has said this. Above all, it shows her general attitude toward men and her outlook on the world.

It's gotten easier to spot women who had a traumatic experience with a guy and then walk around with big chips on their shoulders. Many women do get over these experiences. A few use it as an experience to punish all men.

Also screen out any women who constantly talks about consent and boundaries. It means she's not interested in connecting at all. However, there are a small minority of men who will make her pussy overflow with wetness.

[AFS]

Pay attention when she speaks about her past relationships, family, and friends. If she is always a victim and everyone is a psycho abuser, it's likely she's the psycho.

Does she lose her friends all the time over drama? Does she hate someone one day, then the next it's like nothing happened and that person is suddenly wonderful?

Does she have a poor relationship with her parents, with frequent screaming matches - even though she's a grown adult?

And the number #1 tell of all... all her ex's are psychos.

Sometimes psycho chicks will even describe things THEY did as something the ex-boyfriend did. One girl I dated talked all the time about how her boyfriend pulled a knife on her and "forced" her to give a blowjob. Then, one day when we were in an argument and I was going to just walk out the door of her apartment, she pulled a knife on me, demanding I stay.

Attempted suicide or speaking about suicide is also a big tell.

Never fall for the "victim" card. Yes, there are real victims out there, but every girl who dresses herself up in victimhood ended up being a total psycho.

[loremipsum]

Avoid chicks who
-frequently travel
-have bodies full of tattoos
-have short hair
-have piercings
-have dyed their hair
-frequently get wasted
-have no hobbies
-are feminists
-are into spirituality/yoga/new-age/vegetarianism
-obsess about finding themselves
-obsess about pets
-are psychology students (huge overlooked slut tell)
-have history of any mental illnesses
-have few female friends
-have bad relationship with their fathers
-like art
-have had over 3 unsuccesful relationships
-like Harley Quinn or any other hollywood psycho female role model

Happy hunting!

[Nibiru]

Oh my , I had an encounter with a Latina who exceeds all bullet points.
She was a psychology student - check. Had history of abuse - check. Met online - check , also my mistake.
Broke up with her Bf when he had a hard time - check.
Still living with him and chatting to me, booked a ticket half-way through the world. Sounds cool - yeah? Had a boobjob before the encounter asking me if it's okay hah?
- drank a lot more than me ( and i am 1/2 russian
- ok we all fool around , but 20+ hits till age of 21 , slut - check don't know how many unsuccessful relationships
-feminist
-into spirituality check
-frequently travel check
Used to call me from company phones overseas crying all the time.
Was a complete nut with emotional roller coaster moods from positive to negative.
Invited me to her country and then cut off contact. Used the no contact rule , fair enough.
I got the shivers if i got her pregnant. After excessive calling and messaging borderline harassment after years, she makes up a story of me threatening her and even denied it was her on calls and messages hah Didn't even recall i did not use condoms.
All in all , avoid latinas for serious relations.
Did i say Argentina/Brasil hah, explains it.

[droughtmeat]

I agree with some of those points. But for example "have had over 3 unsuccessful relationships". Assuming the girl is let's say 25. If she was only in 1 or 2 relationships since she was 17, she will have been single for about 4 of those 8 years. So she was probably banging a lot of random guys during that time. Is that necessarily better than having been in relationships?
I'm not really bothered by either scenario.

I very strongly agree with the part about hobbies. If a girl has no hobbies, prepare to babysit her every single day until your relationship ends and she blames you for not having cared enough.

The thing about the dad relationship I really don't know. I've heard this from many guys and think it's a valid point, but my personal experience has been different. I'm personally very annoyed when girls are afraid for no reason and want me to babysit. In my experience, girls who grew up without a dad tend to not worry as much as others and tend to be more independent, which I personally prefer.

Regarding traveling, I prefer girls who travel. My experience with girls who usually stay in one place (here in Europe) is that although they sometimes have closer family ties and seem more traditional, they're also more insecure, more materialistic and worry more about their status within the community they live in. In addition, they make a lot of decisions based on what others think.

But it's still just a case of picking your poison, I don't believe any woman is truly compatible with a man

[Spartacus]

Just make sure they're not addicted to you

[questor70]

(04-30-2017 01:29 PM)AFS Wrote:  

Never fall for the "victim" card.

I've come to appreciate how much the conventional female outlook on life represents a suspended and transformed childhood...

Being a parent has illustrated how this goes.

When an infant doesn't get what it wants it cries. As a child gets older the crying moderates to whining. When the child grows up the whining shifts to nagging and pussy-hats. In all cases it's about always feeling dependent on others or institutions to provide what you want rather than getting it yourself. Women just sugarcoat this passivity by calling it "romance" or "social-justice".

I think the idea of a self-reliant woman runs counter to this biological programming. The more a woman projects a sense of entitlement the more high-maintenance she's going to be and the more easily she'll lapse into nagging or enter into a fight. The phrase "you never/always" is always on the tip of a woman's tongue.

I think all red-flags circle back to the above, hence pretty much all women have them to some degree.

So what I'm now looking for is not a NAWALT so much as a woman who is:

a) Reflective enough to spot her own self-defeating bullshit
b) Humble enough to admit to her own flaws
c) Sees her life as a constant WIP

That to me is the definition of emotional maturity, to not be perfect, but merely to acknowledge that you're flawed and always strive to improve.

[Buddydowrongright2]

One of my exes punched me in the neck because I wouldn't take her out to the Santa Cruz Diner to buy her a burger and fries. She claimed she had "hypoglycemia."

[Built to Fade]

(04-20-2017 01:31 PM)Beijong Wrote:  

You noticed in time at least.

Right now I'm dealing with a girl that acts sweet as an angel in person, usually, but roots through all my belongings while I sleep. Year books, email accounts, facebook convo's, etc. Emails girls she doesn't know and asks them how they know me. Tells me which of my friends she doesn't want me to talk to anymore based on convo's we had over facebook over a month prior.

We broke up (she broke up with me, for the third time, yet keeps coming back promising to be less psycho - but she just gets more and more crazy) stopped cleaning my apartment when she comes over, which she used to do and it made me think she would be a good home maker.

Cross-posting from 'that thread':

Quote:

A woman who is sweet & kind on the outside, but totally unhinged on the inside is known as a "Yandere".

Quote:

Yandere is derived from the Japanese words yanderu, meaning insane or sick, and deredere, meaning affectionate or loving.

Simply put, a yandere is someone who is lovesick; someone who has been driven to insanity by extreme obsession or love, thus resulting in abnormal behaviour if not violence.

Some examples are shown in this video. RUN!!!

The sweet & kind facade can be a honey trap. It's more efficient to study a woman's intentions behind their gestures. A discerning eye would observe that the red flags will usually show themselves.

Another video of psycho girls:

Find the red flags before it's too late to run away.

[RedPillUK]

Girls are only psychos because men are pussies. Including you guys going out with pyscho chicks and then asking for advice on here.

It's like coming on here and saying "help my 4 year old is completely PYSCHO, what should I do?"

When she starts acting crazy, you put that bitch back in her place. She yells at you in public?, you yell at her back 10x louder and take her home. You don't see her again until she sincerely apologises.

If she is still completely wild and feral, well she's broken, her dad never put her in her place and it's time to move on and find a chick that isn't fucked in the head.

[jacknap]

(05-01-2017 03:20 PM)loremipsum Wrote:  

Avoid chicks who
-frequently travel
-have bodies full of tattoos
-have short hair
-have piercings
-have dyed their hair
-frequently get wasted
-have no hobbies
-are feminists
-are into spirituality/yoga/new-age/vegetarianism
-obsess about finding themselves
-obsess about pets
-are psychology students (huge overlooked slut tell)
-have history of any mental illnesses
-have few female friends
-have bad relationship with their fathers
-like art
-have had over 3 unsuccesful relationships
-like Harley Quinn or any other hollywood psycho female role model

Happy hunting!

I agree with this and in addition high drama professions

strippers
bartenders
models
hair dressers
porn stars

are big obviously where it's more than the exception than the rule of not being crazy.

People can hold a mask for a long time. I didn't see how crazy my BPD open relationship was until 6 months deep into it. Though if I saw the above list she has a bunch of the red flags.

To be fair, I'm a crazy guy to girls. I might be the guy version of a crazy bitch. Or as they say 'fuck boy'. Might be though not for sure. I think the trick is my redeemable qualities. Crazy girls have redeemable qualities that make you see perfect potential but never live up to it.