A pretty long story that I will try to make as short as possible.
3 months ago, I met here in Colombia, this 26 y old local girl that is absolutely fantastic, amazingly good looking (skinny and huge breasts, that could remind some of your guys of another one of my threads), very intelligent, funny, etc... She is pure LTR material and this is definitely what I am looking for in my life right now.
When I met her and for our 2/3 first dates, she basically told me that she was with someone for around 5/6 years (not a Colombian, someone from Europe as well), legally married (!) but that she was going to get out of her relation, that she was going to not live any more with him etc. Thus, I gladly continued to date her. Thing is... the dude is in Europe in the last 3/4 months, they haven't seen each other since then and she still lives in the dude flat.. With the time passing and after being more than 5 years with him, she is a bit unsure now, she has to see him to then be able to decide to leave him or stay with him. But the dude is just not fucking here.
The 4th/5th/6th and 7th dates (something like that), she came to my flat, we had ''pre-sex'' where she was pretty inactive (I know it sucks) but where I would basically do whatever I wish with her body, except fuck her...
Then.. our last 5/6 dates... were basically fantastic because I really have a HUGE complicity with this girl. I feel good with her, we have incredible conversations, etc. etc. Once again, perfect LTR material. But she did not came back to my flat. She told me clearly : she is feeling a LOT for me but as long as she ''is kind of with the guy'', she doesn't want to be unfaithful, something she had never done in these 5/6 years !
Today, the two of us went back from a restaurant with some of her friends in taxi, passing by my flat .. and I was like.. it's super early, come to my flat .. She refused, I was obviously angry and showed her. She wrote to me that ''She is sorry, that she is realizing in nights like tonight how she likes me, that she was so much feeling like stopping the taxi, run after me and just ''let it go'' but that she CAN'T because she is faithful...'' ...
So guys.. I am ok with this situation, I guess. I mean, I keep seeing other girls at the same time, I have like 2 regulars girl with who I enjoy banging, etc. And a faithful girl has no price.
But god damn fucking hell : unfortunately, I lack time, I am going out of Colombia in 3 weeks after spending more than a year here and I REALLY want to bang her before I leave the country ! Her dude will only come back a few days after I am leaving, thus ''nothing will be clear in her mind in the next weeks''. I really feel that if I am leaving without banging her, a LTR will not be possible with her, which, once again, is clearly my objective. And obviously, even if LTR doesn't happen, I think I never wanted so much to fuck a women in my life. (Well, I am actually sure I never did).
Thus : how to convince her ? What kind of psychology ? Anyone had similar experiences ? One could argue that she was already unfaithful when she came to my place, met me so much times, etc., but it seems like ''criticizing her actions'', which is probably not a way to convincer her...
I am personally playing the card ''but if nothing like that happen between us, you will never really realize if you want to be with me or not'' . She would then reply me that she actually already realized so much things with me but that she just can't be unfaithful and that she needs time ...
What would you do ?
Please, guys, no remarks like ''dude, just let her go'' bla bla. I have really no problems at banging women in here. But this is not my main objective. LTR is. And in the last 5/6 years, I only got attracted into the idea of a LTR like 3 or 4 times. Thus, good advices would be appreciated.
3 months ago, I met here in Colombia, this 26 y old local girl that is absolutely fantastic, amazingly good looking (skinny and huge breasts, that could remind some of your guys of another one of my threads), very intelligent, funny, etc... She is pure LTR material and this is definitely what I am looking for in my life right now.
When I met her and for our 2/3 first dates, she basically told me that she was with someone for around 5/6 years (not a Colombian, someone from Europe as well), legally married (!) but that she was going to get out of her relation, that she was going to not live any more with him etc. Thus, I gladly continued to date her. Thing is... the dude is in Europe in the last 3/4 months, they haven't seen each other since then and she still lives in the dude flat.. With the time passing and after being more than 5 years with him, she is a bit unsure now, she has to see him to then be able to decide to leave him or stay with him. But the dude is just not fucking here.
The 4th/5th/6th and 7th dates (something like that), she came to my flat, we had ''pre-sex'' where she was pretty inactive (I know it sucks) but where I would basically do whatever I wish with her body, except fuck her...
Then.. our last 5/6 dates... were basically fantastic because I really have a HUGE complicity with this girl. I feel good with her, we have incredible conversations, etc. etc. Once again, perfect LTR material. But she did not came back to my flat. She told me clearly : she is feeling a LOT for me but as long as she ''is kind of with the guy'', she doesn't want to be unfaithful, something she had never done in these 5/6 years !
Today, the two of us went back from a restaurant with some of her friends in taxi, passing by my flat .. and I was like.. it's super early, come to my flat .. She refused, I was obviously angry and showed her. She wrote to me that ''She is sorry, that she is realizing in nights like tonight how she likes me, that she was so much feeling like stopping the taxi, run after me and just ''let it go'' but that she CAN'T because she is faithful...'' ...
So guys.. I am ok with this situation, I guess. I mean, I keep seeing other girls at the same time, I have like 2 regulars girl with who I enjoy banging, etc. And a faithful girl has no price.
But god damn fucking hell : unfortunately, I lack time, I am going out of Colombia in 3 weeks after spending more than a year here and I REALLY want to bang her before I leave the country ! Her dude will only come back a few days after I am leaving, thus ''nothing will be clear in her mind in the next weeks''. I really feel that if I am leaving without banging her, a LTR will not be possible with her, which, once again, is clearly my objective. And obviously, even if LTR doesn't happen, I think I never wanted so much to fuck a women in my life. (Well, I am actually sure I never did).
Thus : how to convince her ? What kind of psychology ? Anyone had similar experiences ? One could argue that she was already unfaithful when she came to my place, met me so much times, etc., but it seems like ''criticizing her actions'', which is probably not a way to convincer her...
I am personally playing the card ''but if nothing like that happen between us, you will never really realize if you want to be with me or not'' . She would then reply me that she actually already realized so much things with me but that she just can't be unfaithful and that she needs time ...
What would you do ?
Please, guys, no remarks like ''dude, just let her go'' bla bla. I have really no problems at banging women in here. But this is not my main objective. LTR is. And in the last 5/6 years, I only got attracted into the idea of a LTR like 3 or 4 times. Thus, good advices would be appreciated.