How do you overcome having a family you simply don't want to bring your girl around? It's become clear to me higher quality girls simply won't go along with a fucked up family situation.
Typical game with club sluts, fuck buddies, flings, etc... that's all good and fun but at 30 years old I start thinking about long term relationships and girls of that caliber typically come from good families.
I've finally had to admit myself I don't think a higher quality girl would want to be locked into my family. If I don't like it, why would she?
A girl gauges your social life and whether she sees herself being apart of your identity, if she fits into those people. I understand not everyone you know has to be a high value person, you can be friends with some weirdos or people she finds awkward, but overall she has to see herself fitting into your social life.
I've always had a bit of family problems that I think girls can sense something is off. I typically avoid the subject but that in itself sets off a red flag to them.
Lower quality girls, hoodrats, girls from broken homes, they don't care and it's not a big deal. But if you date a legit good girl I've noticed they care about your family situation a lot more.
I don't blame them, why would they put themselves near something they're not comfortable with? I know everyone has weirdos / black sheep in their family but she at least needs something to feel comfortable about it. I'm fairly lacking in that department.
It sucks because you can create a better social life and just about everything else about your game, but you'll notice the higher quality women care a lot about your family if they're considering being with you long term.
Typical game with club sluts, fuck buddies, flings, etc... that's all good and fun but at 30 years old I start thinking about long term relationships and girls of that caliber typically come from good families.
I've finally had to admit myself I don't think a higher quality girl would want to be locked into my family. If I don't like it, why would she?
A girl gauges your social life and whether she sees herself being apart of your identity, if she fits into those people. I understand not everyone you know has to be a high value person, you can be friends with some weirdos or people she finds awkward, but overall she has to see herself fitting into your social life.
I've always had a bit of family problems that I think girls can sense something is off. I typically avoid the subject but that in itself sets off a red flag to them.
Lower quality girls, hoodrats, girls from broken homes, they don't care and it's not a big deal. But if you date a legit good girl I've noticed they care about your family situation a lot more.
I don't blame them, why would they put themselves near something they're not comfortable with? I know everyone has weirdos / black sheep in their family but she at least needs something to feel comfortable about it. I'm fairly lacking in that department.
It sucks because you can create a better social life and just about everything else about your game, but you'll notice the higher quality women care a lot about your family if they're considering being with you long term.