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03-12-2017, 05:46 PM
People are always displaying their identity and how they are through how they look, what they wear, etc. You can almost always tell by just looking at a girl wheter you identify with her or not.
I'd say almost everyday there are women around me somewhere that i kind of don't like/identify with just by looking at them and "feeling" them, but are fantastically attractive and i would more than like to get sexually involved with.
Let's say you're a huge playboy and you see a very hot hipster. She is a hipster chick and you don't like hipsters by default, but she is very hot and you still wanna bang her anyway. The question is, do you approach girls if that is the case? I think i may just have a weak belief about this "problem".
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03-12-2017, 05:53 PM
I rarely approach unless the girls has a friendly vibe and has a style I like (for 6-7.5) that I like or she's a 8 and above. Those last ones I will just approach them just to get over anxiety, sometimes they become friendlier than you think because they rarely get approaches IRL (I'm talking about day game).
For exemple in Whistler we were talking and approaching every snowboard chicks because it is my environment, everyone is in a good mood and and I like that look. We were just making casual jokes and or saying stupid stuff and girls were kind of receptive, even in night game.
In Montreal, I won't approach a hipster chick unless she looks friendly/fun or she's 8 and above.
The environment is more hipsterish, cold in general (I'm also not standing out in anyw ay here) and I'd rather approach in conditions where I feel I have leverage/I feel good and people are having a good time.
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03-12-2017, 06:44 PM
Sure.
It's impossible to know the chemistry until you're face-to-face...and chemistry is independent of looks.
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03-12-2017, 06:56 PM
Yep always spam approach if Im out looking to pull, particularly if its early in the night
I dont care how they look, just got to get my conversation hat on and I find if I have no skin in the game I can try new things because to my mind its AWALT - If it works on the ugly chick it might work on the hot chick
Getting in state is what PUA's would call it I guess, always be taking numbers cause you never know when a dry spell is coming and you can send a spam text to all of those girls you never contacted. Might get you a hit, worked in my case more than once
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03-12-2017, 09:27 PM
If I want to have sex with her I'll approach. If I don't I won't unless I want friendly conversation to warm up socially, and even then she still has to be somewhat pleasing to look at.
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03-13-2017, 08:38 AM
I will approach any girl I find attractive even if they don't mirror my style.
If given the chance though, like at a club, I try to approach girls I'm less attracted to early in the night - just quick, non compromising approaches. This way I can calibrate my game to the venue and be in the zone when I go after a girl I really like.
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03-13-2017, 01:19 PM
Thank you for the insights, everyone. I guess i should approach hot chicks i don't like, too, and see if i can pull something out of it.
I should have said though that i meant approaching girls you don't like during day game, not during night game. Because at night game the social energy is much higher and night game is intended for at least making out at the same night, while day game is much lower energy and you aren't likely to make out after 10 minutes.
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03-13-2017, 11:52 PM
In most day game situations, blink and you've missed it. Make the approach and ask questions later.
Sometimes, my mind projects beauty onto a chick, which proves to be false. I don't know the full story until I've got her in front of me. I would be kicking myself if I didn't approach – and for no reason!
This probably only works for indirect.
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03-15-2017, 02:43 AM
My dick doesn't care if a bitch voted for Hillary and doesn't eat meat.