Quote: (04-30-2017 05:01 PM)puckerman Wrote:
So, what is going on with this situation? I am quite curious.
Thanks for checking up mate. I'm still in MI and I'm still deciding. I took the middle road of the advice given here. I stayed in MI, but I continued to stay with her as well. It's been about a month now and so far I would say the "LDR" is going well. She wants things to work out between us more than anything. We've discussed I moving down there and vice versa, she told me it is up to me and wherever I will go she will follow. Good sign.
She doesn't know anybody in SC. l got a Tinder Plus and looked for her near her address, and have not seen her. Another good sign, still, it doesn't mean she's not getting dicked down while she's "at work." At this point there's no true way of knowing, but I trust her. And my gut feeling says she is behaving herself. I can tell she is definitely lonely however. She will be coming back to MI in 4 weeks for my sisters wedding, we will talk then and I'll be able to get a feel on where we stand.
In the meantime I continue to lift heavy, and have made the biggest gains of my life after she left. The hamster is spinning hard, last nights text saying "Good night my fucking God." That's a new one
My current focus is finding "my mission" in life. Still undecided on what to do for a career. Always work to be done, again thanks for all those who have helped. Apologies if I didn't answer everyone directly, this post gained more attention than I thought it would.