Straight to the point: so I've been dating this girl for more than a year now, and I think now it's the time to decide whether she is truly wife material or not. I am in love with her, and that might be coding my judgement, but I am also a rational being and thus have decided to think this through. Hopefully some of you guys have thoughts.
She's half Slavic and half American, attractive (classically an 8, but my type 9), very sweet and passive, not a gold-digger (from a wealthy family), she went to an Ivy-league and is very intelligent but isn't a feminist, she is family-oriented and wants to get married.
Despite all these good qualities, when she is very a very sexual person and when she was in college she had sex with around 15 guys. Her notch count is 18. (She's 25 yo)
Mitigatory factors:
1. 90% of them were during the first two years when she was depressed, and then she had long term relationships.
2. she had really bad sex before me. I can confirm that based on how awful she was when we first started having sex and how surprised she was to sex feeling so good (she's obviously a sub, and I'm very dominant in bed).
Anyway, what are your thoughts? Are the mitigatory factors good enough? What should I be in the look out for in order to figure this one out? Any specific things I should prod her about?
Cheers!
She's half Slavic and half American, attractive (classically an 8, but my type 9), very sweet and passive, not a gold-digger (from a wealthy family), she went to an Ivy-league and is very intelligent but isn't a feminist, she is family-oriented and wants to get married.
Despite all these good qualities, when she is very a very sexual person and when she was in college she had sex with around 15 guys. Her notch count is 18. (She's 25 yo)
Mitigatory factors:
1. 90% of them were during the first two years when she was depressed, and then she had long term relationships.
2. she had really bad sex before me. I can confirm that based on how awful she was when we first started having sex and how surprised she was to sex feeling so good (she's obviously a sub, and I'm very dominant in bed).
Anyway, what are your thoughts? Are the mitigatory factors good enough? What should I be in the look out for in order to figure this one out? Any specific things I should prod her about?
Cheers!