Dudes keep telling me to take girls to the bar (I got great advice from RDF but I'm open to more input). They recommend ordering the girl a drink and just getting myself a seltzer. I've never had a single day 2 at the bar. I've always taken girls to the park. However, I recently started taking girls to coffee shops/FroYo joints, since I've only had 1 girl agree to go to the park (and actually show up) since I've been in LA.
Is this the way to go?
Or should I stick with coffee shop dates (or park dates when I can find a girl out here in LA that's actually down) and then just serve the girl, say, a cranberry juice and vodka when I pull and serve myself just cranberry juice?
Regardless, it seems not serving girls alcohol on day 2s is responsible for my low lay/pull rate. I have pulled nearly every day 2 I've had dating back to college, but I've only converted those pulls to lays a very low percentage of the time. I can't help but think a sizable chunk of those LMR bouts would've been pork sessions, simply because the girls would've been more loose and uninhibited with some a-a-a-a-a-alcohol to cast the blame on.
Is this the way to go?
Or should I stick with coffee shop dates (or park dates when I can find a girl out here in LA that's actually down) and then just serve the girl, say, a cranberry juice and vodka when I pull and serve myself just cranberry juice?
Regardless, it seems not serving girls alcohol on day 2s is responsible for my low lay/pull rate. I have pulled nearly every day 2 I've had dating back to college, but I've only converted those pulls to lays a very low percentage of the time. I can't help but think a sizable chunk of those LMR bouts would've been pork sessions, simply because the girls would've been more loose and uninhibited with some a-a-a-a-a-alcohol to cast the blame on.