[MANic]

Atm I have three girls on the roster (one slightly chubby 6.5 with huge ass and 2 top quality women - first one through cold approach and latter two from social circles).
The former knows exactly the extent of the relationship and isn't really an issue. The other two seem to be shifting increasingly more towards quasi-relationship status (wanting to go out, invite to wedding as plus one, whatsapping relationship style etc.) on their part.
Don't get me wrong both are really great and what I would consider perfect mothers at some point but not any time soon.
The thing is I don't know how to deal with this. They both know the arrangement but I guess their inexperience is the cause of these developments.
Advice would be appreciated

[CynicalContrarian]

Cut off their cranial oxytocin supply?

[The Beast1]

The great irony is you don't. When you bang women over and over again they will fall for you, each and everytime.

[MANic]

cut and leave?

[The Beast1]

(02-11-2017 08:36 AM)MANic Wrote:  

cut and leave?

Maybe you should first learn how to properly capitalize words and then find out the best subforum to post your questions.

[scotian]

Next time you bang, wait until she falls asleep and then jerk off in her hair then wipe your knob off on her curtains, they tend to go away after that power move.

[Oz.]

Fuck her cousin.

[CynicalContrarian]

(02-11-2017 08:34 AM)The Beast1 Wrote:  

The great irony is you don't. When you bang women over and over again they will fall for you, each and everytime.

Plus if you're being the proverbial 'aloof alpha'. You won't necessarily stave off their affections.

In that case, there is the option of being the boring beta to make them less interested.

Reverse game?

[ivansirko]

So you need to diminish yourself in their eyes. The problem is once they fall for you they can't go back to FWB.

[Moma]

Act very very beta. Remember how you were before you discovered the red pill, rehash those behavioural patterns and it will drive her away like a rat facing a sanitised kitchen.

[dallasguy]

Yep start being the nice guy

[Hypno]

the more you treat them like shit, the more magnetic you will be.

the key is treat them like shit AND establish boundaries. for example, tell her what night(s) she has, and that if she bothers you when its not her night she is going to get ti. you'll have to develop a system of punishment and rewards.

[Ballr]

Tell them you are mentally unfit at this point of your life and need to find yourself. No guarantees lol

[PapayaTapper]

Q:How to stop FWBs from developing feelings?

A: Develop feelings for them

[Steelex]

You don't. Just play the fuck out of them. Get them to buy you shit.

[torridon747]

(02-11-2017 02:38 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

Q:How to stop FWBs from developing feelings?

A: Develop feelings for them

+1 works every time

[birthday cat]

Limit how often you see them. Once per week or once per two weeks. Also limit your whatsapp messages with them.

Your frame should be a fun, cool, not needy, not possessive guy who isn't looking for a relationship.

You will still lose some of them but be cool and relaxed about it and they might come back to you later on.

[LeoneVolpe]

(02-11-2017 02:38 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

Q:How to stop FWBs from developing feelings?

A: Develop feelings for them

Couldn't have put it better myself.

(02-11-2017 09:31 PM)birthday cat Wrote:  

Limit how often you see them. Once per week or once per two weeks. Also limit your whatsapp messages with them.

Your frame should be a fun, cool, not needy, not possessive guy who isn't looking for a relationship.

You will still lose some of them but be cool and relaxed about it and they might come back to you later on.

^ Co-signed.

The bitch of it is, by being that type of man -- you become the exact type a woman would develop feelings for. There's really no way around it, though. The only way to truly keep a woman from developing feelings is to be (or become) the type of man who doesn't inspire them, in which case you likely wouldn't have a FWB in the first place.

You will lose some women by being "too cold" emotionally, but as birthday cat said, as long as you leave the door open a crack they can always come back to you.

If you have already tapped a particular FWB enough to your liking, and you're ready to let her go but don't want to deal with any hard feelings -- here are the best ways to do it, in my opinion:

1.) A gradual, phase-out process.

Little by little, see her less and less and return her phone calls/texts with increasing infrequency. Unless you're dealing with either a complete moron or someone who's already in love with you, she'll eventually get the hint.

2.) Turn up the beta.

If you want to keep a modern chick in all her subverted femininity from developing feelings, simply reveal your feelings for her in the most over the top, sappy beta ways possible. She'll be running for the hills in no time.