[StackGsMan]

I was curious lately about what it would take to get to 1,000 notches, so I did the math. Let's assume that we will get 1 notch for every 20 cold approaches (I base that ratio on what I have read on this forum and my own personal stats). That would mean we would need 20,000 approaches to get the 1,000 notches.

If we set the time to 10 years, then in order to get those 1,000 notches one would have to approach 5.5 women on average a day.

This obviously ignores skill at gaming and is pure numbers, but I found it interesting.

[Phoenix]

Nope, the answer is usually 0.

Most men who get those kinds of numbers have "bang without question" status, like Robbie Williams, Fidel Castro etc, and they send out personal emissaries to find girls for them. E.g. "Mr Castro would like you to accompany him at his palace", or "Mr Williams has offered you a backstage pass" and so on.

[Rawmeo]

It's technically doable, at this rate - but if you want to push for 6 a day, 7 days a week, you should do that only after you have a business working for you and don't need to be a slave. Otherwise, your time should be spent doing things to improve your life. Once you got all you need, then please go ahead and make a datasheet, it will be EPIC.

[Putin Closes]

1000 notches very possible if you move to SEA, have no quality standards, and swipe away on Tinder. Heck probably could be done in less then 5 years if your a good looking dude with stamina and no fucks about anything but banging a new girl a day. Most of us want to settle down for a bit though and have a few on harem.

[Satoshi]

1000 notches = success?

[Naughty By Nature]

Sounds like an alcoholic or drug addict mentality (the nothing is enough attitude).

[blck]

To be able to approach that number you have to play the Game at an other level, Fuck Daygame Fuck Nightgame Fuck online Game, it'll be Game mode
You need to go Pro on this : Sex Addict Game.
I've seen it once and it's like open EVERY girls you got in your sight all day long from monday to sunday, in 3 month you become a Machine fucking everything around you that have a pussy, you'll start becoming some kind of chick magnet, you'll spot every cracks in their façade but you'll never be able to trust them anymore...

It look like Paul Janka when he appeared in dr Phil but without filtering the cutes girls

[dallasguy]

A waste of a life doing nothing but chasing pussy. If you're a movie star or famous pro athlete, then fine. They come banging on your doors. Otherwise I have other important things to do and think about besides sex 24/7

[Cattle Rustler]

You'll hate that shit. I used to prowl for pussy on SA and after a couple of girls in a month that shit would get tiresome and I was fatigued/bored of it. It starts to feel like a job/chore that you dislike.

[samsamsam]

I think the issue with this is just that it will own you. You will be so obsessed by this goal that it consumes you. A man needs to own the world around him, not the other way around. As I have gotten older, I realize balance is key. Focusing on just one thing, or getting balance by shifting extremes (i.e. work hard for years, then try to have fun, or vice versa) sort of messes with your balance and perspective.

The other question is why would this be a goal. What would it say to you if you hit this number. Does that make you a great man, do you win a prize, what? Does it feed some hurt?

We have all been there with something, we imagine how great something will be, and down the road we don't get the joy we think we would when we achieve the goal, we feel loss because we fail to, we get crushed trying to, etc.

I hope the OP hasn't or isn't planning on spending a lot of time pondering this goal.

[LeeEnfield303]

It's "number" of approaches, not "amount."

Carry on.....

[brick tamland]

1 in 20 converted presupposes an above average level of something, whether pure game skill or access to women ('high status/fame game') or looks (sometimes a taboo topic) etc.
As with anything else few people will have the discipline and determination to consistently make X number of approaches every day.

[Cobra]

1000 notches don't make you succesful but if you can use your success as a man to get 1000 notches, then I commend you. It's not the same thing.

I'm after self improvement and success for my family and I can get there with zero notches.

[Travesty]

I think I'd rather read the autobiography of a guy with 20,000 approaches than most "balanced" guys.

I am sure there would be a lot of interesting life lessons in there and with that many approaches you would meet some interesting people and have some crazy experiences.

Doable to do 2 or 3 approaches a day over 20-30 years. Problems would be accidental pregnancies unless you get snipped and HIV or other bad things when you get with that many girls. I have a feeling in 20 years or so even these things won't be threats anymore.

Not sure why guys are bringing up any sort of online game when it has zero to do with the thread.

[StackGsMan]

(02-10-2017 10:05 PM)Naughty By Nature Wrote:  

Sounds like an alcoholic or drug addict mentality (the nothing is enough attitude).

(02-11-2017 12:10 AM)blck Wrote:  

To be able to approach that number you have to play the Game at an other level, Fuck Daygame Fuck Nightgame Fuck online Game, it'll be Game mode
You need to go Pro on this : Sex Addict Game.
I've seen it once and it's like open EVERY girls you got in your sight all day long from monday to sunday, in 3 month you become a Machine fucking everything around you that have a pussy, you'll start becoming some kind of chick magnet, you'll spot every cracks in their façade but you'll never be able to trust them anymore...

It look like Paul Janka when he appeared in dr Phil but without filtering the cutes girls

(02-12-2017 03:22 PM)Travesty Wrote:  

I think I'd rather read the autobiography of a guy with 20,000 approaches than most "balanced" guys.

I am sure there would be a lot of interesting life lessons in there and with that many approaches you would meet some interesting people and have some crazy experiences.

Doable to do 2 or 3 approaches a day over 20-30 years. Problems would be accidental pregnancies unless you get snipped and HIV or other bad things when you get with that many girls. I have a feeling in 20 years or so even these things won't be threats anymore.

Not sure why guys are bringing up any sort of online game when it has zero to do with the thread.

I couldn't agree more. I do agree with other posters that said that it'd be better to be rich/famous or whatever and get 1,000 notches because of that instead of just spending all your time pursuing women. I also agree that approaching/dating/fucking a ton of women can get tiresome.

Despite that, I have to agree with Travesty here. In general I think the most interesting people in life are those that are extreme and/or extremely good at something, much more so than the average "balanced" guy. I am not saying that 1,000 notches is my goal (although I certainly wouldn't mind), but who do you think would have better stories, the guy with 25 lifetime lays or the guy that has approached over 20,000 women and had sex with 1,000 of them?

I only came up with the number 1,000 because I had always heard that Wilt Chamberlain had that many notches, and I was just curious what it would take for a normal guy to have that sort of success. Yes, I did choose the word success.

[StackGsMan]

(02-12-2017 03:03 PM)brick tamland Wrote:  

1 in 20 converted presupposes an above average level of something, whether pure game skill or access to women ('high status/fame game') or looks (sometimes a taboo topic) etc.
As with anything else few people will have the discipline and determination to consistently make X number of approaches every day.

I am not so sure about 1/20 being THAT above average. It depends on how you define average though. If the you look at guys who have 7 lifetime lays, totally socially akward guys, butt ugly guys, etc., then yes 1/20 might be above average. That being said, I know guys that are REALLY good with women that are probably in the range of 1 in 5 or so.

The key is that they weren't always as good with women, they just got that way with tons of practice and trial and error.

If one was really to shoot for 20,000 approaches, I wouldn't be surprised if the guy started out with a 1 in 50 average (or whatever below 1/20) and eventually ended up hitting 1/10 or so after years.

[Uruz]

4,5 years in Bangkok according to some, from info in "Travel".

[AWright]

I know a guy at 588(99% in the US) right now and his next goal is 1000. He is a pickup coach and I'm apart of his facebook group, posts field reports with pics weekly. He's averaged well over 100 a year for the past 4 years. He's the most analytical guy when it comes to game that I've ever seen. Unless you live in SEA or famous you would have to dedicate your life to the goal of getting 1000. The guy I'm referring to acknowledges cold approach has its limits.

[rainy]

I don't like women enough to approach 20K of them.

I'd also suggest if, unless a star who has women throw themselves at you, once you start getting to multiple hundreds of lays that a lot of them are the wrong types of women. It suggests you're not laying women of high enough status that you see them as someone to be in a relationship with, never mind settle down with.

There's occasional guys who have zero interest in settling down at some point and just want as many lays as possible throughout their lifetime but most men plow thru the field to find someone to settle down with, to find "the one". If you can't find someone you want to settle down with after a few hundred lays, what and who are you fucking? New pussy is glorious but I personally wouldn't want to be the lonely 50 and 60 years olds I see later in life. Rather have a companion to live and explore live with.

At a certain point your natural provider instincts should kick in, where you want to be a husband, head of the household, a father, etc. Most older guys I've talked to who never got married end up regretting it. Essentially, there's more to life than notch count and unless a star, you don't get anywhere near 1000 lays unless you put other enjoyable aspects of life on the back burner. New pussy is great, so is holding your newborn kid for the first time with your wife by your side.

[Thrill Jackson]

100 notches is the magic number for me, then its off to find the one

[StackGsMan]

(02-12-2017 05:48 PM)AWright Wrote:  

I know a guy at 588(99% in the US) right now and his next goal is 1000. He is a pickup coach and I'm apart of his facebook group, posts field reports with pics weekly. He's averaged well over 100 a year for the past 4 years. He's the most analytical guy when it comes to game that I've ever seen. Unless you live in SEA or famous you would have to dedicate your life to the goal of getting 1000. The guy I'm referring to acknowledges cold approach has its limits.

That is pretty epic. I agree, it would take a lot of work/time, but I don't necessarily see that as a bad thing. I think family and finances should come first, but I don't know why pickup can't be treated as a very rewarding hobby. Unless you really have a passion for something else that you enjoy and want to dedicate you time to, it is a great way to learn social dynamics, prepare yourself to handle a marriage or LTR is you so choose, and I'm pretty sure it has been scientifically proven that sex has incredible psychological and physical benefits.

(02-12-2017 05:53 PM)rainy Wrote:  

I don't like women enough to approach 20K of them.

I'd also suggest if, unless a star who has women throw themselves at you, once you start getting to multiple hundreds of lays that a lot of them are the wrong types of women. It suggests you're not laying women of high enough status that you see them as someone to be in a relationship with, never mind settle down with.

There's occasional guys who have zero interest in settling down at some point and just want as many lays as possible throughout their lifetime but most men plow thru the field to find someone to settle down with, to find "the one". If you can't find someone you want to settle down with after a few hundred lays, what and who are you fucking? New pussy is glorious but I personally wouldn't want to be the lonely 50 and 60 years olds I see later in life. Rather have a companion to live and explore live with.

At a certain point your natural provider instincts should kick in, where you want to be a husband, head of the household, a father, etc. Most older guys I've talked to who never got married end up regretting it. Essentially, there's more to life than notch count and unless a star, you don't get anywhere near 1000 lays unless you put other enjoyable aspects of life on the back burner. New pussy is great, so is holding your newborn kid for the first time with your wife by your side.

I couldn't agree more. I initially came up with the thread because I had heard about Wilt Chamberlain having sex with 1000 women and I wanted to try to theorize how much work the average guy would have to put in to reach the number famous guys do. I intend to have a wife and hopefully many children in the future, but not until I've explored myself through the mirror that women are more.

Most of us don't live in a society with traditional values anymore, and the institution of marriage, and any sexual relationship for that matter, has changed. As a man I think it is a MUST that we learn as much as possible about women before settling down, and I think the best way to do that is to meet and seduce them.

[Putin Closes]

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/money...ge_or.html

Should give you a rough estimate, even 100+ is in the top 1% of the population, even for 20-30 age group.

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n.htm

Shows around 6.6 as "average", but this data is very biased, cant be only 2% of women had five or more sex partners in last year.

[Truth Teller]

This is a bad question and shows a poor mindset.

1 in 20 is not going to be what always happens for you. Maybe you'll have a string where you'll approach 100 girls and get nowhere, or approach 10 and fuck 2. Game can't be boiled down to some "If I do X, then Y occurs" experiment. You're dealing with people, not with a system.

Now, to answer your question: it depends what your quality threshold is. If you don't care about quality, you can rack up notches pretty fast. 2 points or more below you (so let's say you're a male 7, you'll easily fuck 5s and below, possibly the odd 6). If you do care about quality, it's going to take much longer.

My experience is that the guys who want to fuck 1000 girls need a girlfriend.

[Mufasa]

(02-10-2017 12:52 AM)Phoenix Wrote:  

Nope, the answer is usually 0.

Most men who get those kinds of numbers have "bang without question" status, like Robbie Williams, Fidel Castro etc, and they send out personal emissaries to find girls for them. E.g. "Mr Castro would like you to accompany him at his palace", or "Mr Williams has offered you a backstage pass" and so on.

Totally situational. Dante Nero claims to have fucked north of 2k, but he was also a former pimp and male stripper. He chalks a lot of it up to his professions and it literally being "there" for the taking.

The only people fucking thousands of girls are those with crazy status and extreme success. IMO thats the only way you can pull and slay that consistently without ffucking up your money. 1000's of women arent throwing themselves at guys not in that position and to pursue women on that level you would likely find yourself broke.

[Dream Medicine]

(02-12-2017 05:48 PM)AWright Wrote:  

I know a guy at 588(99% in the US) right now and his next goal is 1000. He is a pickup coach and I'm apart of his facebook group, posts field reports with pics weekly. He's averaged well over 100 a year for the past 4 years.

I look forward to reading his STD count.

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