[Hypno]

its more likely she still-birthed on your bed, its just a really bad period if its early enough. not kidding

i'm average size, but i have had girls say they can't walk the next day, but have only had a lot of blood on a few occassions. its not the length but the sensitivity of the public mound and stretching muscles in their thighs if you put their ankles behind their head.

[samsamsam]

(02-11-2017 01:03 PM)Caractacus Potts Wrote:  

Quote:

And I seem to cum best when she is on top and gently sliding up and down, vs me trying to force the love juice out of me.

Samsamsam, I am the exact same way. Sometimes I get tired of fucking when I am doing her doggy style or missionary. When she is on top gently sliding up and down, like you said, I have to fight to hold back my nut!

I do still do brutalize them a little on top. I have left bruises on hips from grabbing girls so forcefully and pulling them down on me and vigorously grinding them back and forth!

Volcano like eruptions right?

And you can pace her by grabbing her hips.

Just like when girls are on top or they are doing the work in doggy position. They pace it they way they like it.

[Transsimian]

Could it be a question of general fitness?

Cardiovascular fitness is important for maintaining a hard erection, and being active in bed.

I used to be a 120kg fatso who laid back while my GF was on top. Somehow I doubt she thought she was screwed hard. Chubby unmotivated porn addicts are no longer the exception but the norm these days, even in Australia.

Then again, you said the girl was a 8.5, so you couldn't have been her first non-manbaby notch.

[questor70]

(02-10-2017 08:00 PM)Spaniard88 Wrote:  

Unless you're watching weird fetish porn, real life is EXACTLY like porn.
Physically speaking, anyhow.
There's only so many poles and holes, folks.

Porn these days features a predominance of anal, group-sex, and mostly facial endings. The women these days tend to be littered with tats and piercings. Tongue, nipple, belly-button, nose, butt-dimple, and clit piercings. (Even staged "teacher bangs student" porn, the "students" are all heavily mutilated with tats and piercings and look hardly innocent.) The setups are more and more "talent audition" or "wave some money at a Czech" or "fake taxi" or faux-incest scenarios. The sex is full of mechanically repetitive thrusting and devoid of kissing or other lighter sensuality. Oftentimes it's laced with negativity like "caught shoplifting" porn and "accidential creampies" with some depressing name-calling after the orgasms. Guys are sometimes so desensitized and out of their zone that they need to pull out and wank desperately for two minutes (or more, due to the obligatory hard edit) to bust a nut even if they're with a perfect 10. Lots of totally lame male performers.

I'm not saying all of it is like the above, but the majority of it. Even the artsy couples-oriented Nubiles and X-Arts suffer from at least one or more of the above sins.

That is not reflective of my past sex life or anything I'd want to have happen in the future. Your mileage may vary.



...The #1 reason to not watch porn is that the quality of most of it sucks these days.

[librero]

When I was younger I was a bit gentler with my girls.

But the older I get the rougher I am with them.

When they're leaving my yard the next morning boned is the way of the walk!!

[Mufasa]

beat that cervix up boys

[polar]

I once had a FOB daddy's girl type have a full-on epileptic seizure while in flagrante delicto. I didn't pick up on it right away since she was a shaker...I called the ambulance not knowing what the hell was going on, they took her off, and I drove her Land Cruiser to the hospital. I guess she was seeing stars

She told her extended family all about it and they all wanted to thank me for my reaction time over the phone.

I was shitting bricks while waiting for the paramedics, as she never did tell me what her daddy did for a living back home - she wore everything brand name and lived in a luxury building. Given where she was from, he probably didn't win it in the lottery.

[MediumRare]

Luther mentioned on the first page he triggered an anxiety attack in a previous gf by fucking her so hard.

I wonder if this could be the weird reaction a couple girls get when I fuck them hard.

Both girls like it rough anyway, so it's not simply down to a new experience and both have been around a bit and far from the type to BS me just to stroke my ego.

They basically get the shakes badly and heart palpitations so their breathing goes out of control and their voice goes all over the place.

This happens every single time and goes on pretty much the entire time, even in between rounds.

Both look me in the eye and say almost word for word "what the fuck are you doing to me??!"
Or
"why does this always happen with you??!"
"look at my hand shaking/listen to my breathing/ look at my legs quivering!"

It happens every single time I fuck these girls but not others so I can't claim its just down to my skills in the sheets.
Also seems to be unrelated to orgasms.

Be interested if anyone else has had this type of thing?

I think it's definitely got something to do with fucking them hard because these are the two I smash the hardest.

[Fortis]

Depends on the girl. I'm naturally quite rough but many girls cannot take it. I'm not huge or anything but I've had a few girls say, "you need to be more gentle next time" the next day despite loving it when I was doing it. Some girls just aren't built to get pounded the way I like to do it. On the flipside, I've had girls tell me I need to go harder and absolutely love it. I gauge my "strength" on the girl's constitution. If you jackhammer every girl (especially in Asia) you're gonna hurt a lot of them and the sex is going to suck.

[Vill@in]

A lot of it has to do with our current culture and the blue pill conditioning so many of our fellow brothers are brainwashed by.

Most recently, the girl I was with on Sunday said her last 2 boyfriends weren't really interested in sex. The would rather play video games and when they did have sex, they had ED problems. I asked if they watched a lot of porn and she said they did. And I would bet money they ate garbage and were out of shape. So I'd say the 3 biggest factors for girls not getting fucked like they genetically need to are:

1. Guys watching too much porn, thus resulting in ED (obviously this will vary but watching porn 5 times a day and beating it each time will rewire your brain)

2. Poor diet; This will result in a host of problems, the main ones being lower T levels and just generally out of shape and no stamina.

3. Blue Pill environment which tells men that women want nice guys (just watch any Disney movie) and treat every woman like a princess and be gentle. She is NOT a slut, dammit!

There are other factors of course, but those are the big ones. So just do the opposite of the above and you should have women craving your cock.

[XPQ22]

(02-10-2017 08:00 PM)Spaniard88 Wrote:  

(02-09-2017 06:42 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

Real life isn't like porn.

This keeps coming up all over the place.

Unless you're watching weird fetish porn, real life is EXACTLY like porn.

Physically speaking, anyhow.

There's only so many poles and holes, folks.

Yeah, I've never understood this "real life isn't like porn" thing. If that's what guys actually believe it sounds like they've been having very boring lays with boring and/or disinterested girls.

I know there are probably some relationships where the dude just gets on top of her, she lays there like a fish, he thrusts and grunts for exactly 7 minutes, she moans precisely once, and then blows his load.

This is not "normal" sex and porn the "abnormal" sex. Sex is supposed to be fun! With the main girl I've been dating sometimes I strip her down and have her suck my cock in the kitchen, I hold her against the shower wall and fuck her hard under the water, or bounce to her bedroom and fuck her in four different positions including doggystyle with her hands cuffed behind her back. She moans loud enough to wake the neighbors and loves it.

I'm pretty certain she's had fewer partners in her life than the average chick in her early 30s. She's not an "abnormal" girl, and this is not "abnormal" sex - "wife sex" is the abnormal sex.

I think dudes try to rationalize that some of the sex in porn is "abnormal" because they can't stand the thought that other dudes have done the same nasty shit to their precious angel at some point before, and might be doing it behind their backs if at some point she cheats on them. But if all real life sex is sweet, awkward, and boring then it doesn't feel so bad.

Well, tough shit, that's what humans do and that's life. If you won't give it to her, someone will. It's why by this point I've wound up sitting across from at least three chicks in a bar I met online who I realized after the fact were most likely already in a relationship and she's texting me "So what do you know about collars?" later. Hey, I didn't ask for this.

If you're having friction problems use more lube, that's what it's there for. And while most girls like it hard and rough, you can't go at it continually like that or she's going to complain. Ramp it up and down in response to her. Intersperse hard with tender and gentle. Like have some dynamics, soft-loud, not just loud all the time.

[Heart Break Kid]

(02-22-2017 09:33 AM)graffix13 Wrote:  

A lot of it has to do with our current culture and the blue pill conditioning so many of our fellow brothers are brainwashed by.

Most recently, the girl I was with on Sunday said her last 2 boyfriends weren't really interested in sex. The would rather play video games and when they did have sex, they had ED problems. I asked if they watched a lot of porn and she said they did. And I would bet money they ate garbage and were out of shape. So I'd say the 3 biggest factors for girls not getting fucked like they genetically need to are:

1. Guys watching too much porn, thus resulting in ED (obviously this will vary but watching porn 5 times a day and beating it each time will rewire your brain)

2. Poor diet; This will result in a host of problems, the main ones being lower T levels and just generally out of shape and no stamina.

3. Blue Pill environment which tells men that women want nice guys (just watch any Disney movie) and treat every woman like a princess and be gentle. She is NOT a slut, dammit!

There are other factors of course, but those are the big ones. So just do the opposite of the above and you should have women craving your cock.

Care to elaborate? Also, are you sure that watching porn would lead to erectile dysfunction (I'm assuming that's what ED is)? I'm not big into biology, but I'm not sure how that can be.

[Fortis]

Erectile Dysfunction

[david.garrett84]

(02-10-2017 08:15 PM)Mercenary Wrote:  

(02-10-2017 07:38 PM)david.garrett84 Wrote:  

(02-10-2017 04:17 AM)Mercenary Wrote:  

OP, if you don't mind me asking, what age bracket are you in and how many years have you been banging girls in this rough way ?

Mid-20s. I play the field, even when I'm in a LTR. I try and aim for ten to twenty new girls every year, plus a lot of repeat girls from the past. I'd call myself experienced.

Noticed it with girls in/from CZ, Poland, Germany, East Asia, Australia, North America and Russia.

When you were younger, did you bang the same rough way and not have the same problem ?

I'm trying to figure out if this is a recent phenomenon of other men getting weaker when fucking their girls, or just you hardening your technique or changing the type of girls you bang.

Bangable girls have different heights and shapes, so that can affect things moderately, yet my style in fucking hasn't really shifted.

(02-12-2017 03:03 PM)Transsimian Wrote:  

Could it be a question of general fitness?

Cardiovascular fitness is important for maintaining a hard erection, and being active in bed.

I used to be a 120kg fatso who laid back while my GF was on top. Somehow I doubt she thought she was screwed hard. Chubby unmotivated porn addicts are no longer the exception but the norm these days, even in Australia.

Then again, you said the girl was a 8.5, so you couldn't have been her first non-manbaby notch.

My physique has changed (from leaner runner type to fairly jacked) but my general fitness has not. I've stacked on markedly more muscle since 2012/13, so perhaps I'm aerobically a little slower, but I'd have no trouble throwing out a 20km (12 mile) run right now.

(02-22-2017 01:55 AM)MediumRare Wrote:  

Both look me in the eye and say almost word for word "what the fuck are you doing to me??!"
Or
"why does this always happen with you??!"
"look at my hand shaking/listen to my breathing/ look at my legs quivering!"

THIS. "What the fuck are you doing to me??!" will come out of her mouth/their mouths after many minutes of silence (aside from panting and moaning etc).

I was doing this to my Czech ex the last time I got off the plane from Australia to see her. Tired as fuck, hadn't slept for around two days, but needed to break one out in her.

The very fine quivering you mention is a tell-tale sign, too. I say fine because it's the sort of thing, like pronounced teeth-chattering in the cold, that you can't just produce.

You find that quivering as well when you get up off her slightly and go for a full penetration, holding your torso and waist up with your hands on the bed.

[Vill@in]

(02-25-2017 10:48 PM)Heart Break Kid Wrote:  

Care to elaborate? Also, are you sure that watching porn would lead to erectile dysfunction (I'm assuming that's what ED is)? I'm not big into biology, but I'm not sure how that can be.

When you watch porn and beat your meat multiple times a day you're basically rewiring your brain:

http://www.mensjournal.com/health-fitnes...n-20130821

Your dopamine receptors are being trained to signal your dick to get hard to pixelated images of people fucking. You're basically rewriting the receptors to respond to that rather than the naked female right in front of you playing with your peter.

YMMV on the amount it takes to do this, but I was poundin' my pud once or twice daily for years (15+). I stopped beating my dick so much and cut down to about once a week and my performance has improved significantly. Obviously this is going to vary from person to person as some guys claim that the amount of daily porn watched =/= performance in bed.

Some people can masturbate just with their imagination (I was never able to master this skill) and that doesn't seem to cause ED.

However I'm not a doctor, I just play one on the internet.

[gmoneysauce]

(02-28-2017 10:15 AM)graffix13 Wrote:  

Your dopamine receptors are being trained to signal your dick to get hard to pixelated images of people fucking. You're basically rewriting the receptors to respond to that rather than the naked female right in front of you playing with your peter.

The best explanation of what porn does to your dopamine reward cycle and how that causes erectile disfunction:
http://yourbrainonporn.com/

[mensch]

This is definitely a thing. Women are usually submissive in bed. That's what they are biologically built to be like. Of course there are exceptions, but this is the majority of cases.
In any case, with the feminisation of men guys are unlikely to be dominant enough with their women. You can definitely benefit from this, as you can satisfy women more than most non-dominant guys.

[Kid Twist]

It also disposes of the myth that women need clitoral stimulation for orgasm. While there are physical inputs, there have been many women who have had orgasms that had been previously "mutilated" during birth by weird cultures. The point is, and I've heard this from transsexual anecdotes too, the general feeling of pleasure and brain excitement is global and not centralized, which is what the TS testosterone hormone people cite, which is actually sorta obvious.

Our hypothesis at a place like RV forum would be that the entire being of woman is engaged, and thus submission being feminine is the biggest input, not physical stimulation, as is clear with men including the visuals and auditory.

Men are physical, women are interpersonal, though neither is all or nothing. This one is a common sense finding.

Notice that this also shows us another thing:

When women creep toward more masculine attitudes and ways of being (promiscuity), it becomes far more physical, as they are taking on a whole new way of processing sex. Enter weirdness, toys, etc.

[Roardog]

(02-22-2017 09:33 AM)graffix13 Wrote:  

3. Blue Pill environment which tells men that women want nice guys (just watch any Disney movie) and treat every woman like a princess and be gentle. She is NOT a slut, dammit!

It's a surprise to me that the popularity of 50 Shades of Grey has not dispelled this notion to more people.
Chicks love this book/movie, not because it's some great story, but because it's about a man completely owning a woman and her surrendering to him.
This is what most women want, a man they can surrender to. A man they feel safe being vulnerable to. A man they feel safe being owned by.


But back to the OP's question. Since swallowing the red pill I have started having much rougher sex with girls and have often seen them bleed during sex.
Usually it's just a little blood and I'll only notice afterwards because there is some on the sheets. However once I had a huge amount of blood like the OP had but that was because the girl got her period the day we banged and hadn't realised. It seems that us banging kicked it off and she left a huge amount of blood in my bed. Thankfully it was a hotel.

[godfather dust]

I sent a girl to the hospital fucking her, a tear or something. I'm not 10" either.

This was early 20s, girl had scars from cutting her arms and used to say shit like "if you loved me you'd hit me!" So I had to go in when I fucked her.

Big titted 9 but the borderline personality that came out after a while not worth it at all.

[torridon747]

It's better to be over-dominant than be passive in bed. Lately with all the weird shit the girls i have banged are into I don't even think it's possible to be over-dominant

[Roardog]

(03-02-2017 02:08 AM)Eugenics Wrote:  

It's better to be over-dominant than be passive in bed. Lately with all the weird shit the girls i have banged are into I don't even think it's possible to be over-dominant

I'd rather a girl asked me to tone it down than think in her head "god this is a lame root".

[Vill@in]

(03-02-2017 02:08 AM)Eugenics Wrote:  

It's better to be over-dominant than be passive in bed. Lately with all the weird shit the girls i have banged are into I don't even think it's possible to be over-dominant

I agree. Two of my plates have a 'rape' fantasy. Fucking rape.

I'm just wondering where girls go from here? Will they want to be set on fire in 10 years? At this rate it wouldn't surprise me.

[Kid Twist]

^ I'm laughing because it seems so made up, but then I think it's funny as well because it's true.

Then I'm really sad that humanity and culture has devolved to this.

[Mercenary]

(03-03-2017 12:06 PM)graffix13 Wrote:  

I agree. Two of my plates have a 'rape' fantasy. Fucking rape.

This is very common...it isn't anything new or strange.
Romance novels for women have this theme for over 70 years now.
Older myths in worldwide cultures also talk about this.
Women have always had these fantasies.