The reason for not going out may or may not be legit. Either way it's outside your control and I don't think it's wise to show more investment than her.
Options:
-If she's not into you and you show more enthusiasm than her: you give her the satisfaction that you want her while she doesn't.
-She's ambivalent and waiting for more commitment from you: "Quid pro quo, bitch!", put in the exact amount of effort she puts in, let some other guy be that beta that begs her to go out.
-If she likes you and wants to go out with you but really can't do it this week: she shouldn't blame you for anything, she asked for postponement, just remind her discreetly and only once next week, I think that if you play it cool will only be a plus.
Because you are merciful and deep down a sensitive soul, you decide to believe her excuse and give her one chance. Just one.
Big gestures like the James Bond thing are fun but valid only after you get to know her better.
Options:
-If she's not into you and you show more enthusiasm than her: you give her the satisfaction that you want her while she doesn't.
-She's ambivalent and waiting for more commitment from you: "Quid pro quo, bitch!", put in the exact amount of effort she puts in, let some other guy be that beta that begs her to go out.
-If she likes you and wants to go out with you but really can't do it this week: she shouldn't blame you for anything, she asked for postponement, just remind her discreetly and only once next week, I think that if you play it cool will only be a plus.
Because you are merciful and deep down a sensitive soul, you decide to believe her excuse and give her one chance. Just one.
Big gestures like the James Bond thing are fun but valid only after you get to know her better.