To what extent do women take long-term consequences into account before having sex?
02-15-2017, 12:35 AMQuote: (02-12-2017 05:24 PM)Rob Banks Wrote:
Quote: (02-02-2017 09:04 AM)OCZ Wrote:
Women who had 2-3 sexual partners from which all were in long relationships it isn't bad...
You see, that's the type of thinking that got us in trouble in the '60s.
The social change from traditional marriage to modern promiscuity and hook-up culture did not happen overnight. Older, more conservative people would have never accepted hook-up culture, homosexuality, etc., so the leftists introduced it incrementally.
The idea you describe ("If a woman has had 2-3 sexual partners all from LTRs, it isn't bad), was gaining popularity in the decades prior to the 1960s. Ever since women's suffrage, women have enjoyed more and more "freedom" in terms of dating and sex, which eventually reached a critical mass and exploded into the so-called "sexual revolution" in the 1960s.
Yes, it is bad if a woman has had "only" 2-3 partners. It's not as bad as if she has had 50 partners, but it is still bad. And no, it doesn't matter if they were LTRs or one-night stands. Dick is dick.
PS: It's one thing to be realistic and accept that you probably won't marry a virgin in this day and age. It's another thing entirely to say "it isn't bad" for a woman to have multiple sexual partners before marriage.
See also this study:
Quote:Quote:In other words, the other cock that went in her probably belonged to a John Nicholas Harley Pellowe type who left her alpha widowed.
Women with 3-9 partners were less likely to divorce than women with 2 partners . . . . Ultimately we’re left to speculate about why having exactly two partners produces some of the highest divorce rates. My best guess rests on the notion of over-emphasized comparisons. In most cases, a woman’s two premarital sex partners include her future husband and one other man. That second sex partner is first-hand proof of a sexual alternative to one’s husband. These sexual experiences convince women that sex outside of wedlock is indeed a possibility. The man involved was likely to have become a partner in the course of a serious relationship—women inclined to hook up will have had more than two premarital partners—thereby emphasizing the seriousness of the alternative. Of course, women learn about the viability of nonmarital sex if they have multiple premarital partners, but with multiple partners, each one represents a smaller part of a woman’s sexual and romantic biography. Having two partners may lead to uncertainty, but having a few more apparently leads to greater clarity about the right man to marry.