Hello all,
So I tried asking this question on a body building forum, but I didn't get very many good answers and since I became a member here I have come to really value the level of advice that MANY of the members here give.
Let me preface this by saying that I was an athlete most of my life, began bodybuilding in college, have lost upwards of 60 lbs in the past, and worked in a gym simply because at one point my body was high value (I was probably in the upper percentages of men in terms of how my body looked). Back then I got eye contact everywhere I went in the tier 1 city I lived in, and I even had women walk up to me in bars and ask me to go home with them.
Since then I developed bipolar disorder and within some time after I began to take medication for it. Coincidentally, although I am not saying this was the pills' fault, I became depressed, entirely stopped working out, began smoking heavily, and began binge eating.
I went from 6'2'', 205 lbs, to my current weight around 300 lbs. Although I have still been able to pull girls occasionally, my life has totally changed for the worse. On top of that, I have developed Erectile Dysfunction and I attribute it and least in very large part to my weight. This has cost me more than a few lays because not only am I turning on less women, but a lot of times I can't even get it up when I have a wet pussy in front of me. On top of that, even when I do get it up I can't physically have sex for long without getting tired or sore. Also, even though I decided nearly half a year ago that I want to concentrate on night game and same night lays, I haven't been able to make myself go out because I have lost a lot of self confidence and feel like it is an uphill battle because of my weight. Don't get me wrong, I have blasted through approach anxiety over the years, but this is different, it's a feeling of futility.
Sorry for being long winded, but I wanted to give whoever reads this some background info.
I have a lot of time on my hands for the next 8 or so months, and I have considered doing a routine where I lift either 4 or 7 days a week, but where I walk 6 hours a day as well. With just my diet of 800 or so calories from protein (chicken breast), I have been able to lose weight and retain most if not all my muscle, but the rate of weight I've dropped is about 15 lbs a month.
I have calculated from online research that if I walk 6 hours a day in addition to the diet I can lose something like 30+ a month, and within 3 months I will be at my ideal weight (I know there is a difference between losing weight and looking good, but I want to start by losing the weight).
My major concern is will I increase my risk of having disgusting loose skin? Should I just take the 15 lbs a month route while lifting, or should I kick it into high gear and reclaim my life?
From the research I've done (which is very sparse on the internet), I have come to conclude that loose skin comes mainly from the way your body looks and how your fat is stored more so than the actual weight you are. Although I am certainly fat at 300 lbs, I only wear a size 40, and comfortably at that. I have a large amount of muscle and am decently strong despite years of not working out.
What do you guys think? Three months of rapid weight loss and reclaiming my life and manhood or a slow and steady approach over 9 months?
So I tried asking this question on a body building forum, but I didn't get very many good answers and since I became a member here I have come to really value the level of advice that MANY of the members here give.
Let me preface this by saying that I was an athlete most of my life, began bodybuilding in college, have lost upwards of 60 lbs in the past, and worked in a gym simply because at one point my body was high value (I was probably in the upper percentages of men in terms of how my body looked). Back then I got eye contact everywhere I went in the tier 1 city I lived in, and I even had women walk up to me in bars and ask me to go home with them.
Since then I developed bipolar disorder and within some time after I began to take medication for it. Coincidentally, although I am not saying this was the pills' fault, I became depressed, entirely stopped working out, began smoking heavily, and began binge eating.
I went from 6'2'', 205 lbs, to my current weight around 300 lbs. Although I have still been able to pull girls occasionally, my life has totally changed for the worse. On top of that, I have developed Erectile Dysfunction and I attribute it and least in very large part to my weight. This has cost me more than a few lays because not only am I turning on less women, but a lot of times I can't even get it up when I have a wet pussy in front of me. On top of that, even when I do get it up I can't physically have sex for long without getting tired or sore. Also, even though I decided nearly half a year ago that I want to concentrate on night game and same night lays, I haven't been able to make myself go out because I have lost a lot of self confidence and feel like it is an uphill battle because of my weight. Don't get me wrong, I have blasted through approach anxiety over the years, but this is different, it's a feeling of futility.
Sorry for being long winded, but I wanted to give whoever reads this some background info.
I have a lot of time on my hands for the next 8 or so months, and I have considered doing a routine where I lift either 4 or 7 days a week, but where I walk 6 hours a day as well. With just my diet of 800 or so calories from protein (chicken breast), I have been able to lose weight and retain most if not all my muscle, but the rate of weight I've dropped is about 15 lbs a month.
I have calculated from online research that if I walk 6 hours a day in addition to the diet I can lose something like 30+ a month, and within 3 months I will be at my ideal weight (I know there is a difference between losing weight and looking good, but I want to start by losing the weight).
My major concern is will I increase my risk of having disgusting loose skin? Should I just take the 15 lbs a month route while lifting, or should I kick it into high gear and reclaim my life?
From the research I've done (which is very sparse on the internet), I have come to conclude that loose skin comes mainly from the way your body looks and how your fat is stored more so than the actual weight you are. Although I am certainly fat at 300 lbs, I only wear a size 40, and comfortably at that. I have a large amount of muscle and am decently strong despite years of not working out.
What do you guys think? Three months of rapid weight loss and reclaiming my life and manhood or a slow and steady approach over 9 months?