[kirdiesel]

(01-14-2017 01:05 PM)mpr Wrote:  

(01-14-2017 12:44 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  

As a black guy who has been in the same EXACT situation as this black guy has I'm glad she outed her pops.

Of course you are. White guilt benefits you socially, economically, and sexually. God forbid her parents prefer that she date men within her own race; so she can carry her families culture and heritage. Only minorities are allowed to do that. Right?

You destroy your families culture and heritage by dating outside of your race?

Who is asking for white guilt anyway? No asking for handouts here.

The only thing I ever ask for is equality and thats it. I'll do the rest.

[Kona]

(01-14-2017 01:07 PM)weambulance Wrote:  

Your family isn't something you should turn your back on lightly.

But isn't that what the father is doing?

Also, Little Allie went to a private high school, that's most likely 15k a year daddy spent on her education. Now, when college roles around he cuts off the tuition because she's dating a boy secretly? That doesnt make sense. Oops, I left out the "black" part.

This guy was the one who started the absolute petty bullshit. She gave it right back.

Did he think he was going to out-petty an 18 year old entitled whit girl?

One more thing, in my experience, when someone says "its not about race" it usually is.

Aloha!

[Repo]

Yeah, "dating secretly", the hell does that mean, and I wonder why? I'm not defending her actions, but I do think he was clearly in the wrong too.

@mpr

So are all of us guys traveling abroad dating exotic women also destroying our families heritage?

[kirdiesel]

(01-14-2017 01:46 PM)Repo Wrote:  

So are all of us guys traveling abroad dating exotic women also destroying our families heritage?

Unfortunately thats how some people see it.

Ive learned something very interesting being abroad.

White people and black people in the US are more alike than they think. They are both American are closer in attitude and mentality than dating someone from abroad..

When a white American is with a white German they "destroy" more of their heritage than dating a born American. The only thing extremely similar is that they are both white.

The kid that would come out of that union would firstly speaking German and learn English later and follow mostly German traditions and have German mentalities ingrained into them.

[Fortis]

I can see the resemblance.

Father and daughter are both petty assholes, but I'd say dad is more petty.

Giving your daughter the boot for dating a black dude seems a tad harsh. I'd be pretty pissed at my dad if he decided to disown my sister for having a white boyfriend. Funny enough, my sister is dating a white dude and my dad didn't really like it but he didn't disown her. He got over it quick when he realized he was the only one who cared.

I think disowning your children over petty shit is more destructive than race mixing.

[BlackUniform]

(01-14-2017 01:40 PM)Kona Wrote:  

But isn't that what the father is doing?

In a way surely, but not being able to have a major say in who will date your daughter is relatively new thing brought by feminism. Doesn't matter if daddy did not like his skin colour or whatever, his daughter is his property for the most part. Of course you cannot control female behaviour in legal way now, but for example I am doing it in a different way inside my "clan".

To everyone his own, if somebody does not care who his daughter is dating "as long as she is happy or whatever", that's your choice. But don't shit at family ways of other people, it's not your business even if you want to date this or that.

I would fully understand if some Albanian guy would put me in the trunk of his car and took me to the forest for banging his cousin, daughter, sister or whatever, I would also not be very nice if my sister, cousin started to date an immigrant or a gypsy.

[weambulance]

(01-14-2017 01:40 PM)Kona Wrote:  

(01-14-2017 01:07 PM)weambulance Wrote:  

Your family isn't something you should turn your back on lightly.

But isn't that what the father is doing?

No. He is not obligated to support her in any endeavor she chooses. She is not entitled to his money if she decides to do something he sees as stupid. It doesn't matter if you like his rationale.

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Also, Little Allie went to a private high school, that's most likely 15k a year daddy spent on her education. Now, when college roles around he cuts off the tuition because she's dating a boy secretly? That doesnt make sense. Oops, I left out the "black" part.

No point in throwing good money after bad.

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This guy was the one who started the absolute petty bullshit. She gave it right back.

Did he think he was going to out-petty an 18 year old entitled whit girl?

He made a private decision. She chose to make a mountain out of a molehill, broadcast it to the world, and seriously damage her entire family. I find it bizarre that you think the actions of the father and the girl are even remotely comparable.

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One more thing, in my experience, when someone says "its not about race" it usually is.

Aloha!

Who cares if it is? Welcome to real life, where the whole world is racist. Tribalism is part of human nature. Ignore it at your peril.

[Repo]

"His daughter is his property for the most part"

[The Breeze]

WB - FS

would bang for spite

[Jean Valjean]

(01-13-2017 03:10 PM)Cr33pin Wrote:  

At least she has long hair. That schnoz, though, has me wondering if she's part Jewish. She looks like Cathy Reisenwitz.

[Kieran]

I think she's attractive. Not particularly my type, but definitely attractive.

Also, good luck to the two of them. I appreciate that people here think she's an attention whore etc., and while I do agree, she's young and just a product of the environment she's grown up in, where every little thing is a hashtag with a go fund me etc.

And just to add, I've never really understood why so many white men get upset over this stuff. I'm white, but I've always had the mentality that if it's not my dick going in her then what difference does it make what colour it is. There's more than enough women of every race to go around - white men can fuck, black men can fuck, we can all fuck. It's win-win.

[Kona]

(01-14-2017 02:10 PM)weambulance Wrote:  

He made a private decision. She chose to make a mountain out of a molehill, broadcast it to the world, and seriously damage her entire family. I find it bizarre that you think the actions of the father and the girl are even remotely comparable.

He decided them coloreds ain't no good, yes it was a private decision. He decided to buy into all the crap that tells people like him that every black person is evil. He decided to ignore the fact that the black man in question is probably a great guy.

He plays soccer at Clemson, and is dating an 18 year old girl who seems to be into the sciences and has perfect grades at a private school. He's not one of the Chicago kidnappers.

Not having the education she was expecting taken away is a mountain to her. It is to a lot of 18 year olds, male or female. You can say "well that is the real world" and normally I'd agree. Unfortunately daddy's business was opened in 1909, and not by him.

To have the education taken away because of something so petty as her daddy's racism makes the mountain a little bigger.

Of course I don't think the actions of the girl and the father are comparable. I think she out did him bigly. There's a lot of black people in Memphis, and some of them buy sporting goods. The hit the business takes will probably be more than he would have spent on her tuition.

When you own a business, you have to remember that every decision in your life affects everything else. You gotta think big picture and this guy didn't.

Shell probably be a doctor some day, and they will probably reconcile. I hope she remembers this when they are picking nursing homes.

Edit: in fact, I'm so proud of Little Allie, I'm donating some money on behalf of I minorities everywhere.

Aloha!

[PrtSc]

I don't know if the father is racist or not. But simply having a preference for your daughter or son to date within their race isn't racism. It's not like the father said he hates black people or thinks they are inferior.

I've met plenty of girls who were non-white who said that their parents wanted them to date within their race. Just the other day an Egyptian girl told me her parents would be upset if she didn't date an Egyptian guy who was also Orthodox Christian. I am neither of those, and it didn't bother me at all. Of course her parents want any potential kids to share similar culture, but more than that, they probably would prefer their grand-kids to look related to them. Now whether or not parents disown their children for this type of thing is another story. Personally I think that's a bit harsh. I would encourage my kids to stick within their own race and culture, but ultimately, it's their own choice. I wouldn't treat someone they brought home of a different race like shit - but I also wouldn't see a problem of being upfront that I would have preferred someone else.

People get really strange about this sort of thing for some reason. It's mostly stupid white people with white guilt who see a problem with this type of view. In the Toronto area, there are so many ethnicities that have clustered around specific suburbs. Are these brown and Asian people racist for wanting to stick with their own? Of course not. That includes who they are dating. It seems like it's just dumb white people have a problem with this sort of thing.

[Samseau]

People are assuming way too much. How do we know the father is pissed just because her boyfriend is Black? We don't even know 1% what the father knows.

There's a lot of White knighting going on from people assuming the father is some kind of closet racist.

I defer to the side of the patriarch before some little slut, every time. Race is a minor, minor issue in comparison.

The father should have veto power over anyone his daughter is dating. You spend 18 years of your life raising a child so she can whore herself out? What man wants to be part of that shit deal? Women's rights are a joke. What about the father who spent two decades creating the woman in the first place?

[SamuelBRoberts]

(01-14-2017 03:37 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

People are assuming way too much. How do we know the father is pissed just because her boyfriend is Black? We don't even know 1% what the father knows.

I agree wholeheartedly with this. This isn't the 1960s. The odds that this story is actually anything close to the way it's being described are pretty close to zero.

[Huey]

These types of threads never end well.

[MrXY]

Look out for her SA profile, coming 2018.

[Kona]

(01-14-2017 03:37 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

People are assuming way too much. How do we know the father is pissed just because her boyfriend is Black? We don't even know 1% what the father knows.

There's a lot of White knighting going on from people assuming the father is some kind of closet racist.

I defer to the side of the patriarch before some little slut, every time. Race is a minor, minor issue in comparison.

The father should have veto power over anyone his daughter is dating. You spend 18 years of your life raising a child so she can whore herself out? What man wants to be part of that shit deal? Women's rights are a joke. What about the father who spent two decades creating the woman in the first place?

Well why are we saying Little Allie (who I am proudly white knighting for) is whoring herself out?

She's a straight a student dating a college soccer player. It doesn't get any cleaner than that.

If the father was concerned about preserving his 18 year investment, he should understand that the quickest way to drive her up the stripper pole is to give her shit about her black boyfriend.

This is one of those threads where one side is never going to see the other sides opinion. But you guys have a nice day.

Aloha!

[Repo]

At 18 years old a father should have veto power over anyone she is dating? Can't say I agree with that, maybe not allowing him over, but I would draw the line there. That seems like the type of thing that seperates families. She's an 18 year old freshman, not like its going to last anyway. Regardless of anyones position, I don't expect anyone's mind to change, so agree to disagree I guess.

[Rocha]

He is dating down. If this guy was a soccer player in my country playing in the juniors league or B team of any of the "big three" (F.C.Porto, Benfica or Sporting Lisbon) I am quite sure he would be banging much better.

[Repo]

Caveat to my statement would be if he were doing drugs or other illegal activity, but outside that I think controlling who your kids date at that age hurts families more than helps.

[Comte De St. Germain]

Pretty sure I can fit my Dick in that witch nose. Also WB while making her wear a crow mask and a witch hat with a dildo with a broom handle in her ass.

And if she doesn't refer to me as her Lord and Master Lucifer there will be a punishment game involved.

[godfather dust]

(01-14-2017 04:03 PM)Repo Wrote:  

At 18 years old a father should have veto power over anyone she is dating? Can't say I agree with that, maybe not allowing him over, but I would draw the line there. That seems like the type of thing that seperates families. She's an 18 year old freshman, not like its going to last anyway. Regardless of anyones position, I don't expect anyone's mind to change, so agree to disagree I guess.

He's paying her way. If he decides his funding is dependent on who she dates, what she wears, what music she listens to, or whatever else he decides that's his decision.

She can do what she wants, that's not something many would argue against, but he doesn't have to fund it.

[SlickyBoy]

(01-13-2017 12:08 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

The tell that she's likely lying, or at least exaggerating, is that she says "strictly because."

I think the tell was this:

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The 18-year-old private school student said ...

But i agree - she's a future fattie based on that sweater pic. And she must have needed a trowel for all that clown makeup!

Either way, she's got at least one career ahead of her just like Library Girl.

EDIT - forgot: WGB (would gang bang)

[SlickyBoy]

(01-14-2017 04:01 PM)Kona Wrote:  

If the father was concerned about preserving his 18 year investment, he should understand that the quickest way to drive her up the stripper pole is to give her shit about her black boyfriend.

The stripper angle was started way before this. Just 18 years ago, she was the bundle of joy - daddy's little girl. Then, somewhere around puberty like a lot of dads, he wasn't paying attention when the stalk began to grow in the wrong direction. Next thing you know it's "I hate you , daddy!!" No well adjusted girl throws her entire family under the bus (and potentially risks their/her financial well being) so capriciously.

The black boyfriend is therefore less likely to be a genuine love interest and probably yet another manifestation of her already out of control nature, not just a one time thing to which dad overreacted.