I keep wanting to start doing approaches and feel like I need to get my life in order first. Everytime I get to the point where I feel I want to take action I find information about WHY I need to sort out my life, fix your fashion, improve body image, make a decent lifestyle, lift weights, create a social circle, do online game, get good at texting, get good at tinder, start having threesomes, start running a harem, but first I need to sort out my inner game. It's very disconcerting and a lot of opposing information on the net when all I want to do is start taking action. It's like you find the inner game information, then you read it, then you feel you need to sort your life out, then they say 'Just go out'. It's kind of convoluted and all over the place. Do I really need to sort out all these Inner Game issues before I start talking to women? I want to meet new friends.
The thing is I see the reasoning behind sorting out the inner game things. If you want to meet new people then you want to put your best foot forward. But what if it's going to take time to get there? Some guys are more fucked up than that. Some guys find it easy because they are 60% the way there already. What if you have been out of the game for years or what if you've just poked around at game and never took it seriously?
What is there to learn with Inner Game? It seems like every f*cking guru out there has there own bullshit views about inner game. It's such an ambiguous term. Do you really need to have your shit handled in that department first? I've met guys who have beta tendencies who do well with women. I've met guys with bad breath do well with women. Surely those are inner game problems.
To me inner game is all the damned basic stuff that it takes to be a presentable human in a professional social world. To me inner game is knowing how you think and what is the right thing to think. This is ambiguous. does this mean I should start teaching guys that they have inner game issues because they don't look or think like me?
I find the whole inner game school as a kind of byproduct of cultlike thinking. Most inner game stuff is based on the guru's teaching from their perspective. Who wants to buy a $199 audio program telling you inner game is about confidence if you're already confident?
I don't know guys. I find inner game stuff a bit weird sometimes. I've come to dislike the meditation bullshit because I learned meditation as a Ju Jitsu and Aikido Student in my teens. It seems like such a waste of time to learn meditation when I'm happy with the results I get from my own knowledge of meditation.
I don't want to spend 55 minutes listening to some creepy hypnotist telling me how to think, I don't want to know NLP bullshit, I don't want to be a Buddhist monk or get rid of my ego (it's in the brain for a reason), and I certainly don't want some dude who claims to have a better life than me tell me how to think. This may seem counterintuitive.
So what's the word? What is worth learning when it comes to inner game? I don't want some delusional grandiose ego trip reframe of myself either. What actually matters when it comes to inner game?
The thing is I see the reasoning behind sorting out the inner game things. If you want to meet new people then you want to put your best foot forward. But what if it's going to take time to get there? Some guys are more fucked up than that. Some guys find it easy because they are 60% the way there already. What if you have been out of the game for years or what if you've just poked around at game and never took it seriously?
What is there to learn with Inner Game? It seems like every f*cking guru out there has there own bullshit views about inner game. It's such an ambiguous term. Do you really need to have your shit handled in that department first? I've met guys who have beta tendencies who do well with women. I've met guys with bad breath do well with women. Surely those are inner game problems.
To me inner game is all the damned basic stuff that it takes to be a presentable human in a professional social world. To me inner game is knowing how you think and what is the right thing to think. This is ambiguous. does this mean I should start teaching guys that they have inner game issues because they don't look or think like me?
I find the whole inner game school as a kind of byproduct of cultlike thinking. Most inner game stuff is based on the guru's teaching from their perspective. Who wants to buy a $199 audio program telling you inner game is about confidence if you're already confident?
I don't know guys. I find inner game stuff a bit weird sometimes. I've come to dislike the meditation bullshit because I learned meditation as a Ju Jitsu and Aikido Student in my teens. It seems like such a waste of time to learn meditation when I'm happy with the results I get from my own knowledge of meditation.
I don't want to spend 55 minutes listening to some creepy hypnotist telling me how to think, I don't want to know NLP bullshit, I don't want to be a Buddhist monk or get rid of my ego (it's in the brain for a reason), and I certainly don't want some dude who claims to have a better life than me tell me how to think. This may seem counterintuitive.
So what's the word? What is worth learning when it comes to inner game? I don't want some delusional grandiose ego trip reframe of myself either. What actually matters when it comes to inner game?
POE.