[h5757]

I’m doing online dating currently and my friend told me that the etiquette among everyone nowadays is that you don’t even call the woman up; you only talk to her through text (whether you first meet the woman online or in person) and ask her out through text. But I’ve also heard people say that you should ask a woman out through a phone call, and speaking to her on the phone can even build comfort. Wouldn’t it also be a benefit to call her up before you actually decide to go out with her because a phone conversation would give you a better idea if you two are compatible? On the phone, you can’t spend time thinking up a response like with texting.

What is the general consensus? Will I look like a weirdo if I give the woman a call and ask her out and schedule the date over the phone? What do you guys tend to do and what’s your rationale?

Also, what have you found to be the best way to ask her out and when to ask her out, regardless of whether you use text or phone call (this is all assuming you’re doing online dating)?

[realologist]

You just started a thread about nearly the same thing this could have been easily answered there.

But back on topic. You are over analyzing all of this. You want to know what guys with real game do. They don't give a fuck or worry about how to take the shot. They just fucking do it. They lay the ground work before so they have a good shot from no matter where they take it.

A guy with good game can get a chick to go out with him with a telegram if he wanted. It's about what he did before the telegram that matters.

[h5757]

(01-05-2017 07:57 PM)realologist Wrote:  

You just started a thread about nearly the same thing this could have been easily answered there.

But back on topic. You are over analyzing all of this. You want to know what guys with real game do. They don't give a fuck or worry about how to take the shot. They just fucking do it. They lay the ground work before so they have a good shot from no matter where they take it.

A guy with good game can get a chick to go out with him with a telegram if he wanted. It's about what he did before the telegram that matters.

Sorry about that. In the future, I'll ask similar questions in the same thread.

[LeoneVolpe]

(01-05-2017 07:57 PM)realologist Wrote:  

You just started a thread about nearly the same thing this could have been easily answered there.

But back on topic. You are over analyzing all of this. You want to know what guys with real game do. They don't give a fuck or worry about how to take the shot. They just fucking do it. They lay the ground work before so they have a good shot from no matter where they take it.

A guy with good game can get a chick to go out with him with a telegram if he wanted. It's about what he did before the telegram that matters.

Spot on.

[NickDunne]

Not so simple. An ever increasing number of young girls thinks gets very uncomfortable if you voice call them out of the blue before you actually met. To my generation it's absurd but sadly becoming more and more commonplace.

Add to that the fact they text all the time: at work, at school, at the doctor's, while being banged (happened to me more times than I can count that i was banging a chick and she had to text her boyfriend back so he would not get worried - makes you think about ever again having a relationship) which makes it impossible to pick up the call.

So, my advice is go either way that suits you as the guys before me wrote but don't be surprised if the call makes her uncomfortable.

[tapthatass]

Text is my first priority. Please don't phone out of the blue and ask her out.

With that being said, I think it depends on the girl's age and how much you both know about each other.

Young + Don't know much = text
Young + both know about each other = text + call
Old + don't know much = text/call (depends)
Old + both know about each other = call.

This is how I roll.

[XPQ22]

If you think that by asking her out and having her accept via a phone call vs text will lead to any lower chance of a flake or a higher chance of a bang...in my experience it usually makes no difference whatsoever in whether she flakes or not, but may have actually hurt more than it helped overall.

[El Padrone]

You're worrying about the pennies. If you've run your game well, the trivial 'how' will be completely irrelevant.

So what is the game about? That is, what should you be doing on a foundational level from first base to have her salivating for you like Senor Pavlov's dog?

Giving her emotions.

That is how Trump got elected while spending much much less, and offending much more people.

That is how every item you ever bought was sold.

Game is running psychology on women. It is what she wants.

How do you do this??

You rock up to a chick while getting off work and she's feeling whatever. You go in there with a goal to engage her imaginations.

You do this through your back and forth with her but you have to lead it in that direction always.

That is the whole point of game.

Capturing her imaginations.

How you choose to ask her out and to where is just working out a logistical convenience on your part. This is where you can tell the chick in advancio she's paying for your time out and she complies.

Because you are such an emotional ride she'd obey. You're a dealer and she's your junkie.

Everytime you try to run game, keep this in mind.

Paz Hermano.

[El Padrone]

And if a chick blows you out, you should ask yourself what *emotions* were generated in you and work to improve how you feel.

Rejection is temporary and not worth squat.

And yes, you'll get blown out now and then- some milder, some plain bomb blowout.

But you're still here. That chick was just a tool to getting your game up there with the masters. Her having a vagina (which you happen to want) doesn't make her worth shit. Her value is in her behaviour, and if she can't behave right, then it's prolly better that she told you off.

Charge it to the game and game on.

Paz Hermano.