[John Michael Kane]

(12-30-2016 05:02 PM)Remington Wrote:  

(12-30-2016 02:53 AM)John Michael Kane Wrote:  

Why bother with a woman you're not attracted to? Seems like a way to feel regret afterwards. Instead, keep doing what you're doing to improve yourself as a man. (Gym, finances, etc.) Higher quality women come as a result of becoming a higher quality man. Dumpster diving leads to self-loathing.

If you end up fucking an ugly/fat chick, there's a high chance you won't feel too great afterward.

You're the prize. You wouldn't play a sport because you get a participation trophy. You play because you want to win the gold. Go for a girl that is a winner, not a dumpster fire.

Not only do you feel regret for having such low standards, you also tend to ignore your own underlying issues as to why you're attracting such lack of quality in the first place. The reason you had to dumpster dive was YOU, not the girl. You had low standards and/or need to work on getting your life in order. The women a man can attract are a direct reflection of a man's own willingness to better himself. Ask yourself, do you think that Trump would dumpster dive? The answer is obvious.

[Hoser]

^^^ WWTD?

GTBDP, of course!

But seriously, Trump is like a free course in Alpha. I'm even thinking of shaking hands the way he does, just for the amusement it will give me.

[Cattle Rustler]

You will rationalize fatties by saying "well...at least I'm getting laid", but trust me....you will regret fucking them afterwards and wonder why you just wasted your time.

It's happened to me.

[Hoser]

I lost my virginity to a fatty. 25 years later, I still try to block out the memory. Nothing hot about that.

[JackinMelbourne]

(01-04-2017 04:40 PM)AlphaGrowthHormone Wrote:  

Never raw dog a fatty.

Just quoting that again for anyone who missed this very important rule.

[stugatz]

(01-10-2017 12:20 AM)Hoser Wrote:  

I lost my virginity to a fatty. 25 years later, I still try to block out the memory. Nothing hot about that.

Oh, me too - and she called me two days letter telling me that it might not be a bad idea for me to make a clinic appointment. Some friends of mine are never going to let me live that down.

[Pride male]

Roosh has posts entitled Do it for the Notch, the Boner Test and The I have Standards Excuse. It is worth a read. A notch is a notch.

[OCZ]

(12-30-2016 04:26 AM)asdfk Wrote:  

Game, game, game.

Why do you complain that you have not enough to offer? Believe me, there are men out there with a lot less to offer then you who bang like crazy.

A 60-year alcoholic who is nearly blind, can barely walk and is a raging disaster financially and socially comes to mind. He fucks more then me and I'm doing better at all points.

That's because he has game, my friend.

Now, you should definitely get money, lift weights and improve your life situation. It matters, But don't pout if you temporarily don't have any of these things, because there are men with women in their lives who have less then you.

Now, to what you can do.

If you are disgusted with a woman, don't fuck her.

If you do not intent to improve your game, which would be a dumb unless you are a Russian oligarch, then also don't fuck girls you think are so-so.

But if you want to learn how to fuck and date women at a point when you think it's the hardest (for example, when you are not in shape and penniless)...

...then fuck so-so chicks, just for practice.

Now, if they throw themselves at you, the above doesn't apply. But if it's a normal situation and she doesn't offer to suck your cock out of the blue, then proceed. You will learn a lot by recognising the signs, and going through the motions.

You will practice seducing banging chicks even if you don't have anything substantial to offer. This skill might come in handy later. For example, when you see a girl you absolutely love.

If you don't practice on so-so chicks and because of this fail with the hot girl, you deserve no sympathy. However, if you do practice and do it right, you might be able to get that super hot girl in 6 months or so.

So:
- Don't fuck monstrosities or the absolute bottom of the barrel.
- Bang mediocre chicks that don't throw themselves at you so you can practice.
- Take what you've learned and apply this to a girl you really dig.

I can't say it better, improve your game, have standars, try try. Say clever things. You don't need to buy them drinks, you don't need to have a nice car or a nice. BUT look clean, wear decent looking clothes ( shirt-jeans always go fine), nice haircut and be confident my friend.