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The "leftover women" of China
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The "leftover women" of China

Quote: (12-19-2016 07:53 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

I get what you're saying and agree with it in general, we all want the best mate we can get. However, this is something quite peculiar and specific.

Asian American women in Houston don't act like this
Women of other ethnicities in houston don't act like this
Other Asian who've been in Houston for a while don't act like this
Asian (as a whole) women in Dallas don't act like this.

It's only Plain Jane Chinese FOB women in Houston.

The ones that dress up or are not plain jane are normal. The Charity lady is involved in some arts stuff but her day job is a bean counter and looks flat as a well.

There's a very good chance they're all part of the same social circles, that could explain why they all act like that in one area.

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The "leftover women" of China

Quote: (12-19-2016 12:20 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

Quote: (12-19-2016 12:27 AM)Suits Wrote:  

Quote: (12-18-2016 10:01 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

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The longer I'm here the less I like the women. I'll still fuck them of course - but if the test comes out positive, we're headed immediately to the 死宝贝医生, and if she doesn't want to do that, I'm vapor and she's stuck raising a half foreign baby on her own.

This is extremely ruthless.

Evidently, you aren't aware of how ruthless the Chinese can be. If any legal action is taken against you, no more what, the police will immediately confiscate your passport, which means you won't have a leg to stand on until to give in to all of the other party's terms.

And your embassy won't lift a finger to help you.

While the Chinese system is a lot more balanced towards working men, this doesn't apply to foreign men.

I recommend (again) that you reconsider actually spending time in other countries other than the US. It'll change the way you think.

You mean I will decide to knock up and ditch my kids? Nah, don't think so.

I'd agree, it is unlikely that your core beliefs will change at your age.

I also would like to be a part of the life of any offspring I produce. However, while I might not take the same stance as Nonpariel, I can certainly see where he is coming from.

Having personally experience the lengths that the Chinese will go to in order to gain any advantage, I can't blame or criticize him for his plan.

That's why living internationally is so beneficial to intellectual growth. While it may not fundamentally change you, there are some things you can only truly understand or appreciate from personal experience. These personal experiences serve as fuel for intellectual pursuit, as they force you to grapple with ideas and realities that you would have never know existed if you hadn't been force to face them head on.

My more than 10 years of living abroad has been like peeling back layers of an onion. Every time you think you have everything figured out, you realize that there is another aspect of human nature that you have yet to consider.

Quote: (12-19-2016 12:20 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

Also Suits, speaking of people who need to walk the walk, where is my trip you promised me?

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I recommend you actually mean what you say, so people take you seriously.

Check your inbox. I sent an email on April to the burner email address you supplied me with and never heard back from you. Ball's still in your court.

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#53

The "leftover women" of China

Quote: (12-19-2016 08:10 PM)Suits Wrote:  

Quote: (12-19-2016 12:20 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

Also Suits, speaking of people who need to walk the walk, where is my trip you promised me?

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I recommend you actually mean what you say, so people take you seriously.

Check your inbox. I sent an email on April to the burner email address you supplied me with and never heard back from you. Ball's still in your court.

Offer still stands.

I'll be outside of China and otherwise unavailable until March 2017, after which you are more than welcome to visit.

Your email looked like spam and got bulk archived with the rest of the spam. My bad, we will be meeting someday...

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The "leftover women" of China

Chinese women, like women anywhere, can be over-educated yet unsurprisingly still do things that don't make a lot of sense. Leftover women are entirely their own creation. They don't want to date down, so if they get a PhD and have a cushy government job, they're definitely not going for an engineer with just a master's, unless there's large amounts of money involved.

What's annoying to no end is how western media and ABCs spin the leftover woman issue as indicative of evil Chinese patriarchy. And this narrative is common among Chinese urbanites as well.

Quote: (12-17-2016 12:59 AM)Nonpareil Wrote:  

Not that good ones aren't out there, but I have friends that bought Chinese (meaning they knocked up and were therefore forced to marry them), and I don't think I would consider any of them as being 'happy'. I won't detail the problems and the kids are lovely, but they all have lots of bullshit marital issues, which to my outside perspective appear to be imaginary shit made up by the girl.

Again they aren't all like that...just like 90% of them are. And even if you do luck into a nice, sweet Chinese girl who cooks and cleans and fucks and takes care of you - even then, you're going to still have to deal with her family, who will usually be low class nongs who spit everywhere, smoke and drink baijiu constantly and expect you, the foreign husband, to foot the bill so their daughter can just stay in with the kid (and pollute its mind with backwards Chinese bullshit) and so they can play mahjong all day at the teahouse with their friends.
If you are scared your Chinese wife will pollute your kid with Chinese bullshit you probably shouldn't have a Chinese wife, unless you like being a stay-at-home dad.

Also "bullshit marital issues" are probably harmless tests that in western relationships would translate to infidelity and divorce rape. In China it's still largely the man's choice if he wants a xiaosar or not. As for dealing with the nong family, it's your responsibility to invoke the First Principle of Patriarchy With Chinese Characteristics, which is that after you pay the bride price, the wife is part of YOUR family, not hers.
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Quote: (12-19-2016 07:39 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

Yo Kai,

I have some questions about Chinese women in Houston man. These broads that I encountered a year ago are more delusional than wonder bread girls, mostly off match.com

They're 36-42 and 100% FOB, they want a rich man to be their provider. One wrote this "He didn't allow me to donate money to charity or church either." and another wanted a man who would "pay for my child's preschool and live in a area with good schools".

If Chinese men won't date them and they know rich folks go after young women, why would they think someone would oblique their requirements? They are rather plain looking and dress too conservatively to be making those demands. Why is their hamster in overdrive? What's going on in their minds? Someone has to be a moron to pay 8K a year for someone else's kid just to be with a lady. I told the charity lady that I was okay with donating her own money to charity, then she claim that I insulted and offended her...didn't really care.

It's only Chinese older women, not asians in general and no black/hisp/white girls.

Quote: (12-19-2016 07:58 PM)John Michael Kane Wrote:  

I'm guessing it is because they are FOB's that they heard from the Huffington Post that white men all have yellow fever, never bothering to question it. As if all white men find all Asian women attractive, or any Asian women attractive for that matter. The average Chinese FOB that I've met is often very sheltered and provincial. China's state-controlled media means they have stunted intellectual development, which can manifest itself in some very odd social behaviors and delusions. Where duh rich white boys at?!?!?!

Think about it. Your average Southern American woman is as big as a God damned house. They come here and the first thing they notice and ask about is why are all the women here so fucking huge. It blows them away. My motherinlaw still isn't used to seeing 250-300lb women and says "Wow!" in Chinese everytime she sees one and she has been with us almost a year on and off.

They don't get their intel from Huffington Post. Weibo and other Chinese BBS hangouts are full of scheming greencard hunters, recent arrivals with or without money, women that married a non-Chinese, and all education levels too. They all just gossip with each other. If they aren't trying to do a large group buy on some food or something from Costco, they are talking about social stuff.

Those plain 5s are often times the more racist and ignorant ones. They want a white dude in his 30s or 40s that is a sucker and relatively easy to deal with. This is why I tell you guys constantly, that FOBs are not a solution or ideal. Many are just timebombs. Once they become "aware", the bonding process will be interrupted or impossible, and you will be used. All women use and depend on men, but I am talking about exploitation here.

That same 5 inside the mainland would be eating out of your hand and smitten with you. Loyal to a fault. You meet that same 5 here? She will just be another regular bitch. Anyone that has spent serious time in China and is from here, knows this without needing to be told. The differences are daylight and dark. Chinese Americans require their own strategies and very, very little carries over from the Mainland.

The reason why is because once they come here and see decent men walking around with warpigs, it re-wires them. Married ones before arriving, don't really give a shit, unless their man is an abusive piece of shit. Single ones see more opportunity to take a massive shortcut compared to back home in China. They are just adapting to the environment without taking into account culture, language, and other barriers.

Jokes on them though. White dudes aren't all that hopped up on Asians to begin with. Alot of what determines what a typical white dude marries has ALOT to do with his own family/business circles will feel about that. Many prefer someone that speaks and understands Texan culture, not just American culture. Any non-white person that has dated white women in Texas, knows exactly what I am talking about. Your pool of pullable white women is more limited in ways, than it would be in other states.

I am not saying no one can get white girls, I am saying that you cannot expect to have a legit shot at every single one you see walking around that is hot because some of those women would not date a non white dude if they were the last man on earth. German White Texans are different than the Scots-Irish and Czech ones. Telling the differences isn't easy either unless you probably grew up here and even then, it's hard. Even knowing what they might be may not make a fucking difference.

Your money, game, and social proof may not ever be enough. Same shit applies to FOBs here. It is what it is.

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Quote: (12-17-2016 02:41 AM)Suits Wrote:  

Sorry, ladies. No man anywhere in the world is impressed with your "accomplishments." He doesn't need any of that. He needs a woman that will be a good mother to his children and who will keep him sexually satisfied and won't insult and embarrass him in public. That's it.

This is best statement I have heard in a while! Once again this forum delivers!!!

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Quote: (12-20-2016 03:06 PM)Ogunn Wrote:  

Quote: (12-17-2016 02:41 AM)Suits Wrote:  

Sorry, ladies. No man anywhere in the world is impressed with your "accomplishments." He doesn't need any of that. He needs a woman that will be a good mother to his children and who will keep him sexually satisfied and won't insult and embarrass him in public. That's it.

This is best statement I have heard in a while! Once again this forum delivers!!!
It's not actually true though. A woman with some education (of the right kind, not gender studies or art history) and proven ability to apply that knowledge is less likely to make a fool of herself and generally be annoying than a rural hick.
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The "leftover women" of China

Quote: (12-20-2016 11:36 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

Quote: (12-19-2016 07:39 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

Yo Kai,

I have some questions about Chinese women in Houston man. These broads that I encountered a year ago are more delusional than wonder bread girls, mostly off match.com

They're 36-42 and 100% FOB, they want a rich man to be their provider. One wrote this "He didn't allow me to donate money to charity or church either." and another wanted a man who would "pay for my child's preschool and live in a area with good schools".

If Chinese men won't date them and they know rich folks go after young women, why would they think someone would oblique their requirements? They are rather plain looking and dress too conservatively to be making those demands. Why is their hamster in overdrive? What's going on in their minds? Someone has to be a moron to pay 8K a year for someone else's kid just to be with a lady. I told the charity lady that I was okay with donating her own money to charity, then she claim that I insulted and offended her...didn't really care.

It's only Chinese older women, not asians in general and no black/hisp/white girls.

Quote: (12-19-2016 07:58 PM)John Michael Kane Wrote:  

I'm guessing it is because they are FOB's that they heard from the Huffington Post that white men all have yellow fever, never bothering to question it. As if all white men find all Asian women attractive, or any Asian women attractive for that matter. The average Chinese FOB that I've met is often very sheltered and provincial. China's state-controlled media means they have stunted intellectual development, which can manifest itself in some very odd social behaviors and delusions. Where duh rich white boys at?!?!?!

Think about it. Your average Southern American woman is as big as a God damned house. They come here and the first thing they notice and ask about is why are all the women here so fucking huge. It blows them away. My motherinlaw still isn't used to seeing 250-300lb women and says "Wow!" in Chinese everytime she sees one and she has been with us almost a year on and off.

They don't get their intel from Huffington Post. Weibo and other Chinese BBS hangouts are full of scheming greencard hunters, recent arrivals with or without money, women that married a non-Chinese, and all education levels too. They all just gossip with each other. If they aren't trying to do a large group buy on some food or something from Costco, they are talking about social stuff.

Those plain 5s are often times the more racist and ignorant ones. They want a white dude in his 30s or 40s that is a sucker and relatively easy to deal with. This is why I tell you guys constantly, that FOBs are not a solution or ideal. Many are just timebombs. Once they become "aware", the bonding process will be interrupted or impossible, and you will be used. All women use and depend on men, but I am talking about exploitation here.

That same 5 inside the mainland would be eating out of your hand and smitten with you. Loyal to a fault. You meet that same 5 here? She will just be another regular bitch. Anyone that has spent serious time in China and is from here, knows this without needing to be told. The differences are daylight and dark. Chinese Americans require their own strategies and very, very little carries over from the Mainland.

The reason why is because once they come here and see decent men walking around with warpigs, it re-wires them. Married ones before arriving, don't really give a shit, unless their man is an abusive piece of shit. Single ones see more opportunity to take a massive shortcut compared to back home in China. They are just adapting to the environment without taking into account culture, language, and other barriers.

Jokes on them though. White dudes aren't all that hopped up on Asians to begin with. Alot of what determines what a typical white dude marries has ALOT to do with his own family/business circles will feel about that. Many prefer someone that speaks and understands Texan culture, not just American culture. Any non-white person that has dated white women in Texas, knows exactly what I am talking about. Your pool of pullable white women is more limited in ways, than it would be in other states.

I am not saying no one can get white girls, I am saying that you cannot expect to have a legit shot at every single one you see walking around that is hot because some of those women would not date a non white dude if they were the last man on earth. German White Texans are different than the Scots-Irish and Czech ones. Telling the differences isn't easy either unless you probably grew up here and even then, it's hard. Even knowing what they might be may not make a fucking difference.

Your money, game, and social proof may not ever be enough. Same shit applies to FOBs here. It is what it is.

Great points. I had a Chinese girlfriend for a while. She was brutally harsh about her comments in private about fat people. She also was super racist against black people. Her bluntness is not that uncommon from FOB Chinese. They call it like they see it, and often don't self-censor. There's no shortage of them that are outright mercenary. My ex-gf was showing some of those tendencies, which is why I broke up with her. Many Chinese FOB women really do want a man as a wage slave. An American man in a relationship with one is often playing with fire. The Chinese FOB community here stateside is very keyed in to immigration law and other aspects as to why it is a move up to marry an American man.

I've spent a fair amount of time in Texas and agree with your assessment. It is a totally different culture down there. I'd say many Texan men want to marry a woman who shares their Texan values. Many Chinese FOB's wouldn't qualify on those terms. The FOB's greatest strength (if she has one) is that she is probably skinnier at 30+ than your average white Texan girl. Maybe the exotic factor to dating an Asian woman appeals to a lot of men. After having dated Asians and non-Asians, I say pick the best of what's available. A lot of men here in the United States have been burned by divorce, so they may think "oh look, a woman from another culture that is respectful of men, she could never go bad?!". Totally naive, and lacking introspection. These are the kinds of men who get fleeced.

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Quote: (12-20-2016 03:29 PM)Lunostrelki Wrote:  

Quote: (12-20-2016 03:06 PM)Ogunn Wrote:  

Quote: (12-17-2016 02:41 AM)Suits Wrote:  

Sorry, ladies. No man anywhere in the world is impressed with your "accomplishments." He doesn't need any of that. He needs a woman that will be a good mother to his children and who will keep him sexually satisfied and won't insult and embarrass him in public. That's it.

This is best statement I have heard in a while! Once again this forum delivers!!!
It's not actually true though. A woman with some education (of the right kind, not gender studies or art history) and proven ability to apply that knowledge is less likely to make a fool of herself and generally be annoying than a rural hick.

Education or lack there of is not the sole determining factor of whether a woman or man makes a fool of themselves. In my experience human beings of all walks of life and of all educational levels are capable of saying and doing foolish things.

I find Suits statement fits my outlook about women and relationships. I am not impressed with a woman with advanced degrees or high earning potential. If anything I will avoid considering these women for LTRs. Why? Because I know the more money she makes the more money she is going to want me to spend usually with dire results. See my examples below for a good comparison.

Example1. If were to ever get married again and lets say I make 150K a year. My wife makes 50K a year. Combined that is 200K. Chances are she will want children and want to raise them in a home in a nice neighborhood with A rated schools. In my neck of the woods, that will run 400 - 500K. On 200K a year that is doable, and still living below our means. After a couple of children it will be difficult to justify her working. With her bringing in 50K minus all of the child care costs. We are probably not netting more than $500.00 a month. At that point it makes more sense for her to stay home and focus on raising the children and taking care of the home. She does at least until the children are self sufficient (early teens) before resuming work. By her staying home for several years. And having enough money coming in that money really isnt a concern. I am able to focus on business ventures and grow my income to 300k a year. At this point I make enough that she really does not have to work unless she really wants to. I make enough to get her a maid to take care of the house work. As the children get older she focuses more on hobbies and I have more time to join her. We start to travel more and spend more time with each other.

Example2. You make 150K a year, your wife makes 100K a year combined that is 250K. Chances are she will want put off children and focus on her career. Despite not wanting children right away. She will still want house in a nice neighborhood. The main difference is where the woman in the first example would be comfortable in 400 - 500k. This woman will probably want at least a 600k house. Which is still doable on 250k. Put expenses are going up now. The bigger house also means more furniture. She minored in art. Which means she will want really expensive furniture. She justifies the expense by explaining to you that an impressive home like this will win points with business contacts and potential clients, she makes sense and you agree and more money gets spent. You focus less than you should on your career/business because she hosts a lot of business parties at the house. And you have to be there to support her. In the beginning she was there supporting you when you had business parties at the house. But as time goes by she is moving up the ranks and less available for that. When she reaches the point she wants children. She is making to much and has gotten to far in her career to take off more than maternity leave. This requires expensive help in the form of Au Pairs (instead of nannys) and expensive Day Care. Even with the Au Pair she ask you to help out with the children. You focus less than you should on your business / career and your income slows and stagnates. While she is applauded for being a business women that still has time to be a mom. You are penalized by your peers for spending as much time as you do helping out with the kids. Meetings are missed, relationships suffer, opportunities become more scarce. Fast forward 15 years she now makes more than you and holds you in contempt. She engages in an illicit affair with a man that makes several times what you do. You find out and end up divorcing. Because she makes more than you. You think you will be spared divorce rape. Unfortunately for you her lover makes it so she doesnt have to work ever again. So she has no income. You lose the house. You see your kids every other weekend. You have to pay alimony and child support. Not to mention the money you spend on your children when see them. You are left making 180K and struggling.

You wonder where it all went wrong. Then you remember, you read about a situation like this on a forum that you scoffed at 20 years ago.

You said to yourself "This will never happen to me!"

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I dunno. Nobody wants a Type A, Alpha career, single female lawyer type. Because they're insufferable. But at the same time I couldn't physically spend hours of my time in the company of a woman who doesn't have a decent understanding of and interest in world politics, history, travel, art etc. Just for the sake of my own sanity; I don't like spending my time with uneducated people of either sex. Its too boring and frustrating. I find a lot of S-E Asian women quite hard to spend time with in this respect, they're just too basic to have a meaningful conversation with.

I wouldn't date a woman who was a completely career driven woman who's a high flying lawyer, or politician etc. But at the same time I wouldn't date a woman who doesn't at least have a decent university education. As with most things the answer to "how much education/accomplishment is good" is I think in the healthy middleground.

Plus when it comes to having kids you definitely want the mother to have a high IQ. Having stupid kids would be beyond exasperating.
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Of all the Asians I have slept with, the Chinese high education female is the one who has the most sleepless nights. Once they get banged to sleep they will never want to be alone ever again.

Insomnia is directly related to education level in Chinese women.

Give me an average IQ girl to curl up with and listen to her soft snores and whispers about DisneySea over a PhD Chinese girl who stares at the ceiling all night in anxiety.
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