[Killarmy]

Hey guys !

Some will maybe disagree but I think there is great potential about adding random girls (obviously, 7's/8's and plus) in Facebook. Especially since my name/style seem so different from the country where I am living (Colombia) and can thus attract attention.

What I do is basically find a random profile in the age range / education level that interests me. Then, check all the friends list and try to add the most interesting ones. (At least half the girls hide their friend list though, but still a lot are not clever enough to do it).

I have started to do it but as I am using my personal account, I of course don't want to have problems with Facebook and be seen as ''adding people randomly and abusively''. Anyone has an idea of what is an acceptable daily adding number tries ? Is this anywhere in the terms and conditions ? 10 a day ? 50 a day?

Thanks dudes ! Once again, really don't want Facebook to automatically consider my moves as illegal or something.

Editing my own messages: I have been reading some sources saying that '' 3 sessions a day of 20 people tries was fine. What is your guys experience ?

[SlickyBoy]

Never heard of this, but I'm curious where you think this strategy will lead. What's your end game, if you never actually meet these people? Or is it just for social proof?

[XXL]

OK and how you break the ice with random chick after she accepts your friend request cold approach?

[CameraXL]

It can go like this: My female Coworker, a solid 8,5, gets bombarded with friendrequests and messages on facebook. She accepts most and answers to and texts with those guys.

Now she had a date with one of them, but he failed big. She said she found him "handsome", but guess what: he send her a message before the date, asking her "why a twelve like her" would actually date "a six like him". You could see her nausea, when she told me about it.

[Vincent Chase]

(12-03-2016 01:13 PM)CameraXL Wrote:  

Now she had a date with one of them, but he failed big. She said she found him "handsome", but guess what: he send her a message before the date, asking her "why a twelve like her" would actually date "a six like him". You could see her nausea, when she told me about it.

You do have to wonder how some men ever manage to have sex.

[XPQ22]

Maybe this would work in Columbia, but I can't imagine it being very successful in the states. Cold-opening chicks you've never met on Facebook simply dumps you into the bin with every other chode on her 1000-person friends list who are running the same fashion of low-risk, low-reward iGame (and there are a lot of them.)

I think having a bunch of girls on your "friends" list is nearly worthless as social proof as well, yeah, you've got a bunch of hot chicks on your friends list, so does every other guy in the world. Girls will accept a friend request at the drop of a hat, one more potential validator to add to the pool. IMO I think it makes you look thirsty and could actually work against you.

I try to never let my friends list exceed 50, it's spread pretty evenly between men and women, and nearly everyone on it I've met in real life at least once. I don't add girls I've tried to game and failed (unless they shoot me a request first), girls I've seen around and might be interested in but never interacted with, or girls I'm currently banging. If a girl talks to me in real life and then hunts me down on FB and proactively sends me a request, that's fine. It doesn't happen terribly often, but from time to time.

There are only a couple girls on there that I've never met who are worth keeping around, one of them is a D-list celebrity who used to date a WWE wrestler of some importance, she's one of the few chicks who knows how to reciprocate when I give her props on the stuff she posts and she'll "like" or make a positive comment on one of mine. That's kinda rare - most FB girls are simply dead weight. YMMV.

[Cattle Rustler]

Damn CameraXL, that is some awful game.

To OP: Facebook does not limit the number of girls per day. It will start adding barriers if you get rejected or send invitations too many times in a certain time period. At first it will ask you "Do you really know this person?", you obviously click yes and then after getting a couple more rejections it will randomly state "Only add people you know" and cancel your request. Take the L and add other girls. If you get a shit ton of rejections or the ratio falls below a certain percentage it will state "Do you really know this person? You might not be able to send requests" or something like that, I forgot how the message goes. After getting rejected a couple more times first you will be taken to a FB page that tells you not to add strangers and that you agree to the terms, then your adding privileges get suspended for one day, then three days, then a week, and finally a month. It will not be in that order.

A good way to avoid this is to add girls, then add her friends, your chances of getting accepted will be greater than randomly adding strangers all the time. Beware, these bitches will talk amongst themselves and ask one another "Hey, your friend OPisAfaggot sent me a request. How is he?" and the other girl might reply "Dunno, i never met him. he messaged me that he I seem fun and wanted to get drinks".........so don't copy and paste messages because these bitches will know.

Edit: Op, you're not a faggot. I just like the phrase

[Cattle Rustler]

XPQ, girls don't add random guys on FB like it's water. You actually need some validation (pics, cover pic, common friends). Hot chick are even more selective of who they let in.

I get the whole online game bashing is cool nowadays, especially social networks, but if you haven't tried it...then you really can't say much about it. If you want to be AMOG alpha, by having a short list....that's cool bro.

[Killarmy]

(12-03-2016 12:07 PM)SlickyBoy Wrote:  

Never heard of this, but I'm curious where you think this strategy will lead. What's your end game, if you never actually meet these people? Or is it just for social proof?

Very basic idea: adding the girls, sending them a message at the same time, basically about me ''being new in the city, sorry for trying to add you even though I don't know you but just trying to make new friends'' bla bla bla. Can obviously adapt the text depending to what kind of profile I am talking to. I really believe that as a foreigner in another country, this tactic can lead to interesting results.

BUT I have big doubts about Facebook liking this. I am thinking I shouldn't be trying more than 5/10 times a day to avoid problems.


@ XPQ22 ; you are right. Probably wouldn't work very well in the States or in Europe. But can be working in a country where you are an ''exotic'' individual.

As for Facebook friends.. well, I have around 1000 and I can say I have met all of them. The aim, when adding random hot girls, is not to prove something or anything like that. It's to start speaking with them AND meet them ASAP. If not possible, I would just drop them out of my list. Simple as that.

@ Cattle Rustler ; exactly the kind of answers I hoped ! Thanks about it dude ! I will indeed be carefully and well, for 7's and plus, it's worth actually writing a different message for each of them, to maximize ratio.

A question though: Would there be a limit in .. the number of message you send ?
Maybe another tactic would be to FIRST, contact the girls by message. THEN, if looking ok, adding them? Maybe that's a much better and less risky way to do ?

[LeoneVolpe]

(12-03-2016 03:23 PM)Killarmy Wrote:  

(12-03-2016 12:07 PM)SlickyBoy Wrote:  

Never heard of this, but I'm curious where you think this strategy will lead. What's your end game, if you never actually meet these people? Or is it just for social proof?

Very basic idea: adding the girls, sending them a message at the same time, basically about me ''being new in the city, sorry for trying to add you even though I don't know you but just trying to make new friends'' bla bla bla. Can obviously adapt the text depending to what kind of profile I am talking to. I really believe that as a foreigner in another country, this tactic can lead to interesting results.

BUT I have big doubts about Facebook liking this. I am thinking I shouldn't be trying more than 5/10 times a day to avoid problems.

I suppose it doesn't hurt to try such a strategy, but why not just go out in public and try doing some real-life approaches?

As for how best to approach first contact on Facebook -- I'd wait until the girl posts a status or uploads a photo you can reply with a clever/witty comment to. I think that's better than coming straight out of the gate with a message. Build a little intrigue first.

Girls have a herd mentality and will often conflate popularity with quality. In truth, just because something is popular doesn't make it good, and just because something's good doesn't make it popular. That statement might come as something of a shock to many girls. To them, the fact the Kardashians have a #1 rated reality show on E! would be used as "proof" of how "great" they are. As such, there certainly are girls out there petty enough to look down on an otherwise great guy just because he lacks whatever arbitrary number of Facebook "friends" or Instagram followers they deem necessary to seem cool.

The main benefit I can see from adding randoms on social media would be to create activity on your account, which will help build your social proof with girls you're interacting with in real life who won't know how close you are to the random girls "liking" and/or commenting on your posts.

[Cattle Rustler]

(12-03-2016 03:23 PM)Killarmy Wrote:  

(12-03-2016 12:07 PM)SlickyBoy Wrote:  

Never heard of this, but I'm curious where you think this strategy will lead. What's your end game, if you never actually meet these people? Or is it just for social proof?

Very basic idea: adding the girls, sending them a message at the same time, basically about me ''being new in the city, sorry for trying to add you even though I don't know you but just trying to make new friends'' bla bla bla. Can obviously adapt the text depending to what kind of profile I am talking to. I really believe that as a foreigner in another country, this tactic can lead to interesting results.

BUT I have big doubts about Facebook liking this. I am thinking I shouldn't be trying more than 5/10 times a day to avoid problems.


@ XPQ22 ; you are right. Probably wouldn't work very well in the States or in Europe. But can be working in a country where you are an ''exotic'' individual.

As for Facebook friends.. well, I have around 1000 and I can say I have met all of them. The aim, when adding random hot girls, is not to prove something or anything like that. It's to start speaking with them AND meet them ASAP. If not possible, I would just drop them out of my list. Simple as that.

@ Cattle Rustler ; exactly the kind of answers I hoped ! Thanks about it dude ! I will indeed be carefully and well, for 7's and plus, it's worth actually writing a different message for each of them, to maximize ratio.

A question though: Would there be a limit in .. the number of message you send ?
Maybe another tactic would be to FIRST, contact the girls by message. THEN, if looking ok, adding them? Maybe that's a much better and less risky way to do ?

No prob man, you're welcome. Send different messages for girls in the US, the ones abroad are not like that and you can copy and paste if you like. I've done this for Kazakh and Colombian girls, some Chilenean. The more "new" FB is to the country, the warmer the girls will be. Join FB groups that involve that particular country to get social proof and a list of potential pussy to add.

No, once you are their friend you can send them as many messages as you want. I've done 20 intros in a minute. I do not recommend messaging girls, if you do this your message gets sent to a different folder. FB will not notify the girl of the message and the only way to access the folder is to manually find it, and finding it in the first place is a clusterfuck. So considering how lazy girls are, I can assure you that your message will not be read.

Also, some girls you will not be able to add them because of their privacy settings. The way around that is adding her friends, so now you're "a friend of a friend" and FB will allow you to add her. If she doesn't have a friends list, check her pics for likes or comments and add those girls.

Since you're not adding american girls, it's almost easy to impress these hoes. Colombian hoes like to take pics traveling or make it seem like they are, so when they post a pic ask "Ah nice, where would you like to travel next?"....and you can drop your "high value" by telling her of places you've been or you've been to a place she wants to go drop some advice like "oh, you can eat at X and should see Y museum". If they're the club or designer whores drop some, "Ah, so you like [designer label]?"....once again demonstrating you're high value because you're a man that knows high fashion as opposed to some nigga that dresses in a Adidas tracksuit. Some of these bitches are dumb to the point Victoria's Secret is luxurious to them, but name dropping couture has a better impression".