Something I started doing a few years ago was asking ONS's the following question:
"At what point tonight did you think that was going to happen?"
This question improved my closing game infinitely, as you get an insight to what is going on in her mind. There are 3 different ways they answer.
1. Many times the answer will be - "When you walked up to me" or "When you started talking to me." A lot of these you'll think was a #3, when you could have actually closed much earlier.
2. The medium ground. That's the obvious point where you both kind of know it's going to happen.
3. The last minute decision. These are the ones where the girl wasn't expecting to, but you pull the right strings and she ends up sleeping with you. If you have decent game, you'll see quite of a few of these. Most likely you'll have thought it was a #2, but she wasn't sold yet.
4. The surprise statement- Sometimes the answer will be when I crossed the line. For example- I was making out with this girl next to the Panama Canal. She asked if I had a car in the city and I said if I did, I'd probably be trying to fuck you in the backseat of it. That was her trigger.
Another time was when my friend was planning a beach party and said it would be difficult to bring everything down as it was a 30 minute walk to the beach. I replied, "or we could bring everything at once in a boat." This girl was an entrepreneur and somehow this turned her on.
#1 and #4 are the most helpful for improving your game. The first provides insight as to how clueless we are sometimes. Girls want it just like us, and a lot of time it's there for the taking, no need to stretch out the pull with a bunch of BS for hours and have to fend off other guys.
The 4th helped me the most when I kept hearing the answer - When you said ***insert sexual statement***. You can start using these statements in more interactions when they are getting close to reaching that point.
The 3rd can be good for future tips to help overcome LMR, when it's some simple thing back at your apartment.
-Bonus Question:
You can also ask if they've ever had a threesome. If they say no, ask if they'd rather do it with two girls or two guys. Then follow that up with a nonchalant "we should try to get one sometime." You can make it game, "who do you think would be better at picking up a 2nd girl."
A lot of time a girl has a threesome fantasy and has never had the opportunity. This has worked for me a few times now.
Worst case scenario they get mad when you say we should try, and you can laugh it off and say something like "just throwing it out there, couldn't hurt to ask."
"At what point tonight did you think that was going to happen?"
This question improved my closing game infinitely, as you get an insight to what is going on in her mind. There are 3 different ways they answer.
1. Many times the answer will be - "When you walked up to me" or "When you started talking to me." A lot of these you'll think was a #3, when you could have actually closed much earlier.
2. The medium ground. That's the obvious point where you both kind of know it's going to happen.
3. The last minute decision. These are the ones where the girl wasn't expecting to, but you pull the right strings and she ends up sleeping with you. If you have decent game, you'll see quite of a few of these. Most likely you'll have thought it was a #2, but she wasn't sold yet.
4. The surprise statement- Sometimes the answer will be when I crossed the line. For example- I was making out with this girl next to the Panama Canal. She asked if I had a car in the city and I said if I did, I'd probably be trying to fuck you in the backseat of it. That was her trigger.
Another time was when my friend was planning a beach party and said it would be difficult to bring everything down as it was a 30 minute walk to the beach. I replied, "or we could bring everything at once in a boat." This girl was an entrepreneur and somehow this turned her on.
#1 and #4 are the most helpful for improving your game. The first provides insight as to how clueless we are sometimes. Girls want it just like us, and a lot of time it's there for the taking, no need to stretch out the pull with a bunch of BS for hours and have to fend off other guys.
The 4th helped me the most when I kept hearing the answer - When you said ***insert sexual statement***. You can start using these statements in more interactions when they are getting close to reaching that point.
The 3rd can be good for future tips to help overcome LMR, when it's some simple thing back at your apartment.
-Bonus Question:
You can also ask if they've ever had a threesome. If they say no, ask if they'd rather do it with two girls or two guys. Then follow that up with a nonchalant "we should try to get one sometime." You can make it game, "who do you think would be better at picking up a 2nd girl."
A lot of time a girl has a threesome fantasy and has never had the opportunity. This has worked for me a few times now.
Worst case scenario they get mad when you say we should try, and you can laugh it off and say something like "just throwing it out there, couldn't hurt to ask."