[jariel]

Yahoo's latest advice...

Quote:

Step 1: Look before you leap
Step 2: Test the waters
Step 3: Make your move
Step 4: Steam things up
Step 5: Announce your new status

http://yahoo.match.com/y/article.aspx?ar...rID=831000

[Baldwin81]

Ha, the author:

"Kimberly Dawn Neumann, based in New York, has written for Cosmopolitan, Redbook, Health and many other publications."

[Kickb]

I think all you can do to move you past friend zone is swing for the fences. I did it twice last week. Both failed but who cares they can both die! Haha

[Excelsior]

I don't think there really is any moving past the friend zone once a girl has put you there. I'm sure it has happened, but the chances appear infinitesimal. If you find yourself there, it is best to just move on and find other girls (an action which, ironically, might improve your chances with the original girl slightly).

[stein]

I can't befriend girls. I don't really view them from that perspective anymore.

[FretDancer]

Seriously are we going to get more "Yahoo's" ?

[Giovonny]

If you ever find yourself in the friends zone, there is only one thing to do. Use that friends zone status to get her drunk and alone! Once you are drunk and alone just playfully go for it. Thats the best shot you're going to have.

The friends zone is only one bottle of wine away from the friends with benefits zone.

Create opportunities to drunk together.

If your gonna be an "emotional tampon" you should at least try to get some P#ssy out of it.

[Sonsowey]

There IS a great way to move past the friend zone. Bang someone she knows.

Twice this has happened to me, well before I was into ''game''. I just was looking to get my dick wet, and went with the path of least resitance.

I was always friendly with the friend of my ex, so when I broke up with my ex, I wanted to bang her friend, but I too deep in the friend zone. I didn't try too hard with her, and went to fuck this other girl I had a ''thing'' with. Since we were friendly, she asked me about it, and I played coy like nothing had happened between us. But the girl knew, got jealous, and hopped on my dick.

Another time I got out of a very long term relationship, and wanted to fuck this girl I'd been friends with for years. When I told the friend that I was now single, I immediately started talking about ''yeah, I don't know if I should go fuck this other girl, I know she's always liked me, but I don't know if it's too soon..." I fucked the girl I talked about the next week, and then my friend was suddenly dtf. She actually told me that she knew she wanted to be with me ONLY AFTER I fucked the other girl. It made her feel jealous, and she didn't realize she had those types of feelings for me until I nonchalantly told her about fucking this other girl.

Jealousy -> attraction

[Giovonny]

(08-12-2011 03:11 PM)Sonsowey Wrote:  

She actually told me that she knew she wanted to be with me ONLY AFTER I fucked the other girl.

Jealousy -> attraction

Ha. Thats so Gamey!

[MiXX]

(08-12-2011 03:55 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(08-12-2011 03:11 PM)Sonsowey Wrote:  

She actually told me that she knew she wanted to be with me ONLY AFTER I fucked the other girl.

Jealousy -> attraction

Ha. Thats so Gamey!

Very true. I never understood how women are more attracted to a man once they realize he fucks other girls.

Men do not have the same reaction of being more attracted because she fucked the random guy at the end of the bar.

We will be more attracted if we find out she tongue-kissed (and fucked even more) the girl at the end of the bar however.


Mixx

[Timoteo]

I think alcohol, and a weak moment is the only way to crack the friend zone. You get her when she's drunk and weepy, and offer "comfort," with your dick as a pacifier. I've also found that if you show attraction for another girl she knows, jealousy kicks in. Even though she's got giving you any, she could be keeping you as a back-up of sorts and won't want to see another chick fuck you. It forces her to either give you some or live with the knowledge you're smashing a friend or acquaintence. Women are petty and competitive, and sometimes it isn't so much that they want YOU so badly, but want to be able to feel they took you from someone else. Either way, one of them is seeing your "O" face.

[Wizard]

(08-12-2011 01:37 PM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:  

I don't think there really is any moving past the friend zone once a girl has put you there. I'm sure it has happened, but the chances appear infinitesimal. If you find yourself there, it is best to just move on and find other girls (an action which, ironically, might improve your chances with the original girl slightly).

Anytime I end up in the friend zone with a girl I wanted to lay, I always either do two things.

1#
If she is a high quality girl with a wide social network, then I usually can use her to expand my own network, and have her introduce me to her friends.

2#
If the above doesn't apply, then I prefer to go with a nuclear option. I use some aggressive game that will either smash my way out of the friend zone, or create a parting of ways.

The success rate with that for me has been about 30/70, but that's better than nothing.

[Deluge]

The only way to do it is to stop talking to them. Improve your looks/game/status and dive back in a while later.

[boxwino]

Never put yourself in the friend zone. You could go indirect or you can be open an honest and tell them hey you're way to cute to be just my friend, I can;t be your friend Im just not that guy, it's not in my nature, I have every intention of taking this further, whatever.

Or always lightly game her, keep some sexual into it always.

If you are in teh freind zone Id go both, also get her drunk go for make out, if that fails dive bomb for sex, if that doesn't work keep trying again and again two steps forward one step back until she either fucks you or tells you to fuck off.

[RandalGraves]

Another strategy, although not always possible: cut off contact with her for a while. If she knows you really well, it has to be a long time. Then, "re-introduce" yourself into her life, and use that momentum to steer past the FZ.