[rapaz12]

I've been talking to a woman lately and the other day she asked me if she could call me a certain nickname. I didn't like it because the nickname clearly had to do with my race, so I told her not to call me that.

Also, in the past, there was another woman. She liked to purposely spell my name a different way when she sent me messages.That kind of bugged me too.

In normal cases, should you allow it? Or is it just really not that deep? Because I view it as a way for the woman to subtly demean me.

[Stimulus]

As long as it isn't something negative, I would not make a fuss about it.

I have this 18 year old girl calling me Mr. Touch when we're alone because she loves the way I touch her, obviously I don't mind.

[Scaro066]

When a girls gives you a nickname I view it as positive because it shows somewhat of an investment from her, so I usually play along (build comfort?). You can always tease her back and give her a nickname too.

[Comte De St. Germain]

Who cares? If you're personally not annoyed by it then it doesn't. It's none of my business how she should refer to me unless it's disrespectful.

[debeguiled]

It is entirely up to you. Make sure she knows this. Even positive pet names delivered with ironic tones are secret insults. Don't be a good sport.

[kaotic]

She should be calling you daddy or papi as a nickname.

[Rhyme or Reason]

Fuck no.

[Meat Head]

Do women even give each other nicknames? I have never heard of Susan 'Slippy V' Mcgregor or Pam 'the Pizza face' Jones.

[John Michael Kane]

I like the ones that denote leadership or ownership that put her in a happy, submissive place.

A few favorites :

Papa, daddy, sir, master, mister and then often followed by my first name. When I'm in a relationship with a woman, I embrace a happy sense of paternalistic love. Women that love men, love when you lead them. Don't deprive a good woman of that.

Nicknames are a powerful way of reinforcing the standard you set for the relationship.

[XXL]

If you like it then why not, if it's something stupid then no way. "daddy" is fine

[XPQ22]

(11-22-2016 02:26 PM)John Michael Kane Wrote:  

Papa, daddy, sir, master, mister and then often followed by my first name. When I'm in a relationship with a woman, I embrace a happy sense of paternalistic love. Women that love men, love when you lead them. Don't deprive a good woman of that.

"Sir" and "Daddy" are certainly two of my favorites.

[John Michael Kane]

(11-22-2016 03:58 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

(11-22-2016 02:26 PM)John Michael Kane Wrote:  

Papa, daddy, sir, master, mister and then often followed by my first name. When I'm in a relationship with a woman, I embrace a happy sense of paternalistic love. Women that love men, love when you lead them. Don't deprive a good woman of that.

"Sir" and "Daddy" are certainly two of my favorites.

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[RatInTheWoods]

I usually get the nickname "Tripod"

[Stimulus]

(11-22-2016 04:40 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

I usually get the nickname "Tripod"

Because of your tiny legs?

I'm sorry dude, couldn't resist

[LeoneVolpe]

As long as it's not something emasculating, I don't see why not. Anything that denotes a position of power over her is good (e.g. "daddy," "master," or "sir").

On a related note, I advocate giving girls pet names, too. Certainly helps prevent calling one girl by another's name. Also, depending on your choice of pet name, it can also help establish a good frame.

[Rhyme or Reason]

(11-22-2016 03:58 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

(11-22-2016 02:26 PM)John Michael Kane Wrote:  

Papa, daddy, sir, master, mister and then often followed by my first name. When I'm in a relationship with a woman, I embrace a happy sense of paternalistic love. Women that love men, love when you lead them. Don't deprive a good woman of that.

"Sir" and "Daddy" are certainly two of my favorites.

Those aren't nick names. Nick names by definition assume a certain level of comfort with you, that she shouldn't have until later.

[Rawmeo]

I don't mind - She can call me whatever she wants to as long as it's respectful.

[MrXY]

My main girl calls me "Boss" sometimes.

I don't complain.

[ivansirko]

allow?

If she is into you she will give you a pet name. Its more worrisome if she give you one way way way early in a 'relationship'.