1 years old: how to start from the beginning?
10-11-2016, 02:52 PM
Briefly, I’m a 21-year-old university student and I see hot girls everywhere on campus and occasionally in my mostly male program. How do I initiate conversation with them as I pass by them with the goal of progressing to a bang/relationship if I like them beyond their looks? How do I generally progress from that initial conversation? This isn't something that comes naturally me. The furthest I have been with a girl is making out, I have never fucked or been in a relationship with a girl and I feel like there is a whole world I’m missing out on. I want to make the best time I have on campus as I don't live on site and I have a busy program so I don't have as much time as I want to devote to chasing poon.
For a bit about myself: socially I’m a late bloomer. I was an edgy socially reclusive shit all throughout high-school and as such I have only really learned to make friends and etc over the last two years or so. I’m still kinda inexperienced in that department in that I don’t really know how to say approach a stranger at a party and get that instant rapport other people get, romantic or otherwise.
The big issue for why I came here is that my instincts don’t yield results with girls I’m interested in. I flat out do not know how to escalate. I can recognise the signs mostly (I have received signs from girls who I am not interested in) and from there I imagine bumble along to a bang but otherwise don’t really have much going on in that department.
Any ideas or links to resources related to this would be appreciated.
For a bit about myself: socially I’m a late bloomer. I was an edgy socially reclusive shit all throughout high-school and as such I have only really learned to make friends and etc over the last two years or so. I’m still kinda inexperienced in that department in that I don’t really know how to say approach a stranger at a party and get that instant rapport other people get, romantic or otherwise.
The big issue for why I came here is that my instincts don’t yield results with girls I’m interested in. I flat out do not know how to escalate. I can recognise the signs mostly (I have received signs from girls who I am not interested in) and from there I imagine bumble along to a bang but otherwise don’t really have much going on in that department.
Any ideas or links to resources related to this would be appreciated.