Quote: (09-25-2016 10:58 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:
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He talked about a "magical first kiss" - I think the answer is obvious.
Yeah. In my final estimation the problem is likely straightforward. It's not necessarily his looks, the nature of Tinder, personality, game (or lack thereof.) But it's one that all newbies to game struggle with: he just doesn't know how to escalate.
I think you've got it. He's hovering, not thinking about what she'll look like when she's having a cataclysmic orgasm. You've got to believe she's a masturbator that needs to be ravished. If she can't honestly look at herself and admit to herself she's horny and needs sexual attention, she's cold-blooded and will never be any use.
Women aren't THAT picky if the guy is young, rich, and good-looking like him, they prove that by waiting for men to make the first move, then they settle.
If she knows you have a job, you're three times as good looking.;-)
After you make her come, you're five times as funny and interesting.
He's probably missing a little of the wiring for decoding social cues?
IF so, he can just assume a strong personality role with a "take it or leave it" attitude combined with good manners except when she's horny. I'm a bit aspie and that's how I handle it.
I've been called "weird" ever since high school. I shove my polymath model 130+ and grad degree in their faces now.
(Go on some lengthy complex rant, completely beyond her, about history of philosophy and how it all leads to why we should live in country Z.)
Then deadpan:
"I'm a big genius. Do you want smart kids?"
I can tell when I'm acting really crazy, they start to look stunned.
I REPEAT it all again. "I am a big genius. I'm not kidding. You can find lots of normal guys if that's what you want. They talk about sports and their job." --Not in a hurt way, just a matter of fact piece of advice , completely understanding she might prefer the cheaper model.
Then I do some other weird, eccentric shit, play atonal triads on my guitar while singing about missing my dog. I'm having fun.
I'm not really a genius, but I might as well be, I act like such an entitled jerk. However , that is strongly seasoned with active beta behavior, obvious enough so it's clear I KNOW I'm acting like a beta. "What are you bringing to school for lunch?" when she's getting ready for college classes in the morning. (I'm 60).
After eating and breathing, sex is the most natural thing in the world.
The most natural thing in the world.