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Early on in my game career I pulled this friend-of-a-female-friend while out the same night we first met. Our mutual friends each had some reason to bounce unexpectedly, so 6-friend and I had another drink since I'd recently arrived.

Seizing on the opportunity and new-found knowledge, I "venue bounced" us to a chill spot a ten minute stroll away, right by the subway she'd have to take. [It was also a block from my apartment.]

Vibed well at the bar, joked with other patrons, but probably didn't sexualize enough in my inexperience. The bar soon closed --

I simply walked out, strolling past the subway entrance, around the corner to my apartment building, and she followed. It's working!

Once at the door she said, "Heyyy!!! I see what you're up to -- why are we in front of your building?" with a grin yet some genuine surprise. I give the "yeah, and?" shrug-smirk and she followed me in.

Making out on my bed, her top's off, I'm starting to unwrap a condom, and out comes the textbook LMR --

"We really shouldn't do this..." [she acted like she was serious]

A combo [or not?] of game and instinct kicked in, so I drop the condom on the bed, hop up, give her another shrug and tell her:

"Eh, you're probably right."

with a completely unaffected air as though conceding some argument about whether or not an umbrella's necessary before heading outside.

Her expression did a 180º into a sad puppy face, then her "I'ma get mine!" face as she pulled me back towards her, unwrapped the condom, slid it on me, and spread her legs.

Her two "shit tests" of the night, "why are we in front of your apartment building?" and "we really shouldn't do this" just needed the Slightest Bit of acknowledgement/dismissal, nothing more, nothing less, and it was in like vajinn.

I later saw our mutual, gossip-loving friend, saying "I heard you two hooked up!~~". I said, "yeah", with a happy sigh. She said "well, [girl] hadn't gotten laid in 6 months." Bubble burst.

But Turnin' it Down done Turned it Back Up!

[Sewage2016]

As much as I like exploring new pussy, the older I get. . . The more I can't be bothered by high risk pussy. If she's psycho, she gotta go.

I turned down a damn fine italian Cuban mix chic because she was on coke way too much. That and she freaking cursed every other word. It just got to me after a few minutes of listening to her rant.

If I have any gut feel that's of theses days I just pass.

[BrewDog]

(09-15-2016 09:55 PM)Sewage2016 Wrote:  

I turned down a damn fine italian Cuban mix chic because she was on coke way too much.

Well, I'm with you here. If that bitch is bogarting all the coke then she needs to GTFO.

[AboveAverageJoe]

Every single time it is more trouble than it is worth.

[GreenHills]

I went out with some chick a few months ago. I had a lot to drink on the first date and she seemed ok. She had big boobs and I love big boobs, but she was a fat chick dressed in clothes that hide it. I went out on a second date, but it was very boring. I still went into her place and got her naked, but walked out without banging, because I didn't like what I saw. A few days later she asks me "what's uuuup", I tell her that she's nice, but we didn't have much to talk about and there's no point in seeing each other again. She got so evil - I think she thought I used her for sexual fun. In retrospect, I can't fathom how a fat chick like her would think that I'd go into anything serious with her - I'm not fat at all. I saw her with some Indian dude some time after that. Meh. I think the attractiveness level was well matched in this case.

A few years ago I went out on a few dates with some Russian girl. I spotted emotional problems. On our third date I said some things that got her upset apparently, probably because I probed into her psyche a bit too much. Not with an evil intention, but sometimes you stir things. I then leave and she texts me to basically come and spend the night with her. I told her that I'm on my way home and told her to have a good night. This one didn't retaliate.

But in general I rarely pass on pussy. I have a curious nature.

[Eddie Winslow]

This happens all the time especially as I get older and less thirsty - but this was a fun recent story.

A few weeks ago I met an early 20s girl while getting off a booze cruise in Manhattan. While my group was trying to collect the rest of our friends, she stood next to me, I opened, and we were making out in less than 60 seconds. She was sloppy drunk and kept repeating over and over "I WANT TO FUCK YOU. LET'S GO TO MY APARTMENT AND FUCK." Her friends had already left, and she was grabbing my hand and trying to walk me to the cab.

I started saying over the top filthy shit to her cause I thought it was funny, and also because could I tell it was getting her all riled up. I told her I was going to eat her asshole and "stuff her like a stromboli" , and she was loving it. Hearing a girl verbally beg for your dick in public is a nice ego stroke, and she was responding so positively to the most retarded stuff I could come up with, so it was very entertaining. Then I started weighing out the negatives:

-She was overweight, sweaty, and not cute. She was passing my boner test with a D- at the moment, but I'd be more sober and she'd be more naked in 30 minutes.
-She was sloppy drunk and had a crazy look in her eye. I could see her potentially "misremembering" how events went down.
-She lived on the opposite side of the city, minimum $25 cab, and I'd be stranded far away from home.
-My friends were not approving, and looking me like this:


I couldn't go through with it. Now I felt bad for the girl. On top of being drunk and alone in NYC, I was about to turn her down for a drunken regrettable 3am ONS, which is the only thing a half-decent man could possibly want from her. I needed to escape before my friends left me.

I found some scrawny Asian guy wandering around alone, who was probably on the same cruise as us. He looked like he was loved up on Molly or something. I went up to him with the girl and said "You're a good guy right? Can you please make sure this girl gets in a cab? I just can't deal with this right now." I saw the tears well up in her eyes, but I walked away before either of them could say anything.

As my friends and I drove off, I saw that the guy had his arm trying to console her while she had a sloppy drunken white-girl breakdown on the sidewalk.

I threw him a perfect oop on a 6-foot rim - I hope he slammed it home.

[Pride male]

I regret all the pussy I turned down. I had ridiculous Elliot Rodger standards and could have had a higher notch count. No more of that though...I will fuck almost any chick that crosses my path.

[nek]

(09-16-2016 02:41 PM)Pride male Wrote:  

I regret all the pussy I turned down. I had ridiculous Elliot Rodger standards and could have had a higher notch count. No more of that though...I will fuck almost any chick that crosses my path.

You're definitely one of those 5% of the earth's population that shares DNA with Genghis Khan.

[kosko]

(09-13-2016 10:05 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  

The majority of women never experience any sort of romantic rejection in their entire lives. Think about that.

They do..in a way..

When the dude ain't put no ring on that finger and nexts her. That is her rejection.

[Sewage2016]

This thread got me thinking about other women I've turned down. Shit there have been quite a few.

One woman at work, married, israeli, solid 8 with an athletic body, small tits but great ass. She heard I got divorced and started to friend me up. "Let's grab lunch and talk about the project!" Then she would drop subtle sexualized talk like when other guys had hit on her to have affairs. Once on a corporate trip, she asked me to come get her at her hotel room and wanted to hang out for the day and skip the meeting. I declined. I just couldn't bring myself to do that to her husband who is a freaking cool guy and great Dad. Maybe I'm too soft or drinking the Kool-Aid bro code.

Anyway, fast forward a year and I get cold shoulder from her big time. Not that I care much. She recently hit 40 and is starting to age like a prune in the sun. I hear things aren't going so well for her family wise. Maybe she hit it with some other bloke and word got back to him.

There's a reason my dog don't shit where she eats or sleeps. Because she's smarter than that.

[kinjutsu]

(09-15-2016 09:55 PM)Sewage2016 Wrote:  

As much as I like exploring new pussy, the older I get. . . The more I can't be bothered by high risk pussy. If she's psycho, she gotta go.

Preach brother.
I'm in a ltr and i've gone after girls (she's like don't ask, don't tell. As long as you wrap it)
Lately the only pussy i will even entertain is the high risk kind. My gf gives me what i need right now so IF i step out it's for some unique pussy. Although usually "unique pussy" translates into high risk, crazy, a gangsters main piece etc...

[Putin Closes]

Multiple SIFs plus a few hotties on drugs (big turn off). These are Asian SIFS so probably could be considered OK in the US.

[azulsombra]

I don't believe its been mentioned but I've turned down sex with attractive girls many times because they seem too drunk or possibly on drugs.
As I get older I am also more hesitant to mess with girls that are slightly off or seem to hate men or have a victim complex. I dont care how hot they are, all the stories about girls that experience sexual regret/shame and cry rape later have made me hyper aware. Freedom>Pussy

[Roardog]

I've turned down sex plenty of times from girls who are too drunk but also if I'm too tired or I don't feel they'll add anything to my life other than being a warm hole to stick my dick in.

[AneroidOcean]

(09-13-2016 08:43 PM)sleeper Wrote:  

Is it just me or do women not handle rejection very well?

If they offer up the pussy on a silver platter and you don't bite, it really fucks with them.

I remember one time in highschool I refused sex with this one girl at a party because I was trying to get with her friend (I was a blue-pill simp at the time and didn't understand game). The following week I find out she told all her girlfriends that I'm queer, which pretty much wrecks my chances with the other chick.

Goddammit. I should've hate-fucked her.

Search before you post. This should've been posted in the thread that already existed.

Since posting my story summary (which is that I had a false sexual assault allegation to her friend, you can read the full one at the link) in that thread I've recently turned down a cute enough tiny lesbian with short hair who was all over me. Not worth cheating on the LTR and not worth the STD risk, but well worth talking to her in order to have my buddy and I get a free ride home from her friend. They lived far away, should've seen how far her jaw dropped to the floor when we hopped out on the corner saying "don't worry this is close enough, have a good night, thanks for the ride" and pimp-walked to our spot (which is far away from where they lived). In my head I was like this:

[General Stalin]

Lately I've been turning down pussy for better/new pussy or simply because I'm fucking worn out from banging girls.

[gameking7]

Not so many times that I've turned it down, but as I become more red pill I think of all the times I didn't turn it up.

God I remember having a girl take me to her place in college. Her roommate was gone for the weekend. I got her naked and started fingering her then........ we fell asleep together. I didn't have balls to ask for a bj or go for sex. SMH. WTF was I thinking. Never again

[SHDAD75]

I turned down the "barracks hoes" when I was in the Navy (1990's).

They all had the same characteristics:
1. Some emotional damage (default; usually applies to navy chicks anyways)
2. 5s or 6s at best
3. Were "making the rounds" with the other guys in the baracks
4. Would say they "couldn't get pregnant".

It never failed; they would end up pregnant, and had three or four suspects as for who the father was. It was always fun watching the guys sweat, and feeling bad for the simp who accepted the responsibility.

Once when I was shit-faced drunk (thanks tequilla), one of the hoes who had been pursuing me was rubbing on me quite a bit in front of everybody. I still had the sense to turn her down. When the guys gave me shit for turning down guaranteed pussy, I just laughed and said "I'm so drunk, I probably couldn't get it up anyways." She still pursued me after that rejection. I just started being impolite to her afterward; she finally got the message. Sure enough, she got pregnant too.

[Golden Gun]

I turned down a few of my female friends that in my earlier blue pill-ness I felt bad about fucking. They were practically throwing themselves at me. I regretted it every time, after a while. I'm working on fixing my mistakes with them.

[LeoneVolpe]

In the past, I've turned down girls who were making it too easy for me. I know that probably sounds retarded and completely self-defeating but hear me out...It's only human nature to appreciate something you've had to work for more than something you got for free. It's that same principle at work.

When a girl is too willing to give her most valuable asset away for nothing, I start questioning its value. It's like my brain pulls its own version of the fucking reverse psychology scene from "Who Framed Roger Rabbit."

Her: You can have this pussy.
Me: I don't want it.
Her: You can have this pussy.
Me: I don't want it.
Her: You can't have this pussy.
Me: But I want it!

As much as I'd like to believe I'm just that awesome to get a girl into bed right away, I know better. If she's done it with me, she's done it with plenty of other guys and it's a major turn-off. I don't always turn down sloots, but when I do it's because they haven't made me put in any work. Admittedly, there have been times I've later regretted such decisions, but more often than not I've felt good about my choices.

I'm fully aware a girl could be a complete sloot and still play hard to get, but for some reason her making me work for it (at least a little bit) makes me feel better about partaking in it.

[McCarthy]

(09-14-2016 01:34 AM)pialox Wrote:  

She messages me saying "Why the fuck did you get out?"
Me: "I couldnt be fucked having to get back home from the sticks"
Her: ""Youre an idiot i totally was going to fuck you"
Me: "Yeh I know, but too much effort"
Her: "Fuck you"

Women don't fuck, they are fucked by.

It is unbelievable how behaviorally masculine women have become these days.

[McCarthy]

(12-15-2016 02:46 AM)LeoneVolpe Wrote:  

As much as I'd like to believe I'm just that awesome to get a girl into bed right away, I know better. If she's done it with me, she's done it with plenty of other guys and it's a major turn-off. I don't always turn down sloots, but when I do it's because they haven't made me put in any work. Admittedly, there have been times I've later regretted such decisions, but more often than not I've felt good about my choices.

I'm fully aware a girl could be a complete sloot and still play hard to get, but for some reason her making me work for it (at least a little bit) makes me feel better about partaking in it.

At some point, I realized that girls I was banging were enjoying sex more than I did. I was a huge turn off. After doing the effort of the "dating" procedure, they were getting more than me than I was getting from them.

We men are totally wired to reject promiscuous women.

[Meat Head]

I met a girl with HIV and she invited me over to her place. I said no.

[kinjutsu]

(12-15-2016 05:47 AM)Meat Head Wrote:  

I met a girl with HIV and she invited me over to her place. I said no.

She openly told you she had HIV?
At least she was honest...

I know in some places you must notify the person if you are HIV positive. There can be murder charges placed if the person doesn't.

[Rob Banks]

One time I went to the corner store on my block to buy something, and as I'm walking back to my building, this piss-drunk Hispanic woman who looked like she was in her mid-30s (I was 23 at the time) approaches me. She was so drunk that she could barely walk, and she follows me to my front door and asks if she can come in. I open the front door and she comes into the hallway gets real close to me and wants to come up to my apartment (although she was so drunk I doubt she was even aware of what she was doing). I thought about it for a second and then pushed her back out the door. About 30 seconds later, two Hispanic guys show up and take her away, yelling at her for walking away from them on her own like that. I could have easily taken her up to my apartment and fucked her, and the Hispanic guys would have had no idea where she was.

Additionally, I have turned down several notches over the years because I didn't want to have sex without condoms (and I'm not someone with a tremendous amount of notches to begin with). The reason I did this is because I was always taught from a young age (by my liberal dad) to never have sex without a condom, because you can easily get a girl pregnant without cumming inside her (which I now know is bullshit). When I finally fucked without a condom, it felt so good that I don't think I'll ever fuck with a condom again.