[jbird669]

Just curious, what are your longest sexua! drought before and after taking red pill in a LTR? Curious to see how this differs once you take up game.

[Tex]

Are you asking what effect the red pill has on how often your LTR holds sex from you? If it is, a better title would be helpful.

[jbird669]

That is what I mean. Title updated.

[Tex]

(09-09-2016 10:51 PM)jbird669 Wrote:  

That is what I mean. Title updated.

I'm going to answer your question with a bit of a non-answer, because it gets to the underlying issue of what you're asking.

I took the red pill on the tail-end of a shit LTR I got into my junior year of high school. Did so out of a lack of abundance mentality. I thought I was never going to date a girl hotter than a 6. My girl was a 5.5.

I was 20. You can gauge this a bit by the date I joined the forum.

After that change in mindset, I dropped her and collected all the sexual experience I missed in high school (and the beginning of college). Compared to my previous notch count (1), I was killing it and racking up international girls like a god damn Six Flags.

The subsequent attitude led to a few realizations:

1) I do not need an LTR for constant sex;
2) I do not need a girl to feel happy;
3) I am what I was missing in my life.

The increased sex and overall female attention I made totally eclipsed what I had. And it changed me.

So, while I've hit draughts because of atrophy in the small social circle I built and lack of time going out (being serious about school will do that), I never tried to get an LTR, because I didn't need to do it for sex. The idea of an LTR where you have to put up with a girl withholding sex seemed to me like using a canoe to drag race on the freeway.

Point is, the red pill view of the world has different effects on different people. Draught in an LTR for guys who see the world this way probably is counterintuitive. It isn't something you have to or should deal with.

So, comparing a normal guy's draught tolerance in an LTR to a "red pill" guy is like comparing how long a blind guy can stare at the sun as compared to a guy who can see.

The blind guy can tolerate it but does it for no reason. The guy who can see simply can't take it because he's trying to protect an asset the blind guy doesn't have (his sight).

For guys with game, that's time. Your time as a dude with game is 50x more valuable than a guy with no game, because the opportunity cost for sex and better girls is ridiculously high compared to the no-game guy.

Not the answer you want but it's the answer I want to give you.

[General Stalin]

I've never had a girl withold sex from me in a LTR period. Who the fuck puts up with that? Closest I've got is a girl I dated who lived an hour away. We only hung out on weekends so I only got laid on the weekends.

I have not had a LTR since taking the red pill.

[jbird669]

Thanks for responding. My neighbor claims to have taken the red pill but hasn't gotten any in the last two weeks. He tries to justify it by saying he only saw her two days total during that time.

I am glad to know I'm thinking along the lines of others. I just dropped one of the girls I was seeing because we hung out twice and nothing happened afterwards. She went to bed, I got up, left and blocked her # from my phone. Good thing I also took the advice of never letting a girl see where you live.

[jbird669]

Tex, that answer helps me quite a bit. Thank you. Regarding these international gals, did you go overseas to get them? I'm divorced with a tween son. I cant get up and move out of the country.

[Gmac]

(09-10-2016 02:35 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  

I've never had a girl withold sex from me in a LTR period. Who the fuck puts up with that? Closest I've got is a girl I dated who lived an hour away. We only hung out on weekends so I only got laid on the weekends.

I have not had a LTR since taking the red pill.

I had a few month's drought with my ex-fiance who I lived with. Drifted further apart because of it and eventually ended things and moved out.

Afterward I experienced the occasional drought but it didn't last for more than a few months then either. You bounce back. Today, no issues.

[jbird669]

GMAC, was that occasional drought while you were single or dating?

[Tex]

(09-10-2016 03:20 PM)jbird669 Wrote:  

Tex, that answer helps me quite a bit. Thank you. Regarding these international gals, did you go overseas to get them? I'm divorced with a tween son. I cant get up and move out of the country.

Yeah, I got all my European flags by going off to Europe and banging them there.

However, I got my Panamanian flag while in university here. They were exchange students and I swooped in on a couple of them, banged one.

You can go do some research and volunteer your time to help some exchange students at your local college and do the same thing I did. Just pivot your situation to get what you want. I could've made excuses and said "Oh, I'm a poor college student trying to get honors and two degrees, I should focus on school and not waste time on trying to get flags." But I wanted flags so I got flags.

I could write a datasheet on banging ESL students at universities, so if that's an avenue you want to pursue PM me.

[General Stalin]

I honestly don't keep track of my waxing/waining periods of sex since I've gone the non-monogamous/player route so I honestly have no clue what my longest dry spell has been since taking the red pill and "gamin' these hoes" as they say. If I had to take a best educated guess maybe like 3-4 weeks tops?

After my last legitimate exclusive long term relationship back in like 2013 I kinda went in monk mode and went like 3-4 months without having sex with anyone. then I porked a fat girl to bust the slump and started hooking up with girls regularly ever since.

[Gmac]

(09-10-2016 05:13 PM)jbird669 Wrote:  

GMAC, was that occasional drought while you were single or dating?

Single. Aside from the example I gave, the only other time I had issues while dating was this indian girl from my beta days. Otherwise I've never had an issue while going on dates or seeing someone.