[Svoboda]

I've been thinking about this past year since I became a member.
And I'm wondering if being more aware of game increasing your skills (personally I think I grew most in keeping frame) and having more options make you less likely to stay with one woman?

Does game make the grass greener on the other side?

[Cr33pin]

The grass is always greener on the other side

[nmmoooreland20]

Yes. True in just about anything. The more options you perceive, typically the more unhappy you will be (to a certain extent). This is because our brains over value "Opportunity Cost."

Strictly speaking, Opportunity Cost is the value of our next best option. For example if you go on vacation in the Philipppines, your next best option that you're missing out on is a trip to Bangkok.

However, our brain tends to add up the value of all our other options (trip to Bangkok + trip to Kiev + trip to Rio), when in reality it would be impossible to actually enjoy all the other options.

[spokepoker]

No, I don't think it does. It just makes it easier for you to taste the grass over each side of the fence, and in effect let's you realize, grass is grass, I'm hungry time to go eat. When your taste changes, you are no longer hampered by the fence, and are free to sample grass everywhere.

[Jones]

Yes, RVF is the other side.

Be careful when crossing that bridge to get to the other side.

These guys like to hid there.

[MKDAWUSS]

Somewhere, the grass will be greener. Somewhere, the grass will be yellower.

Someone's always going to have something better than what you have. And someone's always to have something worse than what you have.

[wi30]

This forum will make you aware of the possibilities available to you, if you choose to take the red pill and experience all life has to offer.



Trust me, you will find a high quality woman with the knowledge you gain here. You will stay with that woman for a particular period of time. You will think she is the one. You'll fall back on your self improvement and ignore the manosphere because you found "the one".

Things will go south. You'll break up, shit will be harder than you ever realized. You'll work on dropping the 20lbs you gained dating that broad. You'll fuck around for a while and find another "one". The cycle will or will not repeat endlessly.

Unfortunately I can't tell you how to win the game. It's different for everyone. Most guys never reach a level above what I've described.

But there's a handful of guys on this forum who have achieved a level of consciousness above the dating game. There's only a few dozen and I'm definitely not one of them. They've made themselves bulletproof.

Spend time reading posts made by the greats. You'll learn a ton. I hope to someday achieve that bulletproof status, but as of now, I have a long way to go.

Absorb what you can and spend every fucking day making yourself a better "you".

[Barron]

Where the Disney movie ideals of romance die is where the real adventure begins. Always look back on your progress as a point of reference for measuring your ongoing willingness to step outside your comfort zone. Keep facing that fear and keep growing, or don't, and stagnate.

Revelation #1: Relationships are not romantic by default. All relationships are a game, and to win at any game you have to be willing to lose.

Revelation #2: When you've successfully divorced ego from sex, congratulations. Now you're ready to plow the women of your choosing.

Revelation #3: Being willing to lose, where women are concerned, doesn't have any kind of diminishing effect on your relationships should you choose to have them. In fact it enhances and makes all your interactions with friends, family, people you work with, women, etc., more authentic and genuine (you find out what really makes you happy).

Revelation #4: Becoming "Bulletproof" only happens when you have made a habit of going beyond your comfort zone on a daily basis (working to pursue your happiness), and found success. The real reward one finds in doing so isn't in money or women, these are just symptoms of success. It's the knowledge you gain of yourself, and second to that, the male friends you make along the way.

Game makes the grass you stand on greener.